Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's .... Well you may really have an X after this week's episode. In today’s Valentine’s Day special, we start by pulling back the curtain on last week’s Findom episode and go fully behind the scenes of what actually happened before the Zoom call from money expectations to boundaries, agreements, and what needed to be secured on both sides. Then we get into Valentine’s Day itself: the one day a man truly has to show up. I call my girlfriends in relationships, my single friends, and the girls “talking to someone” to ask the real question what’s the standard and what should you actually expect? We also talk dating, boundaries, self-respect, and why two situations I tried this year didn’t make it past the talking stage. Because Valentine’s Day doesn’t lie it shows you exactly where you stand. ✨ If he wanted to, he would. And this episode explains why.

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Hey guys, welcome back my X's 🤍

In this episode, we dive into a real, honest conversation about financial domination (findom) and what it actually looks like beyond the stereotypes. My guest breaks down when he first realized he was a loser and, how it showed up in his life, and what initially sparked his interest. We talk about whether this desire connects to upbringing or psychology, his experience with therapy, and how this dynamic functions as a form of escape rather than control in his everyday life. We also explore the contrast between his public identity and private desires how he runs a successful business, makes high-stakes decisions all day, and why surrendering control is what brings him relief. We discuss dating, real-world relationships, spending habits, and how power dynamics play out both personally and professionally. This episode includes an open discussion and live example of findom dynamics, as well as a deeper look at how desire, control, and identity intersect in modern relationships. This conversation is educational, psychological, and unfiltered intended to inform, not glamorize along with a few treats for the goddess.

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Hey guys, welcome back my X's 🤍

This week's episode starts off heavy lol. I had a full- on mental Breakdown realizing I turned 30 lol.I start by sharing 30 things I’ve learned while turning 30, and then Tanya jumps in with her own thoughts. We reminisce about celebrating 10 birthdays together, what it’s like sharing a birthday with your roommate (who also moved from Canada and started this journey with you), and our quirky two-year, two-day Aquarius connection. Of course, we blow out candles, sip champagne, gossip a little, and laugh about what it really means to hit the big 3-0. 🥳

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Where to find Tanya 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/tarossii/?hl=en

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