In this episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah sits down with author and sex educator Max Hovey to dismantle the harmful "No Fats, No Fems" culture within the LGBTQ+ community. Max shares his journey from a toxic all-boys school in Kent to becoming a leading voice in body image advocacy and queer advocacy.

We dive deep into:

•The reality of internalized homophobia and the "queer toxicity phase."

•Unpacking the "it's just a preference" defense on dating apps.

•The history of tribe culture, the hanky code, and the creation of the Bear tribe.

•Cis white gay privilege and the importance of community unity.

•How representation (or lack thereof) shapes our desires.

This is not everything! We’re heading over to our Patreon Exclusive channel where we lose the filter. We’re talking to Max as a sex educator about the boom in transmasc porn, the psychology of sexual arousal vs. attraction, and the truth about aftercare in queer spaces. You don't want to miss this spicy bonus part!

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Pavie sits down with the amazing LouLou to discuss her journey as a trans woman, offering a candid look into her experiences with gender transition, medical transition, and navigating life as a transgender individual.

LouLou shares her personal story, from realizing her trans identity at a young age to the pivotal role of supportive parents in her HRT and breast augmentation journey. She opens up about the complexities of gender dysphoria, emphasizing that it’s a lifelong process of learning to cope, and the importance of patience during transition.

This episode goes deep into crucial topics like mental health within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly for trans women dealing with depression and societal pressures. LouLou offers powerful advice on finding interests outside of one’s trans identity and giving oneself grace during difficult times. We also tackle the challenging landscape of trans rights and the current political climate, highlighting the need for respect and education.

LouLou gets real about dating as a trans woman, sharing both the struggles of being kept a secret and the joys of finding genuine connection. She discusses the unique dynamics of TFT relationships (Trans-Femme Trans-Masc) and her personal desire for a bi-awakening.

This is an unfiltered conversation that exposes everything they never told you about being trans. Don’t miss this discussion on transgender experiences, gender identity, LGBTQ+ advocacy, and dating as a trans woman.

Today on Trans Crush, I sit down with Steven for a very honest conversation about attraction, shame, and finally admitting to yourself what you feel.

We talk about the first time he realised he was attracted to trans women, why he kept it hidden for so long, and how social pressure and anxiety shaped that silence. He opens up about what it means to stop hiding and start being honest with yourself.

Steven also shares how he sees relationships, what he is really drawn to, and why happiness comes from accepting who you are attracted to. Later in the conversation, he talks about his autism diagnosis and how it helped him understand himself more clearly.

A conversation about honesty, self acceptance, and saying things out loud for the first time.

Watch the exclusive part here: https://patreon.com/transcrush/