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Talking About A Carpool

Talking About A Carpool

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Talking About a Carpool takes you inside the real rugby journey. From schoolyard dreams to the professional stage, we unpack what it’s like to chase a contract overseas. Hear stories, lessons, and insights on pathways through Europe’s top competitions — Top 14, ProD2, Premiership, Championship, URC, and the European Cups. Whether you’re a young player, parent, or fan, this podcast helps you understand the opportunities, challenges, and choices behind pursuing rugby abroad — told with honesty, experience, and a carpool vibe.Talking About A Carpool Rugby
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  • Talking About A Carpool: Episode 17 – European Champions Cup: The Elite Competition You Need to Know About
    Jan 12 2026

    This week on Talking About A Carpool, hosts ofahelotu (Sydney, Australia) and Semisi Telefoni, aka "The Wine Chief" (Auckland, New Zealand), dive deep into the European Champions Cup and Challenge Cup—the premier club rugby competitions in the world. The hosts break down why Australian and New Zealand players should be looking at Europe as a primary pathway, not just a backup plan, and explain the structure, opportunities, and massive scale of European professional rugby.

    Segment 1: Talk Story

    Starts at (1:02)

    The hosts catch up on family life, with Semisi celebrating his son Hosea's 21st birthday. They reminisce about Jose's journey growing up in France as a 4-year-old, navigating a foreign school system, and keeping his fluent French skills a secret in his New Zealand French class. The conversation touches on the unique experiences of raising families while playing professional rugby abroad.

    Segment 2: Da Latest Scoop

    Starts at (4:56)

    A comprehensive roundup of the latest results from European rugby competitions, featuring:

    • The hosts' new tipping competition results (Ofa leads 18-17)

    • Standout matches including Bristol's 61-49 victory over Bulls in South Africa and Brive's dominant 61-22 win over Bayonne

    • Discussion of memorable post-match traditions in French rugby, particularly the legendary hospitality at Dax

    • Highlights from Champions Cup and Challenge Cup matches

    • Analysis of promotion/relegation battles in Pro D2

    All detailed results and tables are available on their social media: TikTok and Instagram @talkingabouta.carpool

    Segment 3: Da Kuleana – Responsibility (Education Segment: European Champions Cup & EPCR)

    Starts at (24:32)

    An in-depth exploration of European professional club rugby and why it matters for players from Australia and New Zealand:

    • What is EPCR? Understanding the European Professional Club Rugby organization and its two major competitions: Champions Cup and Challenge Cup

    • The Competition Structure: How 24 teams from Premiership Rugby (England), Top 14 (France), and United Rugby Championship (Ireland, Wales, Scotland, Italy, South Africa) compete in pool stages leading to knockout rounds

    • The Numbers: 1.1 million spectators per season, 70 million global viewers, broadcast to 100+ countries, and 82,300 fans at the 2024 final

    • The Clubs: Heavyweight teams including Toulouse (6 European titles), Toulon (the "Real Madrid of rugby"), Clermont, Leicester Tigers, Leinster, Munster, and South African franchises

    • Player Opportunities:

    • 70 professional clubs across Europe vs. 11 in Australia/NZ combined

    • Extended careers into players' thirties due to larger squad sizes and rotation

    • Different playing styles that suit Islander and heavier-set players

    • International experience playing against and alongside the world's best

    • Travel opportunities across Europe, from Scotland to South Africa

    • What Clubs Want: Team players who respect the culture, work hard, integrate with teammates, and understand that European rugby is different—not inferior—to Southern Hemisphere rugby

    • Why It Should Be Plan A, Not Plan B: The hosts emphasize going to Europe young (20-22) rather than waiting until late twenties, allowing players to either build long careers or fulfill their professional dreams early and return home to start new careers

    • Qualification Advantages: Players with European passports (French, English, Irish, etc.) have immediate work rights and don't face visa barriers

    Outro

    Starts at (78:30)

    Send questions to talkingaboutacarpo@gmail.com for future episodes.

    Music Credit:

    Intro and Outro Music by Wesley Winn - I B U (All my life)

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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Talking About A Carpool: Episode 16 – External Support to finalise our Support Network as a Professional Rugby Player
    Jan 5 2026

    This week on Talking About A Carpool, hosts ofahelotu (Sydney, Australia) and Semisi Telefoni, aka “The Wine Chief” (Auckland, New Zealand), return from the holiday break to reflect on family, gratitude, and the evolving journey of rugby players. They dive into the importance of building strong support networks, review the latest in European rugby, and share their vision for making the podcast more engaging and impactful in the new year.

    Segment 1: Holiday Reflections & Rugby Journeys

    Starts at (0:05)

    ofahelotu and Semisi catch up after the holidays, sharing stories of family gatherings, festive meals, and the joys (and challenges) of parenting during school breaks. They reflect on the podcast’s growth, the value of rugby experiences across Australia, New Zealand, and Europe, and their hopes to inspire young players and parents navigating the rugby pathway.

    Segment 2: Da Latest Scoop – European Rugby Roundup

    Starts at (6:14)

    The hosts revamp their approach to rugby news, focusing on highlights and directing listeners to their social channels for detailed scores and tables. Key topics include:

    • Premiership Rugby: Northampton leads, Newcastle celebrates its first win, and the ongoing debate over promotion and relegation.

    • Championship Rugby: Ealing dominates, Cambridge struggles, and the race for promotion heats up.

    • United Rugby Championship: Stormers, Glasgow, and Munster battle for top spots; Scarlets and Zebre fight at the bottom.

    • Top 14: Toulouse edges ahead, Bordeaux and Lyon chase, and big upsets keep fans on their toes.

    • Pro D2: Vannes leads, tight competition in the mid-table, and the unique challenges of the season’s midpoint.

    Segment 3: Da Kuleana – The Network: Inner Circle, Representation, and External Support

    Starts at (20:09)

    A deep dive into the essential support systems for rugby players:

    • The Inner Circle: Family, close friends, coaches, and mentors who shape character and provide daily support.

    • Club Environment: The roles of coaches, physios, and teammates at every stage, from amateur to professional.

    • Representation: Agents, business advisors, and the importance of building a trustworthy team—drawing parallels to high-profile athletes like LeBron James.

    • External Support: Faith leaders, cultural elders, life mentors, psychologists, and former players who offer guidance beyond the pitch.

    • The value of mental health support, community connections, and learning from books, podcasts, and personal experiences. The hosts emphasize the importance of reaching out, sharing struggles, and building a network that protects identity, perspective, and long-term wellbeing.

    Segment 4: Da Big Wave – Podcast Evolution & Club Spotlights

    Starts at (40:04)

    ofahelotu and Semisi discuss their goals for the podcast in 2025, including:

    • Growing their audience to 1,000 listens by leveraging TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube.

    • Shifting the “Latest Scoop” to focus on standout moments and unusual results, rather than reciting scores.

    • Introducing new segments spotlighting clubs from different competitions, exploring their history, culture, and unique stories.

    • Launching a tipping competition with a fun twist for the loser. The hosts share personal goals for the year, from career ambitions to family life and faith, and preview next week’s episode on pathways and opportunities in rugby.

    Outro

    Send your questions or topic suggestions to talkingaboutacarpo@gmail.com.

    Follow Talking About A Carpool on TikTok and Instagram for updates, scores, and behind-the-scenes content.

    Music Credit:

    Intro and Outro Music by Wesley Winn - I B U (All my life)

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    This episode is packed with insights, laughter, and practical advice for rugby players, parents, and fans alike. Don’t forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, and join the conversation on social media!


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    54 mins
  • Talking About A Carpool: Episode 15 - A Quick look at Goal Setting for Rugby Players & 2026
    Dec 29 2025

    This week on Talking About A Carpool, host ofahelotu (Sydney, Australia) flies solo as Semisi Telefoni, “The Wine Chief,” is away with family for the holidays. Ofa keeps the tradition alive with a reflective episode focused on the importance of goal setting for rugby players, drawing on personal experience and practical advice as the year comes to a close. From the latest European rugby results to the deeper meaning of SMART goals and the value of community, this episode is packed with insights for players, coaches, and fans alike.

    Segment 1: Da Latest Scoop – European Rugby Roundup

    Starts at (1:26)

    Fran recaps the latest action from the European rugby scene, covering key results and league tables across major competitions:

    • Premiership Rugby: Standout matches, shifting standings, and the battle for finals positions

    • Championship Rugby: Notable wins, relegation battles, and the impact of the holiday break

    • United Rugby Championship (URC): Derby weekend highlights, South African teams’ standings, and playoff implications

    • Top 14 (France): Big wins, surprise upsets, and a look at the top and bottom of the table

    • Discussion of the Pro D2 break and anticipation for the season’s resumption

    Segment 2: Da Kuleana – Goal Setting for the New Year

    Starts at (13:30)

    With the new year approaching, Ofa touches on goal setting for rugby players:

    • The SMART framework: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound

    • Personal reflections on setting and pursuing ambitious goals, overcoming limitations, and the importance of dreaming big

    • The difference between outcome goals (contracts, selections) and process goals (habits, preparation)

    • Practical examples: Nutrition, training routines, skill development, and reviewing performance

    • The Andries Pretorius framework: Addressing goals as a person, athlete, and rugby player

    • The critical role of reviewing and tracking goals, not just setting them

    Segment 3: Building Community and Growing the Podcast

    Starts at (45:27)

    Ofa shares aspirations for the podcast and the broader rugby community:

    • Setting a specific, measurable goal for the podcast: reaching 1,000 listens in the coming year

    • Strategies for growth: Social media presence, YouTube expansion, and engaging young Islander audiences

    • The unique sense of community in rugby, both locally and internationally

    • Encouragement for listeners to set their own goals and support each other’s journeys

    Outro

    Contact us with your questions or feedback at talkingaboutacarpo@gmail.com.

    Help us reach our goal of 1,000 listens by subscribing, sharing, and following us on social media and YouTube.


    Music Credit:

    Intro and Outro Music by Wesley Winn - I B U (All my life)

    Happy New Year from Talking About A Carpool! Thank you for being part of our community - dream big, set your goals, and see you in 2026!

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    55 mins
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