Barry explores why men stop talking. Discover the impacts of silence, the importance of using your voice, and the crucial role of brotherhood in overcoming isolation. Speak up, your voice matters!

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00:00 The Cost of Silence

01:25 Why Men Stop Talking

03:44 The Burden Men Carry

10:04 The Importance of Brotherhood

13:38 The Power of Vulnerability

14:44 Resources and Support

15:45 Conclusion: Finding Your Voice

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Why don't most Men don’t share everything with their wife? —and what does that actually mean? Today Barry talks to the ladies on why men withhold emotional and mental stress from their partners. He discusses the inherent differences between men and women and offers strategies for fostering better communication and understanding in relationships.

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00:00 Why Men Withhold Emotions

01:08 Understanding Men's Emotional Vulnerability

02:23 The Risk of Sharing Emotions

03:33 Women's Role in Men's Emotional Health

04:33 Biological and Psychological Differences

05:57 The Impact of Emotional Sharing on Relationships

07:50 Men as Emotional Regulators

11:26 Connection vs. Containment

16:48 The Biblical Perspective

20:28 The Need for Male Brotherhood

22:20 Embracing Your Role

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Explore the inefficacy of inauthentic apologies and learn five essential steps to create a culture of true repentance and emotional regulation. Barry offers how to foster healthier relationships and effective conflict resolution within your family, shifting from shame to transformation.

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00:00 The Problem with Saying 'I'm Sorry'

00:55 Psychology Behind Apologies

01:54 Pitfalls of Inauthentic Apologies

02:39 Importance of Genuine Apologies

05:13 Five Ways to Determine an Authentic Apology

17:58 Healthy Alternatives to 'Sorry'

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Barry interviews his friend Jeff, who shares his remarkable journey from building nightclubs to becoming a successful real estate mogul. The conversation delves into Jeff's experiences in martial arts, his venture into politics, and his spiritual transformation. Jeff offers valuable insights on achieving financial success, serving others, and the importance of seeking God's guidance in life.

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00:00 Introducing Jeff Goelz

01:11 Real Estate Journey and International Ventures

05:18 Martial Arts and Personal Transformation

07:29 Faith, Politics, and Personal Reflections

19:50 Embracing Change and Following Christ

22:00 Money Management and Career Wisdom

23:08 Insights from Successful People

30:46 End Times and Biblical Reflections

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Barry explores the legacies of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes, two men who's lives drastically affected their future generations in opposite ways. Discover how the decisions you make today can shape the future for generations to come. Are you ready to build a legacy worth leaving?

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00:00 Introduction to Legacy

00:34 The Story of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes

02:09 Jonathan Edwards' Legacy

07:51 Max Jukes' Legacy

09:11 Reflecting on Your Own Legacy

11:17 Understanding Identity and Resources

13:52 The Importance of Stewardship

18:36 Seeking Guidance and Mentorship

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The most requested guest so far is... Barry's wife, Heather! Join Barry and Heather as they dive into their powerful journey from brokenness to healing. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust after divorce, overcoming depression with community, and what legacy for them looks like for empty nesters.

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00:00 The Most Requested Guest

01:06 Unpacking the Impact of Fatherlessness

02:35 Personal Stories and Reflections

04:28 Preventative Measures and Legacy Building

06:44 Heather's Spiritual Journey

07:44 Meeting and Early Interactions

09:16 Developing a Relationship

15:45 Heather's Struggles and Support System

21:26 The Power of Worship and Community

26:45 The Importance of a Faith Community

27:32 Trust and Healing

30:42 Finding Supportive Friends

33:00 Developing a Relationship

36:15 Sabbatical and Growing Closer

39:29 Advice for New Relationships

42:55 Unpacking Emotional Baggage

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Everyone faces their own battles. But with God, a greater story awaits. Steve Burkes exemplifies that. Barry talks to his former college classmate, Pastor Steve Burkes today. Steve is a pastor and politician from Floyd County, Indiana. From overcoming a challenging childhood, being raised by a single mother in poverty to rising as a key influencer and a devoted father, Pastor Burkes' journey is a testament to resilience and faith. Hear firsthand about his formative years, pivotal moments in college, and his unexpected path into ministry and public service.

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00:00 The Pastor and the Politician

00:28 Meet Pastor Steve Burkes

00:52 Reminiscing College Days

02:39 Journey to Southeastern College

03:33 Memorable Moments at Southeastern

07:17 Spiritual Awakening

12:59 Early Life Struggles

24:04 Meeting His Wife

29:04 Early Ministry and Marriage

30:27 Transition to New Albany

32:29 Church Productions and Excellence

33:21 Heaven's Gates, Hell's Flames Ministry

36:46 Becoming the Next Pastor

40:48 Family and Ministry Involvement

44:58 Political Journey and Community Involvement

55:51 Encouragement for Fathers

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Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference.

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00:00 My First Driving Lesson

00:51 Lessons From Grandpa

03:48 Lessons From Driver's Ed Teacher

06:04 Reflecting on Driving Lessons

08:29 Fatherhood: The Ultimate Driving Lesson

10:40 The Importance of Spiritual Fathers

12:13 Taking Responsibility and Learning

14:32 Humility and Teachability in Fatherhood

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