One of the biggest fears people have when they stop drinking is this: "Is life without alcohol boring?"

If you’re worried that an alcohol-free life means the end of your social life or fun, this video is for you. In this episode of The Alcohol Myth, Ellen Biggs and Jonathan Ball tackle the misconception that sobriety is dull and explains why alcohol actually steals your ability to enjoy everyday moments.

We dive into the psychology behind why we feel bored when we first quit, how to reset your dopamine levels, and the secrets to finding genuine excitement in sobriety. If you are ready to break free from the bottle and build a life you don't want to escape from, watch this now.

#IsSobrietyBoring #LifeWithoutAlcohol #QuitDrinking #SoberFun #TheAlcoholMyth #EllenBiggs #JonathanBall #DopamineDetox #SoberLiving #RecoveryJourney #alcoholfree

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Have you ever woken up at 3:00 a.m. with a racing heart, feeling a sense of regret and frustration, only to look around and see everyone else drinking just like you? You might be a gray area drinker.

In this episode of The Alcohol Myth Podcast, coaches Jonathan and Ellen dive into the "messy middle"—that space where you’re drinking more than you want to, but you don't necessarily fit the stereotypical label of an "alcoholic." We discuss why the current labels often keep people stuck in a cycle of shame and why you don’t need to hit "rock bottom" to make a positive change.

By understanding the science of how alcohol affects the body and utilizing effective liminal psychology (as taught in This Naked Mind), you can change your relationship with alcohol from the inside out.

In this video, you’ll learn:

What gray area drinking (or "middle lane drinking") actually is.
Why the term "alcoholic" can be a barrier to seeking help.
The reality of Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD) as a spectrum.
How to separate your identity from the substance.
Why the life you imagine without alcohol is actually more fulfilling than the one you have now.

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🕒 Chapter Timestamps
0:00 - The Internal Shift Needed for Real Change
1:10 - Defining "Gray Area Drinking"
2:02 - Ellen’s Story: The Lonely Space of the "Messy Middle"
4:08 - The Stigma of the Label "Alcoholic"
6:17 - Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD) as a Spectrum
8:00 - High-Functioning Drinking and Hiding the Problem
10:58 - Why External Actions (Rehab/Meetings) Aren't Always the Answer
12:02 - The Importance of Community and Support
13:37 - Methodology: Changing How You Want to Feel
15:30 - Understanding the Science of Alcohol in the Body
18:27 - Decoupling the Substance from the Self
20:45 - Signs You Might Be a Gray Area Drinker
22:25 - The Myth of the "Rock Bottom"
24:16 - Hope and Life After Alcohol

#GrayAreaDrinking #SoberCurious #ThisNaked Mind #AlcoholMyth #AlcoholFree #Sobriety #PersonalGrowth #AlcoholUseDisorder #MentalHealth

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If you have ever felt like a failure because you had to reset your "sober counter" to zero, this episode is for you.

We have all been there. You get a few days or weeks under your belt, things feel good, and then a "slip" happens. Suddenly, all that progress feels like it was deleted. But what if we stopped looking at those moments as failures and started looking at them as data?

In this episode of The Alcohol Myth, Ellen and I pull back the curtain on how we actually track progress. We talk about the "lengthening" strategy that helps you build momentum without the soul-crushing pressure of "forever." We also dive into the science of dopamine: why things feel "meh" in the beginning and how your brain eventually turns the joy receptors back on.

You do not need more willpower. You just need a better way to understand what you are feeling and why you are reaching for that next drink.

Inside this episode:
The Dopamine Rush: Why doing "impossible" things (like hosting a dinner party without wine) is the ultimate motivator.
To Count or Not to Count: When tracking every day is helpful and when it is time to stop.
The Data Point Secret: How to use a drinking episode to get the "unlock" you need for long term freedom.
Accountability: Why some people need to share their goals and why others should keep them quiet.

Chapters:
0:00 The dopamine rush of doing the "impossible"
1:10 Do you actually know your day count?
3:22 The strategy of "lengthening" your goals
7:15 What alcohol does to your brain's joy receptors
12:05 To tell or not to tell? The accountability debate
22:41 What is a "data point" and why does it matter?
29:01 Better ways to track progress than just a number
35:24 A practical challenge for your next five days

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Do you feel like you’re drinking more than you want to, but don’t feel like you’ve hit a "rock bottom"?

In this episode of the Alcohol Myth Podcast, coaches Ellen Biggs and Jonathan pull back the curtain on the dominant narrative that you have to lose everything before you can choose a different path. We explore the concept of the "Unwelcome Invitation"—those uncomfortable moments, health scares, or quiet realizations that act as a catalyst for change long before a crisis occurs.

Whether you identify as "sober curious" or are looking for a new way to understand your relationship with alcohol without labels like "alcoholic" or the traditional 12-step approach, this conversation is for you. We discuss the power of self-compassion, the science of effective liminal psychology, and why alcohol is often just a "shitty consolation prize" keeping you from a bigger life.

In this episode, we cover:

Why the "Rock Bottom" myth is damaging and keeps people trapped.

How to recognize and accept an "Unwelcome Invitation" to change.

The role of self-compassion in building a life you don't want to escape from.

Personal stories of recovery, resilience, and finding freedom through This Naked Mind methodology.

Connect with us: Have questions or a story to share? Email us at thealcoholmyth@gmail.com. We read every message!

Chapters
0:00 - The Importance of the Sober Curious Conversation
1:26 - Defining the "Unwelcome Invitation"
2:42 - Breaking the Rock Bottom Myth: Do You Have to Lose it All?
4:53 - Ellen’s Story: The Quiet Realization Before the Change
7:23 - You Don't Have to Call Yourself an Alcoholic
8:33 - Trying "All the Things" vs. Doing the Internal Work
10:55 - Jonathan’s Experience: DUI Near-Misses and Health Warnings
14:13 - The Turning Point: How Drinking Impacts Those We Love 18:23 - Finding This Naked Mind and the Path to Freedom
21:57 - The Power of Mindfulness and Compassion in Recovery
24:44 - The Journey is the Point: Life on the Other Side
27:40 - How to Accept the Invitation When You’re in Pain
33:02 - Is Alcohol Your "Shitty Consolation Prize"?
35:46 - Why Self-Compassion is a Prerequisite for Change
38:14 - A Message of Hope: It’s Always Darkest Before the Dawn

#SoberCurious #AlcoholFree #ThisNaked Mind #TheAlcoholMyth #Sobriety #SelfCompassion #MindfulDrinking

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Certified Coaches Jonathan Ball and Ellen Biggs of The Alcohol Myth dive deep into Alcohol and Society, the second of the "Three S's" of alcohol (Substance, Society, and Self).

Discover how pervasive drinking culture, societal pressure, and media romanticization influence our choices and make questioning your relationship with alcohol feel isolating.

In this episode, you'll learn about:
Societal Pressure: How the universal need for acceptance and belonging often drives the first drink and continued use.

Media Glorification: The impact of drinking culture and the romanticization of alcohol in media and TV shows (like Scandal and How I Met Your Mother).

The Disconnect: Why the media's failure to show negative consequences (like hangovers, anxiety, or guilt) creates a massive disconnect for those struggling with drinking.

AF Strategies: Practical ways to navigate social scenes on your alcohol-free journey, including going incognito, using AF drinks, and communicating with friends.

Finding Your Tribe: The power of connecting with an alcohol-free community and "Quit Lit" to counter cultural messaging.

Quick Takeaways for Your AF Journey:
Practice Compassion: Understand that the fear about changing your relationships is natural and universal.

Counter the Messages: Actively incorporate stories and communities of people who love sobriety.

It's Your Business: You don't owe anyone an explanation about how to stop drinking; your decision is your own.

Watch the Media: Pay attention to how alcohol is depicted in your favorite TV shows and movies to recognize the pervasive cultural messages.

Timestamps for Navigation:
0:27 - Introducing the hosts and the Three S's (Substance, Society, Self)
1:33 - Societal pressure and the first drink
8:19 - Alcohol is romanticized in media
11:37 - Why the media portrayal is a facade
14:05 - Finding your alcohol-free tribe
19:48 - Fear of change and maintaining belonging
22:28 - Strategies for going "incognito" (AF drinks, texts)
34:39 - Quick tips for starting your alcohol-free journey

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The Alcohol Myth podcast helps you question your relationship with alcohol and navigate your journey without so much pain and anxiety.

#alcoholandsociety #drinkingculture #alcoholfreejourney #sobriety #quittingalcohol #QuitLit #alcoholinmedia #societalpressure #thealcoholmyth

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Have you ever wondered why a few drinks to "relax" often leads to a racing heart and anxiety at 3:00 AM? In this episode of The Alcohol Myth, Jonathan and Ellen break down the actual biology of what alcohol does to the human body.

We often blame ourselves for not having enough willpower, but the truth is often just simple chemistry. We explain the science behind the "stimulant-depressant" cycle, why you can never quite chase down that initial buzz, and the role of chemicals like dynorphin, cortisol, and adrenaline in creating "hangxiety."

If you’ve ever felt shame about your drinking habits, this episode is a must-watch. Learn why your body reacts the way it does, why withdrawal isn't just something that happens to extreme cases, and how to use curiosity and compassion to change your relationship with alcohol.

In this video, we cover:

The Science of "Hangxiety": Why alcohol spikes your stress hormones hours after you stop drinking.

The Dynorphin Effect: Why the "high" from alcohol only lasts 20 minutes and why you feel lower afterwards.

The 3 AM Wake-Up Call: The biological reason you wake up sweaty and anxious in the middle of the night.

The 10-12 Day Reset: How long it actually takes for alcohol to fully leave your system.

Practical Tips: How to use the "Wait" experiment to understand your body's signals.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro: The myth of the "alcoholic" vs. normal drinker

1:07 - Ellen’s Win: Navigating "Firsts" (FFTs) with friends alcohol-free

2:51 - Jonathan’s Win: The power of vulnerability

5:50 - The 3:00 AM Panic: Personal stories of sleeplessness and shame

11:00 - The Science: Stimulant vs. Depressant & The Dynorphin Drop

16:00 - Why you feel anxious: Cortisol, Adrenaline, and the body's fight for homeostasis

22:30 - Practical Tools: Using curiosity and the "Wait" technique

26:40 - The 10-12 Day Rule: Understanding how long alcohol stays in your system

#AlcoholFree #Sobriety #ScienceOfAlcohol #Hangxiety #MentalHealth #TheAlcoholMyth #Wellness #QuitDrinking #biology

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Deciding to take a break from alcohol is a massive first step—but how do you actually get through those critical first few days? Whether you are starting Dry January, a 30-day challenge, or just a personal pause, stringing together those early alcohol-free (AF) days can feel overwhelming.

In this episode of The Alcohol Myth Podcast, coaches Jonathan and Ellen dive deep into the tactical and emotional tools you need to navigate the early stages of sobriety. We share our personal stories—from Ellen’s "driver’s ed" guardrails to Jonathan’s "magic trick" mindset shift—and discuss why community and planning are more important than willpower.

What we cover in this episode:
The Power of Planning: Why you need to plan your evenings down to the minute (including snacks and treats!).

Building Community: Why finding a "shared space" makes the hard days easier.

The Curiosity Mindset: Shifting from "I can't drink" to "What if I don't?"

Self-Compassion: Why beating yourself up is the fastest way to fail.

The Live Alcohol Experiment: How to get daily coaching and support for your alcohol-free journey.

🔗 RESOURCES MENTIONED
Live Alcohol Experiment (January): Join Jonathan and other coaches for 31 days of live support https://go.livealcoholexperiment.com/join-today

Live Naked AF by Annie Grace: Pre-order the new book for special access to the experiment https://thisnakedmind.com/live-naked-af/

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CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro: Life on the other side of alcohol
00:53 Why the first few days are critical
01:58 Ellen’s Story: Using "Guardrails" to get through week one
04:38 The 2 pillars: Community and Planning
07:23 Breaking the isolation: Finding your people
10:34 Moving from 4 days to a 21-day challenge
13:03 Self-Discovery: Redefining your relationship with alcohol
17:41 Advice: Don't make it about "Forever"
19:45 Jonathan’s Story: The "Magic Trick" of mindset shifts
24:20 Dealing with setbacks and grief
32:30 How to join the Live Alcohol Experiment in January
37:02 3 Quick Tips for your first AF days
41:34 Final thoughts: Be kind to yourself

#DryJanuary #AlcoholFree #SobrietyTips #ThisNaked Mind #TheAlcoholMyth #SobrietyPodcast #AlcoholExperiment #MindfulDrinking