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This episode is not about fixing your life. It's about taking inventory. In the spirit of audit season, I'm walking through the idea of a self Audit- looking honestly at where our time, care, energy, and Presence are going, and how they're being met.

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We’ve been taught that expecting less from people is emotional maturity.

But what if that narrative is actually protecting avoidance?

In this episode, I unpack the growing cultural tendency to label expectations as “too much” while normalizing emotional absence, low effort, and unspoken withdrawal. We talk about how “low-maintenance” has become a shield for neglect, how “capacity” is often confused with accountability, and why so many people want the benefits of connection without participating in the labor of it.

This isn’t about forcing people to give what they don’t have.

It’s about being honest about what relationships require—and who pays the cost when others opt out.

Because expectations don’t destroy relationships.

Avoidance does.

People can name patterns, explain their trauma, and articulate their inner world with impressive clarity. But insight alone isn't the same as growth.

In this episode, we unpack why self-awareness without repair becomes self-narration- a way of explaining behavior without changing it. We explore how awareness can turn into a shield, how trauma language gets misused to avoid accountability, and why understanding yourself doesn't automatically make you safe to be in a relationship with.

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