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The Blueprint

The Blueprint

Written by: Jason Smith
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Welcome to The Blueprint Podcast — where we throw out the old blueprint so you can become who you were always meant to be.


I’m Jason Smith — podcaster, coach, and storyteller. I help people reclaim their sense of self, rebuild confidence, and move through life with more direction and purpose.


This podcast is about the work of becoming — what it really takes to rebuild after loss, heartbreak, or major transition. You’ll hear raw conversations, honest insights, and stories from people who’ve had to start over and build something stronger.

Listeners describe the show as direct, grounded, and real — the kind of perspective that helps you make sense of where you are and reminds you of what’s still possible.


Follow @jbirdfit on all platforms or visit https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ to connect, ask a question, or take your next step.


Subscribe wherever you listen — and start taking your power back now.

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Episodes
  • Ep. 135 Moving from "Triggered" to Emotional Activation, Kati Morton, LMFT
    Jan 23 2026

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    In this engaging conversation, Jason Smith and Kati Morton, LMFT explore the complexities of mental health, the power of language, and the importance of uncomfortable conversations. They discuss the impact of social media on perceptions of mental health, the rise of influencer therapists, and the journey of self-discovery through journaling. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-validation, compassion, and understanding in relationships, while also addressing the effects of trauma and the illusion of control. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to embrace their journey of becoming and to cultivate a deeper connection with themselves and others.

    Connect with Kati and get her new book: https://katimorton.com/

    Takeaways

    • Language shapes our understanding of mental health.
    • Emotional activation is a more accurate term than being triggered.
    • Uncomfortable conversations are essential for growth.
    • Generational differences impact our perspectives.
    • Social media can create echo chambers of thought.
    • Influencer therapists may oversimplify complex issues.
    • Journaling can facilitate self-discovery and growth.
    • Self-validation is crucial for emotional health.
    • Reframing relationships can empower individuals.
    • Trauma can lead to dissociation and altered time perception.
    • Compassion is key in understanding differing viewpoints.
    • Values guide our relationships and decisions.
    • The illusion of control can hinder personal growth.
    • Intentional isolation can lead to self-discovery.
    • Post-COVID, many struggle with time perception and trauma.

    Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/

    Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉 https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast

    Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit

    Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

    For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:
    📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com

    Disclaimer:
    The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.

    If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Ep. 134 The Crisis of Connection: Reclaiming Our Voice in 2026, Nick Pollard
    Jan 19 2026

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    In this conversation, Nick Pollard and Jason Smith explore the impact of AI on authenticity in content creation, the challenges faced in the coaching landscape, and the importance of in-person connections. They discuss the shift from social media to more meaningful interactions, the repetitive nature of content creation, and the need for integration over mere consumption of knowledge. The conversation emphasizes the value of storytelling, community feedback, and the evolution of personal branding in the coaching industry.

    Connect with Nick: Nick's Website

    Takeaways

    • AI is impacting the authenticity of content creation.
    • Creativity is being outsourced to AI tools.
    • The coaching landscape is becoming saturated and competitive.
    • In-person connections are becoming more valuable than online interactions.
    • Content creation can feel repetitive and uninspired.
    • The personal growth industry is often seen as a cash grab.
    • Integration of knowledge is more important than consumption.
    • Workshops and in-person events may be the future of coaching.
    • Storytelling is essential for building connections.
    • Feedback from the community is crucial for growth.

    Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/

    Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉 https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast

    Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit

    Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

    For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:
    📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com

    Disclaimer:
    The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.

    If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Ep. 133 Anxious Attachment and the "Power of One": Reclaiming Your Emotional Freedom
    Jan 15 2026

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    People are so eager to change others that they forget a critical question: Does the other person even want to change?

    In this episode, Jason Smith explores the concept of "relational blindness" and why anxiously attached individuals get stuck trying to fix their partners instead of mastering their own inner world. We discuss the sobering reality of Sonder, the grief of letting go of someone's "potential," and why change always starts "By the One."

    Key Topics:

    • Why "fixing" others is a survival strategy for the anxiously attached.
    • Learning to love people for who they are today, not who they could be.
    • Shifting from a "survival state" to a state of flow and emotional freedom.
    • How to reclaim your authority and clean up your side of the street.

    Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/

    Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉 https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast

    Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit

    Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

    For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:
    📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com

    Disclaimer:
    The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.

    If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.

    Support the show

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    7 mins
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