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The Boonie Breakdown

The Boonie Breakdown

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Your source for all things Responsible & Ratchet! If you're not here for honest, candid conversations about sex, love, relationships, pop culture, feminism and a whole lot of other sh*t, then why are you here?! This is where we break. it. down. Join Boonie, with her friends and special guests, for real and off-the-cuff discussions on life's every day happenings. Listen, leave a comment, click a rating and write a review! Then tweet, snap, send a smoke signal or a carrier pigeon--but be sure to tell your friends.Copyright© 2022 The Boonie Breakdown. All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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  • 278 - Raw & Real: HIV, Condoms, and the Sex Recession with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe
    Dec 1 2025

    In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe—award-winning sex researcher, Black feminist scholar, and sexual health expert—to break down the most urgent issues impacting Black women's sexual health in 2025. From HIV prevention to the "sex recession," we tackle the topics many communities aren't talking about but absolutely should be.

    We get into:

    🛡️ HIV & AIDS prevention for Black women and why proactive tools like PrEP for women matter now more than ever
    📉 The rise of the sex recession and why younger generations are having less sex—or turning to more extreme sexual behaviors
    😬 How COVID-19 disrupted sex education, creating new fears and gaps in safer-sex knowledge
    ❌ The decline in condom use and how shifting media narratives changed the national conversation
    🩺 Dr. Shemeka's groundbreaking research on sexual pain disorders in Black women and the intersection with assisted reproductive technologies

    Follow Dr. Shemeka Thorpe:
    📌 Instagram: @drshemeka
    🔗 Stay updated on her research: https://www.drshemeka.com/

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    Chapters 0:18 Welcome Back After Hiatus 5:27 Diving into HIV and Black Women 5:27 Conversations on Sex Education 27:04 Understanding the Sex Recession 33:27 Researching Pain and Pleasure 40:52 Quickfire Breakdown 42:09 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
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    43 mins
  • 277 - Shedding, Shifting, and Skipping Christmas
    Nov 10 2025

    In this solo episode, I'm sounding off on politics, burnout, and why I might be in my season of shedding. Boonie Live: New Orleans—new guests, new energy, and ticket price drops - get tickets here: thebooniebreakdown.com/live.

    Then we get into The Boonie Five Spot:

    🌿 A Season of Shedding
    🎄 Cancel Christmas?
    💄 Celebrity Product Push Fatigue
    📚 Thought Leaders or Thought Leeches?
    🤝 What Support Really Looks Like

    It's honest, funny, and full of reflection as I navigate change and peace in real time.

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    Chapters 0:15 Solo Reflections 4:27 Shedding Season 12:03 Christmas Contemplations 15:39 Celebrity Fatigue 18:31 Thought Leader Tiredness 22:25 Support Redefined
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    27 mins
  • 276 - Swipe Right on Maturity: Inside the Fox Hunters Club with Brownie Marie
    Nov 3 2025
    In this episode, I sit down with Brownie Marie, the visionary founder of Fox Hunters Club, a groundbreaking dating app created for millennial women seeking serious, intentional relationships with Gen X and Baby Boomer men.

    Tired of the superficial swiping and the transactional vibes found on most dating platforms, Brownie set out to build a space that centers authenticity, maturity, and connection—without the sugar daddy stigma.

    We dive deep into:

    💘 The inspiration behind Fox Hunters Club and why it's not your typical age-gap app
    💬 How intentional dating can transform your mindset (and your love life)
    🚫 Why it's time to ditch the "casual only" culture on mainstream apps
    🤖 How AI is shaping the future of modern dating—without replacing real human connection

    Brownie keeps it real about creating a community that values substance over swipes, shares how the app is expanding into the DMV area, and gives tips for overcoming dating fatigue while staying true to yourself. Whether you're curious about dating older partners or just tired of the same old dating app nonsense, this convo offers a refreshing, grown-woman perspective on love and connection in 2025.

    Follow Brownie Marie here:
    📌 Instagram: @browniemarie
    🔗 Learn more about Fox Hunters Club: https://www.foxhuntersclub.com

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    Chapters 0:12 Introduction to Brownie Marie 7:20 The Fox Hunters Club Concept 9:15 Preference for Older Men 11:35 Vetting Process for the App 15:55 Dating Fatigue and Niche Apps 22:25 Intentional Connections vs. Hookup Culture 25:21 The Role of AI in Dating 28:53 Feedback from Users 34:06 Red Flags in Dating Profiles 39:09 Cultural Perspectives on Marriage 42:26 The Value of Dating Apps 45:23 Closing Thoughts and Promotions
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    48 mins
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