If you've ever whispered, "God, what do I do with this grief I can't even name?" — this episode is for you.

So many parents are trying to stay faithful… while quietly carrying spiritual pain no one else sees.
Grief that doesn't have a name.
Disappointment that feels "un-Christian" to admit.
Anguish that lingers, even when you're doing all the "right" things.

In this episode, we talk honestly about the kind of pain that doesn't fit into neat categories — and the courage it takes to stay when your heart feels like it's breaking.

What we cover:

• Why unspoken pain doesn't disappear — it just goes underground

• The difference between doubt and honest faith

• How lament can actually be one of the most faithful things you do

• Naming grief when your child is still alive

• What to pray when you're too tired for long prayers

• Why your sorrow does not disqualify your faithfulness

Take this with you:
You are not just a parent in pain.
You are a parent in position.
And God is still working in the dark.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Last week's episode on releasing shame (Ep 1: "It Wasn't Your Fault")

• Scripture-based reflections on grief and lament

• A simple practice of honest prayer you can begin this week

Resources for you:

1. Morning Worship Text Series (Free)
   This is something I personally use to start many of my weekdays. It's short, simple, and it grounds my heart before I ask for anything. The time of worship includes a song and Scripture read aloud.
   You'll get a morning text with a link to worship — you can listen whenever it fits your rhythm.
   Here's the link: https://sing.theworshipinitiative.com

2. Devotional Recommendation:
   The Hidden Face of God: Finding the Missing Door to the Father Through Lament by Michael Card
   This book will meet you in the deeper place. If you're craving more intimacy with the Father — especially when He feels quiet — this is for you. {This is an affiliate link - it doesn't change anything for you on your end but helps support my ministry if you decide to purchase through this link}

Let's stay connected:
If today's episode spoke to you, would you take a moment to share it with someone who's navigating a similar journey?
You're not alone — and neither are they.

💌 Subscribe, review, or send me a message with what stood out. I'd love to hear from you.

You can connect with Melinda: melinda@melindapatrick.org

As we begin a new year, many parents are carrying more than they expected — unresolved relationships, unanswered prayers, and the quiet weight of loving a child through pain, distance, or deep disagreement.

In this first episode of the Still Faithful series, we slow down together and begin with something essential: releasing shame.

This episode is for parents who are questioning themselves, their faith, or what faithfulness looks like after a hard year. It's a grounding invitation to look back honestly — without self-blame — and to begin moving forward with steadiness, clarity, and grace.

This is not about fixing your child or forcing outcomes.
It's about strengthening you.

• The difference between faithfulness and outcomes

• How to look back at the past year without self-condemnation

• What you may be carrying that was never meant to be yours

• Why faithfulness can coexist with heartbreak

• How to begin a new year grounded rather than striving

• Where have I been harder on myself than God has been?

• What did faithfulness look like for me this past year — even if it felt quiet or unseen?

• What responsibility or guilt do I need to release as I move forward?

You can be deeply faithful and deeply heartbroken at the same time.
Faithfulness does not require resolution — only presence.

As we move through this series, we'll continue to explore how to stay spiritually anchored, emotionally steady, and rooted in love — even when the story isn't finished.

Still Faithful is a season created for Christian parents navigating painful, unresolved parenting journeys — including estrangement, distance, and moments when a child's choices challenge deeply held beliefs.

This series is designed to help you:

• Stay grounded when parenting hurts

• Discern next faithful steps without pressure

• Love well without losing yourself

• Trust God even when outcomes are uncertain

As this year comes to a close, I want to take a moment with you — not to fix anything, not to sum it all up, but simply to pause.

Reflect on these questions:

What did this year ask of you that you didn't expect?

What did you continue to do this year, even when it hurt?

As this year closes, there may be things you're still carrying that were never meant to come with you into the next one.

For just a moment, imagine setting those things down — not forever, but for now.

They do not need to define the threshold you're crossing.

When we return in the new year, we'll be entering a slower, more intentional season together — one focused on helping you stay grounded and faithful when parenting hurts.

If you need a place to land as the new year begins, I'll be here.

For now, take care of yourself.

Rest where you can. Celebrate where you can.

And know that you are not alone.

The holidays can feel especially heavy when your child is walking a path that doesn't reflect the way you raised them — spiritually, morally, or emotionally. If you've ever felt that quiet ache, this episode is meant to bring comfort, clarity, and hope.

In today's conversation, we explore gentle, grace-filled ways to reconnect with your child during the holiday season without pressure, panic, or preaching. You'll hear why your presence matters more than "getting the words right," how to ask open, life-giving questions, and why small moments of warmth can rebuild trust over time.

This is an episode for Christian parents who love deeply, hurt quietly, and want to keep the door open — even when the relationship feels complicated.

Why the holidays magnify the distance, the grief, and the unspoken worries many parents carry.

They may be navigating more fear, shame, or uncertainty than you think — even if they don't show it.

1. Leading with presence over correction

2. Asking questions without hidden agendas

3. Sharing warm memories instead of disappointment

4. Releasing the pressure for holiday moments to "go somewhere"

5. Praying quietly, loving loudly

Simple interactions become the first seeds of reconnection.

You're not failing.
You're navigating something complicated with love and courage.
And God still moves in the places you can't reach.

Save this episode for the tender moments… and feel free to share it with someone who is walking the same road.

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Related episodes of The Bridge Between Us to help with the holidays:

https://melindapatrick.org/2024/12/23/gretchen-stockman-help-for-the-parent-who-has-been-estranged-from-their-child-eps-78/

https://melindapatrick.org/2023/12/17/when-christmas-is-difficult-dont-let-the-enemy-rob-you-of-the-real-meaning-of-the-season-eps-47/

https://melindapatrick.org/2023/11/29/moving-from-fear-to-faith-and-taking-steps-to-have-a-trauma-less-christmas-with-jenn-hand-eps-44/

https://melindapatrick.org/2023/11/15/ways-to-thrive-this-holiday-season-when-skipping-isnt-an-option-eps-42/

Thanksgiving can be a beautiful day — but for many Christian parents of LGBTQ-identified children, it can also be complicated, emotional, or even painful. In this short, heartfelt Thanksgiving episode, Melinda offers encouragement, grounding truth, and three practical ways to prepare your heart before you prepare your home.

If you're carrying tension, uncertainty, or grief into the holiday, this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and remember that God meets you right where you are.

These simple but powerful steps can help bring calm, clarity, and connection to your holiday:

• Set Realistic Expectations

Your child may not respond the way you hope. The conversation may feel awkward. The day may not look like past Thanksgivings.
Give yourself — and them — permission to be human. Release the pressure and embrace the day as it is, not as you wish it were.

• Find the Common Denominator

Regardless of disagreements or differences, there is something true and good you both value.
Maybe it's laughter. Maybe it's family stories, food, football, games, or serving others.
Look for common ground as a way to build connection, not conflict.

• Go In with a Posture of Humility

Before you set the table, set your heart.
Before you open the door to your child, open your heart to Jesus.
Let Him shape your tone, soften your responses, and steady your emotions.
Humility doesn't mean compromise — it means choosing love over winning, and presence over pressure.

If today feels heavy or confusing, these conversations will equip and encourage you:

• Two Sides One Family

• How To Talk About LGBTQ Issues When An Older Sibling Identifies as LGBTQ

• Responding To Family Conflict

• Finding Joy When Your Kids Walk Away

• Help For Estranged Parents

• How To Support Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Endorsing The Identity They Embrace
• Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child with Grace & Truth
• The Loudest Roar

These episodes offer practical language and faith-filled guidance for moments just like this.

Share it with a fellow parent who may be feeling alone this holiday.
And be sure to rate the show — it helps other hurting parents find encouragement and hope.

Connect with Ken Williams: www.changedmovement.com