Who are you when you take off the uniform?

This week on The Cool Fireman Podcast, Adam and Doug take a different approach. Instead of talking tactics, leadership, and firehouse culture, they're diving into something every firefighter eventually has to face: life outside the firehouse.

After more than 20 years in the fire service, the job becomes a huge part of your identity. But what happens when your priorities change? When family becomes more important than overtime? When retirement starts getting closer and you realize there's a whole lot more to life than riding a fire truck?

Adam opens up about lessons learned from his younger years, how his priorities have changed, and why building a business outside the fire service has given him another purpose. Doug shares his plans for retirement, his love for coaching softball, and the possibility of packing up and moving his family to Colorado.

The guys also discuss balancing work stress with family life, supporting fellow firefighters through difficult times, and why having hobbies, relationships, and goals outside the job is so important.

And of course, it wouldn't be The Cool Fireman Podcast without a few laughs, some questionable conversations, and a little Snail Mail!

In this episode:

• Is being a firefighter your entire identity?
• How marriage, kids, and family change your priorities
• Knowing when it's time to retire
• Finding hobbies and passions outside the firehouse
• Managing work stress without bringing it home
• Why communication with your spouse matters
• Pursuing dreams and building something beyond the fire service
• Supporting fellow firefighters and their families
• Promoting too early and what makes a good leader
• Redefining success after 20 years on the job

The takeaway: Be proud of being a firefighter, but don't forget to enjoy the life you're working so hard to build.

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“I’m not mad.”
“I’ve got a question.”
“We have enough people.”
“We’ve got a truck available.”

If you've spent any time in the firehouse, you already know those statements can have a whole different meaning depending on which side of the bugles you're standing on.

This week, Brian and Adam introduce the Firehouse Translation Guide.

Brian gives us the chief officer version, while Adam translates it into what the firefighters on the floor are actually hearing. With more than 20 years in the fire service each, the two quickly get into budgets, staffing, reserve apparatus, chain of command, ego, accountability, recognition, and the things firefighters wish their chiefs understood. Pasted text

But the episode becomes more than just chiefs vs. firefighters.

How do we communicate across rank?

Can a firefighter disagree with a chief without being disrespectful?

Do chiefs actually want your opinion?

And how much damage can be caused simply by saying the right thing the wrong way?

As Brian puts it, sometimes you have to put yourself on the other side of the table. Tone, attitude, and perspective all matter. Pasted text

The guys also discuss why communication plays such a huge role in department culture and retention. If we can learn to actually talk to each other and work through problems, we create departments where firefighters genuinely want to stay. Pasted text

🔥 DROP IT IN THE COMMENTS:
What is something your chief says that needs to be added to the Firehouse Translation Guide?

And chiefs… what do firefighters say that needs a translation of its own?

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Why do we love being firefighters?

For all the conversations about staffing, schedules, leadership, cancer prevention, mental health, and everything the fire service could do better, sometimes it's worth remembering why we chose this job in the first place.

Matt, Doug, and Adam sit down for a positive conversation about what still makes the fire service the greatest job in the world. From helping someone on the worst day of their life to the excitement of never knowing what the next call will bring, they talk about the moments that keep them coming back. Pasted text

Matt shares the story of a cardiac-arrest patient who regained a pulse after multiple shocks—and what it was like seeing him alive and talking in the ICU a week later. Adam talks about the pride that comes from interacting with the public, while Doug explains why hearing from former patients after they've recovered can mean so much. Pasted text

The conversation also turns to something every firefighter understands: the crew can make or break the job. A busy station, sleepless nights, and a tough assignment become a whole lot better when you're surrounded by people you genuinely enjoy working with. Pasted text

And, because it's The Cool Fireman Podcast, a positive episode somehow turns into a discussion about communication between chief officers and the floor. The guys talk about recognition, rumors, chain of command, open-door leadership, "Coffee with the Chief," department newsletters, and why keeping firefighters informed can eliminate a lot of unnecessary speculation. Pasted text Pasted text

At the end of the day, there will always be hard calls and dark days—but there are a whole lot more good ones.

Lean on your crew. Enjoy the ride. And remember why you started.

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