In this episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes Cece Shatz, the visionary behind NewStreamingNetwork.com and the Going Solo Network, a global media platform dedicated to supporting those navigating divorce, single life, and relationship transitions.

Cece opens up about her own journey through divorce and the realization that community and authentic support are essential during tough personal shifts. Drawing from her experience in divorce support groups and her work as a relationship coach, she shares how the Going Solo Network grew from a single podcast into a multi-channel resource reaching audiences on radio, podcasts, live video, and streaming platforms like Roku. The network features diverse content: practical advice on rebuilding after divorce, fun lifestyle programming, and expert discussions, all aimed at helping individuals heal, grow, and embrace new possibilities.

Together, Mardi and Cece discuss life lessons, breaking patterns, and the transition from focusing on others to prioritizing personal growth. They emphasize the importance of building a support team, including coaches, financial planners, and strong social connections, to navigate the emotional and practical challenges of major life changes. At the heart of the conversation is a message of hope: by connecting with authentic voices and reflecting on your own journey, you can step out of the past and consciously design a future that excites you.

If you’re in the midst of a divorce, redefining what it means to be single, or simply searching for guidance on personal transformation, this episode is packed with real stories, actionable tips, and inspiration.

About the Guest:

Cece Shatz, fondly known as the Doyenne of Relationship Building, is the Founder of NEWStreamingNetwork.com and WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Radio, Podcasts, and TV. A media visionary, author, and relationship coach, Cece empowers others to “Own the Mic” — helping them share their authentic voices, build meaningful connections, and inspire others to live their best lives. Through her expansive global network on TV, Podcasts and Radio - 50+ media platforms, she guides entrepreneurs, experts, creatives and listeners in transforming their stories into impact that uplifts and empowers.

To connect with Cece:

Website: https://www.newstreamingnetwork.com/

Website:https://www.goingsolonetwork.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cece.shatz/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SinglesTalkRadio YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@WGSNDBGoingSoloNetwork

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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Welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! Today, host Mardi Winder welcomes a truly unique expert to discuss one of the most impactful, yet often confusing, aspects of the divorce process: your home and your mortgage. Joining us is Stacey Ellison, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and divorce mortgage planner, whose career has been devoted to helping divorcing individuals navigate the complex intersection of family law, real estate, and mortgage lending.

In this candid conversation, Stacey Ellison reveals how the home often sits at the emotional and financial crossroads of divorce, and why decisions around mortgages are rarely as straightforward as most people believe. Drawing from her extensive experience, Stacey Ellison sheds light on common myths, for example, the misconception that you can simply “remove a spouse from a mortgage”, and unpacks why mortgage guidelines can drastically change when divorce enters the picture.

Together, Mardi and Stacey discuss real-world mistakes she’s seen, such as unrealistic timelines for refinancing, misunderstandings about lending requirements, and the risks of leaving both spouses tied to a property after separation. The episode covers scenarios ranging from couples with multiple properties to those facing market value vs. appraisal discrepancies, and why having a team of professionals, including lawyers, accountants, and mortgage experts, is the key to building a realistic, sustainable plan.

You’ll hear about the importance of running accurate numbers, the power of pre-planning and backup strategies, and why leaving things to chance can lead to costly and stressful complications down the road. Whether your divorce is collaborative or adversarial, this episode is packed with practical advice and expert tips to help you protect your assets, avoid common pitfalls, and set yourself up for a secure new beginning.

About the Guest:

Stacey Ellison is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and Divorce Mortgage Planner with a deep understanding of the financial complexities that arise during and after divorce. With over 30 years of experience in the mortgage industry, Stacey brings a unique blend of technical knowledge and compassionate guidance to individuals navigating one of life’s most challenging transitions. Since earning her CDLP® designation in 2020, Stacey has worked closely with family law attorneys, mediators, financial planners, and other divorce professionals to provide strategic mortgage guidance tailored to each client’s needs.

Her role is to ensure that both parties in a divorce understand their options when it comes to home equity, mortgage qualification, and long-term housing goals. Whether helping a client determine if they can keep the marital home, qualify for a new mortgage, or explore equitable buyout solutions, Stacey provides clarity, structure, and confidence in the decision-making process. Her goal is to help divorcing homeowners make sound financial choices that support both their immediate needs and long-term stability.

To connect with Stacey:

Instagram: @divorcemortgagesolutions

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StaceyCDLP

Linked in: linkedin.com/in/stacey-ellison-694052a

Divorce Lending Assoc: divorcelendingassociation.com/offices/stacey-ellison.cfm

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

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In this relationship-focused episode, Mardi Winder welcomes Dr. Dan Sneider, a licensed couples therapist and creator of the Intimacy Shift blueprint, to discuss the real meaning of intimacy and how it impacts relationships before, during, and after divorce. Dan openly shares his upbringing in a chaotic household and how those early experiences shaped his understanding of emotional safety and connection. He reflects on his journey through his own marriage and subsequent divorce, explaining how these experiences shaped his commitment to helping others form healthy, lasting bonds.

The conversation unpacks the common misconception that intimacy is solely about physical closeness, shedding light instead on the importance of emotional intimacy, particularly the ability to feel seen, heard, and safe in a relationship. Mardi and Dan discuss how common it is for people to struggle with expressing their wants and needs, and how, without that openness, trust can erode over time. They also touch on the familiar pattern of conflicts arising from communication breakdowns, especially around sensitive topics like finances or intimacy.

Throughout the episode, Dan offers actionable suggestions for couples and individuals, such as creating intentional moments for conversation, using grounding techniques to foster calm, and practicing clear, non-blaming communication. He emphasizes that these are not innate gifts but learned skills, accessible to anyone willing to practice and prioritize connection.

He offers a 12-week program focused on skill-building and meaningful progress, reassuring those who may feel stuck that improvement really is possible. The episode closes on a hopeful note, reminding us that we are always one small step away from connection and that making even modest efforts toward understanding and closeness can yield significant positive change.

About the Guest:

Relationships can be hard. When the spark fades and every conversation feels like walking on eggshells, it’s easy to drift apart. That’s where today’s guest, Dr. Dan Sneider, comes in. He’s a licensed couples therapist, educator, and creator of The Intimacy Shift: A Blueprint for Moving From Conflict to Lasting Connection, a 12-week program that transforms couples’ relationships by rebuilding trust, improving communication, and rediscovering real intimacy.

With personal experience and over a decade of professional expertise helping hundreds of couples, Dr. Dan knows what it takes to shift from conflict to connection — and bring the spark back for good.

For Dr. Dan’s gift: https://intimacyshift.com/

To connect with Dan:

Website: https://intimacyshift.com/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women

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