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The D Word

The D Word

Written by: Rachel Bracken
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What happens when someone dies? Who do you call, what paperwork is needed, what choices do you have? The D Word answers these questions with calm, practical advice. Hosted by funeral director and celebrant Rachel Bracken, this podcast guides families, carers, and healthcare workers through end-of-life care, funerals, and grief. Expect clear steps, expert voices, and real stories to help you feel informed and supported when facing death, dying, and loss.Rachel Bracken Self-Help Success
Episodes
  • Losing Dad Overseas — with Alice Hamilton
    Nov 12 2025

    When Alice’s father suffered a sudden stroke while travelling in Turkey, she and her family were thrown into a world of foreign hospitals, translation barriers and heartbreaking decisions. In this candid and compassionate conversation, Alice shares how she navigated the shock, the bureaucracy of bringing her father home, and the long, uneven road of grief that followed.

    Along the way, she and Rachel talk about:

    • coping with sudden loss far from home

    • the kindness of strangers and small acts of care

    • organ donation and the unexpected comfort it can bring

    • the emotional chaos of funeral planning

    • living with grief years later

    This episode is a powerful reminder that grief doesn’t fade — we simply learn how to carry it.

    Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral processes. Please take care while listening.

    Crisis support (Australia):

    Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)

    Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention

    13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples

    Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling

    Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support

    Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25)

    If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line.

    💬 Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram ⁠@TheDWord.podcast⁠ — your story or question might be featured in a future episode.


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    36 mins
  • After the Funeral
    Oct 29 2025

    Grief doesn’t end when the funeral does. In fact, for many people, that’s when it truly begins.

    In this episode, Rachel talks about what happens after the funeral — when the flowers are gone, the phone stops ringing, and reality begins to settle in. It’s the quiet, often overlooked chapter of loss that brings both practical challenges and emotional weight.

    You’ll hear about:

    • What to expect in the weeks after the funeral

    • The official Death Certificate and what it’s used for

    • Notifying organisations and navigating post-funeral admin

    • Managing belongings, mail, and digital accounts

    • Receiving ashes or finalising a burial headstone

    • How to handle the quiet that follows when everyone else seems to move on

    • Gentle signs that you might need more support

    This episode is about finding your footing in the aftermath — one small, human step at a time.

    Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral processes. Please take care while listening.

    Crisis support (Australia):
    Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)
    Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention
    13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples
    Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling
    Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support
    Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25)

    If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line.

    💬 Share your questions or experiences:
    DM on Instagram @TheDWord.podcast — your story or question might be featured in a future episode.

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    30 mins
  • Protecting Your Peace — Setting Boundaries and Finding Calm in Grief
    Oct 15 2025

    Grief is heavy enough on its own — but when you’re also carrying the emotional weight of other people, it can feel impossible to breathe.

    In this episode, Rachel talks about how to protect your peace through the chaos of loss — setting boundaries, understanding why others behave in strange or overwhelming ways, and learning to hold space for yourself first.

    You’ll hear about:

    • The mental, emotional, and physical toll of grief

    • Why some people over-help while others completely disappear

    • How to respond with kindness and boundaries

    • What real, practical help actually looks like (and how to ask for it)

    • Gentle ways to protect your peace when everything feels too much

    This conversation blends lived experience, psychology, and heart. It’s for anyone navigating loss, supporting someone through it, or simply wanting to understand grief with more compassion.

    Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral planning. Please take care while listening.

    Crisis support (Australia):

    • Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)

    • Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention

    • 13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples

    • Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling

    • Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support

    • Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25)

    If you’re outside Australia, please contact your local emergency number or a local crisis line.

    Share your questions or experiences: DM on Instagram @TheDWord.podcast and we may include answers in a future episode.

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    34 mins
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