Welcome to The Dadversity Podcast! In this thought-provoking episode, coach Tom Palmer dives into the powerful topic: “People-Pleasing Isn’t Love – It’s Manipulation.” Tom unpacks the hidden dynamics of people-pleasing, exploring how this behavior can sabotage relationships and personal growth. This episode offers actionable insights for breaking free from this cycle and building healthier, more authentic connections.

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Show Notes

[00:00] Introduction to the Episode

An overview of the topic and why people-pleasing can often be misunderstood.

[03:00] What Is People-Pleasing?

Tom defines people-pleasing and discusses how it differs from genuine care and love.

[08:15] The Manipulative Side of People-Pleasing

Unveiling the unconscious motives behind people-pleasing and how it can manipulate relationships.

[12:30] Personal Stories and Examples

Tom shares relatable scenarios where people-pleasing takes hold and the consequences it creates.

[18:00] Breaking the Cycle

Strategies for recognizing and overcoming the habit of people-pleasing.

[22:45] Building Healthy Relationships

How to replace people-pleasing with authentic communication and self-respect.

[27:00] Final Thoughts

Tom summarises the key takeaways and leaves listeners with a powerful message about self-awareness and personal growth.

People-pleasing isn't love - it's manipulation by Tom Palmer
This lesson goes live inside the Dadversity community on Friday 29th November.

Scott McCulloch is the Dad who built a company from £0 - £7m in revenue. We talk about that process, what sparked sobriety after turning 40 and training to take on endurance events around the world.

Show Notes

[00:00] Introduction to Scott McCulloch

Nathan introduces Scott and reflects on connecting through LinkedIn.

[02:00] Scott’s Current Endeavors

Scott discusses his current freelance work in digital marketing and as a non-executive director, leveraging his experience scaling businesses.

[03:45] Growing Up and Entrepreneurial Roots

Scott reflects on his upbringing, his father’s entrepreneurial spirit, and his early ventures to make extra income.

[06:15] Working with Karris: Challenges and Success

Scott talks about balancing business and family life, sharing insights into the dynamics of working with his wife.

[12:00] Turning Ideas into Action

Scott explains how he and Karris transformed a casual conversation into a thriving business, combining their complementary skills.

[15:00] Navigating Business Challenges

Scott shares pivotal moments in growing a business, including securing investments and making tough decisions during challenging times.

[20:30] Reflections on Market Trends

Scott examines broader trends in consumer behavior, the impact of the cost-of-living crisis, and hopes for the future of sustainable living.

[24:00] Post-Business Life: Sobriety and Fitness

Scott recounts his decision to quit drinking, take on Ironman challenges, and prioritize his health and family.

[31:00] Thoughts on Sobriety and Happiness

Scott reflects on his drinking habits, the societal shift towards sobriety, and the balance between appreciating alcohol and recognizing its downsides.

[36:00] Parenting in a Digital Age

Scott discusses raising children in a world dominated by social media and maintaining a healthy perspective on modern challenges.

[38:00] Quickfire Questions

Scott answers fun, rapid-fire questions, from his worst DIY fail to the best place he’s traveled.

[40:00] Closing Thoughts

Nathan thanks Scott for sharing his story and reflects on the inspiring lessons for dads balancing career, family, and personal growth.