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The Distance Dilemma

The Distance Dilemma

Written by: Imran Malik Maher & Shaun Finn
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Having been close friends for almost 10 year, Imran and Shaun face the dilemma of now living in different countries. In 2024, Imran and his partner moved to Switzerland, while Shaun and his partner moved into their own house. The Distance Dilemma is a podcast for anyone else who faces the challenge of keeping a friendship alive while living in different countries.Copyright FinnRecords 2025. All rights reserved.
Episodes
  • Weird Constitutional Laws
    Jan 26 2026

    In this episode, the derailment arrives right on schedule — welcome back to Out of Context Weekly Scenarios, where things unravel quickly and proudly.

    This week’s curiosities come in two very different, but equally unnecessary flavours:

    Imran opens with his Out of Context Weekly Scenario — The Staff Party Hangover That Never Came. Waking up feeling suspiciously fresh after a staff party, simply because he didn’t drink. What should feel like a small win turns into quiet self-reflection, mild disbelief, and the strange realisation that doing the sensible thing can feel almost rebellious in the right context.

    Meanwhile, Shaun shares his own moment of unexpected humiliation with The Missing Belt Incident. A perfectly normal trip to the kitchen becomes a slow-motion disaster when his jeans betray him in front of his girlfriend — hands full, options limited, dignity slipping away. A story about timing, trust in clothing, and learning lessons the hard way.

    Our Topic of the Week is Weird Constitutional Laws in Ireland and Switzerland. We dig into the strange, surprising, and occasionally baffling rules baked into national constitutions — exploring how they came to exist, what they say about culture, and why some laws feel less like governance and more like historical inside jokes.

    In Pop Culture & Current Affairs, we cover two very different stories: the recent release of Enoch Burke from prison, and the return of the iconic Cherry Tomato Bridge in Drumcondra, Dublin. From serious national conversations to oddly specific local landmarks, we reflect on why both end up taking up space in the public consciousness.

    And finally, we close with Your Distance Dilemmas — real listener stories navigating friendship, communication, and the strange emotional space between holding on and letting drift.

    As always, it’s just the two of us — chatting nonsense, pulling at loose threads, and trying to make sense of the moments that feel small at the time but somehow end up meaning everything.

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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • Alcohol
    Jan 19 2026

    In this episode, the derailment arrives right on schedule — welcome back to Out of Context Weekly Scenarios, where things unravel quickly and proudly.

    This week’s curiosities come in two very different, but equally unnecessary flavours:

    Imran opens with his Out of Context Weekly Scenario — Turning Down a Dog. An unexpectedly serious moral dilemma involving an offer he absolutely should have been excited about… but couldn’t say yes to. What follows is a spiral of guilt, overthinking, and the uncomfortable realisation that sometimes doing the sensible thing still feels oddly heartbreaking.

    Meanwhile, Shaun brings his own frustration to the table with The Late Chelsea Kick-Off. A weekend plan quietly ruined by scheduling decisions completely out of his control. It’s a story about building your day around football, the slow burn of irritation as the hours drag on, and how something so small can irrationally sour your mood.

    Our Topic of the Week is Alcohol. We talk honestly about our relationships with drinking — the social expectations, the good nights, the bad mornings, and how attitudes toward alcohol change as you get older. It’s less about excess and more about reflection, habits, and why saying yes (or no) can sometimes feel like a bigger statement than intended.

    In Pop Culture & Current Affairs, we take a surprisingly passionate detour into the build-up of traffic on the M50 in Ireland, and traffic jams in general. Why they feel so personal, how they test patience like nothing else, and the shared misery that somehow bonds everyone stuck in the same unmoving line of cars.

    And finally, we close with Your Distance Dilemmas — real listener stories navigating friendship, communication, and the strange emotional space between holding on and letting drift.

    As always, it’s just the two of us — chatting nonsense, pulling at loose threads, and trying to make sense of the moments that feel small at the time but somehow end up meaning everything.

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    1 hr and 30 mins
  • Moving Around
    Jan 12 2026

    In this episode, the derailment arrives right on schedule — welcome back to Out of Context Weekly Scenarios, where things unravel quickly and proudly.

    This week’s curiosities come in two very different, but equally unnecessary flavours:

    Imran opens with his Out of Context Weekly Scenario — Cutting His Head. A painfully mundane accident that somehow feels far more dramatic in the moment. What should’ve been a minor mishap turns into a spiral of blood checks, self-assessment, and that quiet panic where you’re not sure if you’re overreacting… or very much not reacting enough.

    Meanwhile, Shaun shares his own misfortune with An Accident at Football. A familiar tale of confidence meeting reality a little too hard — where one wrong moment shifts the focus from the game to injury management, bruised pride, and replaying the incident over and over to figure out exactly when it all went wrong.

    Our Topic of the Week is Moving Around. We reflect on growing up with constant change — moving houses, adapting to new spaces, and how never staying still for too long shapes your sense of home, stability, and identity. It’s a look at how those early experiences quietly follow you into adulthood, whether you notice them or not.

    In Pop Culture, we talk through the final episode of Stranger Things — breaking down the moments that landed, the ones that didn’t, and how it feels to say goodbye to something that’s been part of the background of life for years.

    Then, in Current Affairs, we shift gears to discuss the idea of America invading Venezuela — unpacking the headlines, the reactions, and the uneasy distance between global events and how we process them from afar.

    And finally, we close with Your Distance Dilemmas — real listener stories navigating friendship, communication, and the strange emotional space between holding on and letting drift.

    As always, it’s just the two of us — chatting nonsense, pulling at loose threads, and trying to make sense of the moments that feel small at the time but somehow end up meaning everything.

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    1 hr and 15 mins
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