The most dangerous part of divorce isn’t the courtroom—it’s the quiet hours between filings where patterns form, and evidence takes shape. We unpack why support alone won’t protect your parenting time and show how a command center mindset helps you close the “decision gap” that turns great dads into weekend visitors.

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The gut-punch of high-conflict divorce isn’t just the paperwork or the silence after a slammed door—it’s realizing the system you’ve entered runs on efficiency, not fairness. We sit down with strategist and author Alex R. Dane, whose High Conflict Playbook was forged in the fire of restricted access, weaponized narratives, and court calendars that move slower than a parent’s panic. Together, we unpack how he went from shock to strategy and earned 50-50 by becoming the calmest, most consistent person in the room.

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Rebuilding life after divorce often feels like a test of sheer will, but grit alone rarely carries us past Friday without a crash. The missing piece is environment—the external space we live in and the internal landscape we think in. When our surroundings pull us toward distraction, anger, or numbing, our habits follow. The key shift is to design conditions where the best behavior becomes the easiest behavior.

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How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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