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The Ego Project

The Ego Project

Written by: Cristine Seidell and Lisa Heidle
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The Ego Project, hosted by therapist Cristine Seidell and author Lisa Heidle, explores how the healthy and wounded ego informs and impacts our relationship with self and others. Through candid conversation, thoughtful questions, and personal experiences, Cristine, Lisa, and guests explore therapeutic and spiritual modalities that can lead to healing, growth, and self-actualization.© 2023 The Ego Project Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Self-Help Social Sciences Success
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  • Invisible No More.
    Feb 8 2026

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    We unpack the invisible child: how being the “easy kid” can mask unmet emotional needs, shape adult attachment, and erode self-trust. We share practical tools—somatic check-ins, values work, boundaries, and self-compassion—to rebuild identity and receive care.

    • defining the invisible child and common family contexts
    • how praise for responsibility becomes a survival role
    • signs in adulthood: people-pleasing, numbness, loneliness
    • fearful-avoidant patterns and toxic dynamics risk
    • somatic skills to feel instead of overthink
    • values work as identity and boundary scaffolding
    • practicing self-compassion and learning to receive
    • nuanced repair with parents without black-and-white thinking
    • choosing safe relationships and building found family

    If you would like to work with somebody Kaylee is an amazing therapist here and really has great perspective around the parent-child relationship regardless of what age you find yourself in the parenting journey

    To learn more about Kaylee and the work she does, see her bio below:

    https://www.risetherapycenter.com/kaylee

    Thank you for tuning into And Still WE Rise! If you would like to learn more about me or the work our practice is doing, feel free to follow us on Instagram at:

    @atltherapygirl and @risetherapycenter

    Or check us out at www.risetherapycenter.com

    Disclaimer: And Still We Rise is meant to provide perspective and meaningful conversations around mental health topics. It is not meant to provide specific therapeutic advise to individuals. If anything in these podcasts resonates, ASWR recommends consulting with your individual therapist or seeking a referral from your primary care physician.

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    27 mins
  • Shame, Childhood, And Healing
    Jan 5 2026

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    We unpack how shame forms in childhood and why it feels different from guilt, then offer concrete ways to protect learning, autonomy, and connection at home, in school, and in relationships. Scripts, strategies, and mindset shifts help replace criticism with compassionate feedback.

    • defining shame as a belief about worth, not behavior
    • guilt as a teacher that guides change
    • how tone and reactions encode shame during mistakes
    • fear, perfectionism, and the I’m in trouble loop
    • family systems and sibling dynamics shaping identity
    • school labels, confirmation bias, and growth mindset
    • co-regulation, connection before correction, and scripts
    • feedback as a two-way process that preserves safety
    • using repair, do-overs, and specific observations

    If you're looking to learn more about this topic or others, feel free to like subscribe and follow "And Still We Rise"!

    To learn more about the work Sara does at Rise Therapy Center, or any other services we offer, you can find them below!

    https://www.risetherapycenter.com/sara

    IG: @seenbysarak



    Thank you for tuning into And Still WE Rise! If you would like to learn more about me or the work our practice is doing, feel free to follow us on Instagram at:

    @atltherapygirl and @risetherapycenter

    Or check us out at www.risetherapycenter.com

    Disclaimer: And Still We Rise is meant to provide perspective and meaningful conversations around mental health topics. It is not meant to provide specific therapeutic advise to individuals. If anything in these podcasts resonates, ASWR recommends consulting with your individual therapist or seeking a referral from your primary care physician.

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    28 mins
  • Your Body Isn’t Overreacting; It’s Remembering What Childhood Taught It About Love
    Dec 3 2025

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    Your nervous system learned about love long before you had words. In this conversation, we follow that thread from early implicit memory to the patterns many of us feel in adult relationships—chasing, shutting down, or spinning between the two—and we unpack a kinder way forward. We explore the spectrum of attachment styles with clarity and nuance, showing how secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized patterns actually feel during conflict and what they signal beneath the surface.

    We dig into why secure attachment isn’t the absence of disagreement but the presence of clear thinking, emotional range, and timely repair. For anxious responses, we talk about flooding, impulsivity, and the urge to pursue for relief. For avoidant responses, we name the quiet danger of numbness and faux self-sufficiency. When disorganization enters the room, we map the chaotic swings between fight, flight, freeze, and fawn, and we emphasize the need for pacing, safety, and often professional support to prevent harm and restore clarity.

    Most importantly, we offer practical steps to widen your window of tolerance and rewire old rules through new experiences. Somatic reparenting becomes a simple, powerful tool: a steady hand, slower breath, and curious questions that help you hear what your younger self needs right now. From time-bound pauses that honor reconnection to concise repair language that lowers defensiveness, you’ll leave with grounded strategies to reduce resentment and build trust. If this resonates, subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show. Your inner child is loved, accepted, and important—and you can learn to love in ways that feel safe to your body.

    Looking to begin a conversation with your little one? Try these prompts:

    “Sweet one… what’s going on?”
    “Are you feeling small, unimportant, or unsafe right now?”
    “Did someone hurt your feelings…
    or speak to you unkindly?”

    Thank you for tuning into And Still WE Rise! If you would like to learn more about me or the work our practice is doing, feel free to follow us on Instagram at:

    @atltherapygirl and @risetherapycenter

    Or check us out at www.risetherapycenter.com

    Disclaimer: And Still We Rise is meant to provide perspective and meaningful conversations around mental health topics. It is not meant to provide specific therapeutic advise to individuals. If anything in these podcasts resonates, ASWR recommends consulting with your individual therapist or seeking a referral from your primary care physician.

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    19 mins
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