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The Fathers Guild

The Fathers Guild

Written by: Pat Barber
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A deep dive into the beautiful chaos of fatherhood.

Fatherhood. It’s the one job that doesn’t come with a manual, but also comes with 10,000 opinions. we’re tring to cut through the noise with real talk, goods laughs, and the occasional “oh man, same” moment.

Each episode, we dive into the beautifully messy world of being a dad. Along the way, we bring in guests. guys who are in, or have been in the trenches, learning, failing, and winning just like the rest of us.

This isn’t a lecture series. It’s a series of conversations. The kind you’d have around a backyard fire pit with a cold beer in hand. It’s honest, unfiltered, and full of those “I thought I was the only one!” stories.

If you’re a dad (or just curious about what makes dads tick), consider this a dose of encouragement, humor, and a run back of real-life applications. Fatherhood is challenging. It might be exhausting, but it’s also the best thing you’ll ever do.

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Episodes
  • The Dangers Of Not Talking To Kids About Sex Early And Often - Megan Michelson

    The Dangers Of Not Talking To Kids About Sex Early And Often - Megan Michelson
    Jan 15 2026

    In this episode we engage in a meaningful conversation with Megan from Birds and Bees about the importance of sex education for children. We discuss the evolving role of fathers in parenting, the outdated notion of 'the talk' about sex, and the necessity of ongoing conversations about sexuality. Megan emphasizes the need for parents to create a family message regarding their values about sex, navigate their own hangups, and model healthy attitudes towards intimacy. The discussion also touches on the impact of technology on children's exposure to sexual content and the importance of fostering open communication to build trust between parents and children.
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    57 mins
  • Kyle Meloy Goes To Bed With The Sun Is Financially Stable and Loves Hobbits

    Kyle Meloy Goes To Bed With The Sun Is Financially Stable and Loves Hobbits
    Jan 8 2026

    In this episode, Kyle Meloy and Pat Barber explore the profound impact of parenting on self-discovery. They discuss how observing their own behaviors and language reflected in their children can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of family dynamics.

    You can find Kyle on Instagram here! https://www.instagram.com/kyle.meloy/

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    57 mins
  • There Are No Rules - Michael Dalton

    There Are No Rules - Michael Dalton
    Dec 16 2025

    In this episode of the Fathers Guild podcast, Pat Barber sits down with Michael Dalton, a multifaceted creative and father. They explore Michael's journey from a kid to a successful videographer, discussing the emotional depth in his work, the impact of losing his father, and the challenges of parenthood. The conversation delves into the importance of not giving up on creative pursuits, understanding emotions like anger and sadness, and the role of counseling in personal growth. Michael shares his philosophy on joy, creativity, and the necessity of being present in the moment, all while navigating the complexities of life and fatherhood.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Michael Dalton 02:57 The Journey to Coolness 05:56 Exploring Depth and Emotion in Art 08:53 Breaking Free from Religious Constraints 11:54 The Impact of Loss and Grief 14:56 Fatherhood and Legacy 18:00 The Journey to Parenthood 20:47 Navigating Parenting Challenges 23:50 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting 28:45 Navigating Big Emotions 31:57 The Complexity of Anger 36:29 Understanding Offense and Anger 42:15 Finding Joy in Discipline 47:41 Breaking Free from Rules 50:43 Perseverance in Creative Endeavors
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    58 mins
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