Pressure can polish or crush, and Gary Steffes has felt both. We sit down with the former pro hockey forward to trace a journey from stat-chasing and panic on the ice to a grounded identity that fuels calm, courage, and consistent performance. Gary opens up about the moment his confidence cracked, the sports-psych “band-aids” that helped but didn’t heal, and the encounter with Jesus that rewired what success means—shifting from playing for approval to competing from acceptance.
Gary breaks down the core framework behind Pure Encouragement, the ministry he launched to help athletes and leaders live confident, victorious lives in Christ. We dig into the three pillars—intimacy with Jesus, identity in Christ, and inside-out living—and why the order matters. If you’ve ever tried to “think positive” while carrying anger, shame, or comparison, this conversation shows why soul work unlocks mental toughness and elevates performance. We also explore practical mentorship, building a band of brothers, and creating communities where accountability feels like protection, not punishment.
You’ll hear a vivid game 7 championship story, lessons in resilient leadership, and simple ways to realign body, mind, and spirit so your training actually sticks. Whether you’re an athlete, coach, parent, or just feeling the strain of high expectations, Gary’s tools and testimony offer a path away from fear and into purpose. Want tangible next steps? Check out the Pure Encouragement podcast, two-minute Monday videos on YouTube, and resources at pureencouragement.org to start building confidence that lasts. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a teammate, and leave a rating so more people find these conversations—what’s one belief about performance you’re ready to trade for truth?
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