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The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show

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 Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.Copyright 2020 - The Hard Or Soft Show - Brooklyn, NY Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences
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  • 318. What Do T*tties Really Do Anyway?

    318. What Do T*tties Really Do Anyway?
    Jan 30 2026
    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

    This week the crew open up about there love for the boob but Tahoe asks..what do t*tties really do anyway, then we read a few fantasies that people submitted for the March 7th play party, we ask what are some pre-secks things that we do to make the evening super sensual, how to treat the third so they dont feel used, and MORE! Enjoy!

    f you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.

    If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.

    Socials
    Courtney
    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

    Loon
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

    Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

    Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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    Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
    Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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    2 hrs and 7 mins
  • 317. Just Bring The Nut!

    317. Just Bring The Nut!
    Jan 21 2026
    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!

    This week the crew is back and the vibes are here as we talk Tahoe cuffing women that arent his, your mutual friends not telling you that they are dating, ppl not realizing the harsh realities of poly relationships until they are in one, what men really mean when they say "lets just see where it goes", Courtneys newest entry into her p*ssy chronicles, where do men learn how to have good male hygiene and MORE! Such a great episode! ENJOY!

    If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.

    If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.

    Socials
    Courtney
    @Courtney_Shav on Instagram

    Loon
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Yessssterday
    @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

    Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

    Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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    GetTheButters
    Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

    Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
    Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

    Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
    Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • 316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss

    316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss
    Jan 15 2026
    Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!!

    In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.

    Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.

    We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!

    Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here

    To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form

    Socials
    Kandi
    @Kandi on Instagram

    Kasha
    @Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter

    Shop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bio
    Tune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube!

    Tahoe
    @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

    Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

    Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

    Ads:
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    Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products

    GetTheButters
    Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW

    Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
    Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)

    Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
    Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
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    2 hrs and 8 mins
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