• Medication as Support, Not Failure: Breaking Free from Treatment Shame
    Nov 28 2025

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    Keywords
    menopause, medication, cholesterol, statins, diabetes, GLP-1, thyroid health, Hashimoto's, women's health, empowerment

    Summary
    In this episode of the Hot Flash Diaries podcast, Jessica Caceres and Dr. Diana Castleman discuss the importance of medication in managing health during menopause. They explore the misconceptions surrounding medications, particularly statins and their role in cholesterol management, diabetes, and thyroid health. The conversation emphasizes the need for individualized approaches to treatment, the significance of lifestyle changes, and the empowerment that comes from education and understanding one's health.

    Takeaways

    • Medication is a tool, not a failure.
    • Statins are crucial for managing cholesterol and preventing cardiovascular disease.
    • Lifestyle changes can complement medication but may not be sufficient alone.
    • LDL cholesterol is now recognized as a risk factor for dementia.
    • Women should not feel shame for using medications.
    • Thyroid health is critical, especially in women during midlife.
    • Education is key to empowering women in their health decisions.
    • Muscle mass plays a significant role in glucose metabolism.
    • Regular screening for cholesterol and diabetes is essential.
    • A holistic approach to health includes both lifestyle and medication.

    Chapters
    00:00
    Introduction to Menopause and Medication

    02:42
    Understanding Cholesterol and Statins

    05:38
    The Role of LDL Cholesterol in Women's Health

    08:28
    Cognitive Health and Dementia Risks

    11:27
    Lifestyle Changes vs. Medication for Cholesterol

    14:08
    Diabetes and Its Impact on Women's Health

    17:56
    The Role of Muscle in Glucose Management

    20:08
    Understanding GLP-1 Medications

    23:23
    Thyroid Health and Hashimoto's Disease

    28:17
    Medications for Thyroid Conditions

    29:50
    The Importance of Medication in Health Management

    35:01
    Empowering Patients in Their Health Journey


    Interested in working with Dr. Castleman:

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    38 mins
  • Screening Smart in Midlife with Dr. Daiana Castleman
    Nov 14 2025

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    Keywords
    menopause, cancer screening, women's health, breast cancer, cervical cancer, colon cancer, cholesterol, health assessments, prevention, Dr. Diana Castleman

    Summary
    In this episode of the Hot Flash Diaries podcast, Jessica Caceres interviews Dr. Diana Castleman, a naturopathic doctor specializing in women's health, particularly during menopause. They discuss the importance of cancer screening, including updated guidelines for breast, cervical, and colon cancer. Dr. Castleman emphasizes the significance of early detection and regular health assessments, including cholesterol monitoring and blood pressure checks. The conversation highlights the need for women to advocate for their health and understand the changes in screening protocols, as well as the role of lifestyle changes in managing health risks.

    Takeaways

    • Dr. Castleman emphasizes the importance of prevention in women's health.
    • Breast cancer screening guidelines have changed to start at age 40.
    • HPV testing is now recommended and has higher sensitivity than Pap smears.
    • The FIT test for colon cancer screening is a convenient at-home option.
    • Regular health assessments are crucial for early detection of health issues.
    • Cholesterol levels can increase during menopause and should be monitored regularly.
    • Self-advocacy is essential in navigating healthcare and screening processes.
    • Understanding breast density is important for effective cancer screening.
    • Lifestyle changes can significantly impact blood pressure and cholesterol levels.
    • Medication should be viewed as an adjunct to lifestyle changes, not a replacement.

    Sound Bites

    • "Prevention is everything."
    • "Mammograms are life-saving."
    • "Know your breasts."

    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to Dr. Diana Castleman

    02:43
    Empowering Women Through Knowledge

    05:42
    Breast Cancer Screening Guidelines

    08:35
    Understanding Breast Density and Screening

    11:21
    The Importance of Self-Breast Exams

    14:13
    Cervical Cancer Screening Changes

    17:12
    Colorectal Cancer Screening Guidelines

    20:01
    The Importance of Regular Health Assessments

    23:14
    Understanding Diabetes Screening and Blood Work Trends

    25:59
    The Importance of Cholesterol Monitoring in Women

    28:26
    Advanced Cholesterol Markers: Lipoprotein A and APOB

    31:11
    The Role of LDL and APOB in Cardiovascular Health

    34:46
    Preventative Health: Catching Issues Early

    38:16
    Essential Health Screenings and Blood Pressure Monitoring

    41:22
    Advocating for Your Health: Navigating Doctor's Appointments

    Interested in working with Dr. Castleman:

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    https://www.bonitamedicalaesthetics.com/hormone-therapy

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    47 mins
  • Perimenopause Isn’t All in Your Head: Empowering You with the Knowledge to Take Control
    Oct 31 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of the Hot Flash Diaries podcast, Kristen Parise and Jessica Caceres dive deep into women's health, focusing on perimenopause and menopause. They discuss common symptoms, the importance of hormone optimization, and the benefits of vaginal estrogen. The conversation also highlights the upcoming Empower Transitions masterclass, aimed at educating women on these topics.

    Keywords

    perimenopause, menopause, hormone optimization, vaginal estrogen, women's health

    Takeaways

    • Listen to the end for an exciting announcement.
    • Perimenopause and menopause symptoms are common but manageable.
    • Hormone optimization can improve quality of life.
    • Vaginal estrogen is beneficial for pelvic health.
    • Education is key to understanding women's health issues.
    • Empower Transitions masterclass launches in November.
    • Collaboration in healthcare improves patient outcomes.
    • Understanding your body helps in advocating for your health.
    • Hormone replacement therapy is safe when done correctly.
    • Joint pain can be a symptom of menopause.

    Title Options

    • Empower Your Transition: Mastering Menopause
    • Unlocking the Secrets of Perimenopause
    • Vaginal Estrogen: A Game Changer
    • Hormone Optimization for a Better Life
    • Navigating Midlife with Confidence
    • The Hot Flash Diaries: Episode 2
    • Women's Health Unveiled
    • Masterclass on Menopause: Join Us
    • From Symptoms to Solutions: Women's Health
    • The Power of Education in Women's Health

    Sound bites

    • Listen to the end for an announcement.
    • Perimenopause symptoms are common.
    • Hormone optimization improves life.
    • Vaginal estrogen benefits pelvic health.
    • Education is key to health.
    • Masterclass launches in November.
    • Collaboration improves outcomes.
    • Understand your body, advocate health.
    • Hormone therapy is safe.
    • Joint pain is a menopause symptom.

    Chapters

    • 00:00:01 Introduction and Welcome
    • 00:00:11 Diving into Perimenopause
    • 00:00:34 The Importance of Hormone Optimization
    • 00:01:04 Vaginal Estrogen Benefits
    • 00:01:44 Empower Transitions Masterclass Announcement
    • 00:02:30 Collaboration in Healthcare
    • 00:03:17 Understanding Symptoms and Advocacy
    • 00:04:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    Website: https://www.bonitamedicalaesthetics.com/podcast
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    47 mins
  • The Complexities of Desire: Understanding Libido in Women Part II
    Oct 17 2025

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    Summary

    Welcome to Episode 3 of The Hot Flash Diaries! In this episode, host Jessica Caceres continues her conversation with Dr. Maureen Slattery, a board-certified OBGYN with over 20 years of experience, certified menopause practitioner, sex educator, and certified sexuality counselor from Rochester, New York.

    What You'll Learn:

    • How to reframe your mindset about desire and intimacy in midlife
    • Why libido changes are multifactorial (it's not just about testosterone!)
    • Practical communication strategies for talking with your partner about sexual health
    • The importance of managing stress, sleep, and nervous system regulation
    • Creative ways to maintain intimacy when desire is low
    • When to consider sex therapy vs. regular counseling
    • The role of hormones, moisturizers, and other physical solutions
    • Why scheduling intimacy isn't unsexy—it's strategic!

    Key Takeaways: ✨ Menopause is a transformation, not something happening TO you ✨ Small changes can make a big difference (variety is the spice of life!) ✨ Normalize what you're experiencing and communicate openly ✨ Protect your time and set boundaries to reduce stress ✨ Your fully developed frontal lobe is your superpower in midlife

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Libido and Midlife Changes
    01:55 Mindset Shifts in Sexual Desire
    04:56 Navigating Relationships and Intimacy
    07:42 The Role of Hormones in Sexual Health
    10:49 Setting Boundaries and Self-Care
    13:38 Communication Strategies for Couples
    16:30 Scheduling Intimacy and Building Anticipation
    25:04 The Importance of Timing in Conversations
    26:17 Maintaining Intimacy in Low-Desire Situations
    29:21 Exploring New Ways to Enhance Sexual Experience
    32:42 Recognizing When to Seek Professional Help
    36:00 Understanding the Role of Mental Health in Sexuality
    37:43 First Steps for Women Addressing Low Sex Drive
    42:28 Empowering Women with Knowledge and Resources

    Recommended Reading:

    • "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski
    • "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner
    • "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der Kolk
    • Books by Esther Perel on relationships and intimacy

    Helpful Resources:

    • The Menopause Society (formerly NAMS): menopause.org
    • Canadian Menopause Society
    • International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH)
    • American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)


    Interested in connecting with Dr. Slattery? https://www.drmaureenslattery.com/

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    Jessica’s Links For You:

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    52 mins
  • The Complexities of Desire: Understanding Libido in Women Part I
    Oct 3 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of the Hot Flash Diaries, Jessica Caceres interviews Dr. Maureen Slattery, a board-certified OBGYN and menopause practitioner, about the complexities of libido and sexual health in women. They discuss the multifaceted nature of libido, emphasizing the biopsychosocial model that includes biological, psychological, and social factors. The conversation highlights the impact of stress, mental health, and relationship dynamics on sexual desire, as well as the importance of education and individualized care in addressing these issues. In this conversation, Jessica Caceres and Dr. Maureen Slattery delve into the complexities of sexual health, intimacy, and the misconceptions surrounding them. They discuss the importance of understanding individual desires, the evolution of sexual norms, and the impact of hormonal changes on intimacy. The conversation emphasizes the need for open dialogue about sexual health, the significance of vaginal health, and the role of education in dispelling myths about sex. They also highlight the importance of knowing one's body and the dynamics of relationships in addressing libido issues.

    Takeaways

    Dr. Slattery emphasizes the importance of understanding libido as a complex interplay of various factors.

    Sexual health is not just about hormones; it involves psychological and relational components.

    Stress and mental load significantly impact sexual desire and overall well-being.

    Women often feel pressured to conform to societal expectations regarding sexual activity.

    Education and open conversations about sexual health are crucial for empowerment.

    Hormone therapy is not a one-size-fits-all solution; individual needs must be considered.

    Relationship dynamics play a critical role in sexual desire and intimacy.

    Many women experience changes in libido during perimenopause and menopause due to hormonal fluctuations.

    It's essential to address mental health concerns when discussing sexual health.

    Women should feel validated in their experiences and understand that fluctuations in desire are normal.

    It's okay to honor where you're at in your sexual journey.

    Misconceptions about sex can hinder healthy intimacy.

    Understanding your own pleasure is crucial for intimacy.

    Normal sexual frequency varies for each individual.

    Pain during intimacy can lead to a disinterest in sex.

    Using lubrication is essential for comfort during sex.

    Hormonal changes can significantly affect sexual health.

    Open communication with partners is vital for intimacy.

    Education about sexual health is often lacking.

    Therapy can be beneficial for addressing libido issues.


    Interested in connecting with Dr. Slattery?

    https://www.drmaureenslattery.com/

    Jessica’s Links For You:

    Website: https://www.bonitamedicalaesthetics.com/podcast
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    49 mins
  • Embracing Midlife: A Journey of Transformation
    Sep 19 2025

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    Summary
    In this episode of The Hot Flash Diaries, Jessica Caceres welcomes listeners to Season Two, emphasizing the importance of women's health education, particularly regarding hormone changes during midlife. She shares her personal journey of transformation and self-care, encouraging women to prioritize their health. The episode outlines key topics for the season, including common midlife concerns such as mood changes, pelvic health, and libido, while promoting a supportive and empowering environment for women navigating these changes.

    Takeaways

    • The podcast aims to close the education gap in women's health.
    • Self-care is essential for overall well-being.
    • Women often feel broken during midlife changes, but they are not.
    • Personal transformation can lead to empowerment.
    • It's important to address common concerns like libido and mood changes.
    • Education and awareness can help women advocate for their health.
    • The podcast will feature expert guests to discuss various topics.
    • Building resilience is crucial for navigating midlife changes.
    • Women should prioritize their health to care for others effectively.
    • Embracing change can lead to a new and fulfilling phase of life.

    Chapters
    00:00 Welcome to Season Two
    02:30 The Importance of Women's Health Education
    05:01 Personal Transformation Journey
    08:30 Focus on Key Health Issues
    13:32 Embracing Change and Building Resilience

    Contact

    info@bonitamed.com

    https://www.bonitamedicalaesthetics.com/podcast

    https://www.bonitamedicalaesthetics.com/hormone-therapy



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    Website: https://www.bonitamedicalaesthetics.com/podcast
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    19 mins
  • Skin Deep: Navigating Midlife Hormones and Skincare
    May 2 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of the Hot Flash Diaries, Jessica Caceres is joined by medical aestheticians Lexis Hudson and Madison Hurst to discuss skin care and skin health for women in midlife. They explore the physiological changes that occur during perimenopause and menopause, the impact of hormonal changes on skin health, and the importance of specific skincare ingredients. The conversation emphasizes the need for tailored skincare routines to address issues like dryness, sensitivity, and hormonal skin conditions, while also highlighting effective products and treatments. In this episode, Jessica Caceres and her guests discuss the importance of retinol in skincare, debunking myths surrounding its use. They explore various non-invasive treatments for skin health, including chemical peels and radio frequency, and delve into the impact of hormonal changes, particularly PCOS, on skin conditions. The conversation emphasizes the significance of combining treatments for optimal results and the necessity of a tailored skincare routine to maintain skin health as one ages.

    Takeaways

    • Women in midlife experience significant skin changes due to hormonal fluctuations.
    • Common skin issues include dryness, sensitivity, and hormonal pigmentation.
    • Estrogen is crucial for collagen production and skin hydration.
    • Hyaluronic acid is a key ingredient for hydration in skincare.
    • Vitamin C provides antioxidant support and protects against environmental damage.
    • Retinol is essential for skin renewal and combating aging.
    • Skincare routines should focus on repairing the skin barrier.
    • Products with beta-glucan and ceramides are beneficial for sensitive skin.
    • Understanding individual skin reactions is important during hormonal changes.
    • Confidence can be affected by unexpected skin changes in midlife. Retinol is essential for increasing cellular turnover.
    • User error, not product error, leads to negative retinol experiences.
    • Non-invasive treatments like chemical peels and radio frequency are effective.
    • PCOS can cause unexpected skin issues in women.
    • Managing PCOS requires a comprehensive approach with professionals.
    • Combining treatments yields better skin health outcomes.
    • Good skincare is crucial for treatment effectiveness.
    • Hormonal changes significantly affect skin condition.
    • Consultations with estheticians can provide personalized care.
    • Investing in skincare is essential for long-term results.


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    37 mins
  • Understanding the Pelvic Floor: Myths and Facts
    Apr 11 2025

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    Summary


    In this episode of the Hot Flash Diaries podcast, Jessica Caceres interviews Kristin Parisi, a pelvic floor physiotherapist, discussing the importance of pelvic floor health, its functions, and the impact of aging and pregnancy. Kristin shares her journey in establishing Blueberry Therapy and emphasizes the significance of addressing issues like incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse. The conversation highlights the need for open discussions about women's health and the various treatment options available for pelvic floor issues. This conversation delves into the importance of understanding pelvic health, particularly focusing on issues like constipation in children, pelvic organ prolapse in adults, and the use of pessaries as a treatment option. The speakers emphasize the need for proper assessment techniques and advocacy for one's health, highlighting the significance of education and awareness in pelvic health.

    Takeaways

    • Pelvic floor health is crucial for overall well-being.
    • Kristin Parisi founded Blueberry Therapy to address pelvic health issues.
    • The pelvic floor supports bladder, uterus, and rectum functions.
    • Pregnancy can strengthen the pelvic floor but also lead to complications.
    • Pelvic organ prolapse is common but often overlooked.
    • C-sections do not eliminate the risk of pelvic issues.
    • Incontinence is common but not normal; it should be addressed.
    • There are effective treatments for pelvic floor dysfunction.
    • Constipation can significantly impact pelvic health.
    • Open conversations about women's health are essential. Constipation in children can lead to long-term issues.
    • Advocating for your child's health is crucial.
    • Pelvic organ prolapse can be severe and often goes undiagnosed.
    • Pessaries can provide significant relief for pelvic issues.
    • Everyone with a pelvic floor is at risk for prolapse as they age.
    • Pessaries should be comfortable and not cause pain.
    • Proper assessment techniques can improve diagnosis and treatment.
    • Education about pelvic health is essential for all women.
    • Hormonal changes significantly impact pelvic floor health.
    • There are many resources available for pelvic health education.


    Interested in working with Kristen, you can learn more here:

    https://www.blueberrytherapy.ca/

    Interested in booking an appointment with Kristen at Bonita Medical Aesthetics & Wellness? Book here: https://bonitamedicalaesthetics.janeapp.com/#/staff_member/10

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    39 mins