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The Inner Underminer: Why Sensitive & Creative Minds Have Harsh Inner Critics - Inner Critics Series #4

The Inner Underminer: Why Sensitive & Creative Minds Have Harsh Inner Critics - Inner Critics Series #4

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 If you’re neurodivergent, highly sensitive, or creative, your inner critic probably attacks who you are, not just what you do. It whispers “you’re too much,” “you’re too weird,” or “you’ll never fit in.” This isn’t random self-doubt—it’s the Inner Underminer, carrying years of messages about being “different.”This episode explores why sensitive, creative, and neurodivergent individuals develop particularly harsh internal voices, how masking trauma creates identity attacks, and practical steps to reclaim your authentic self-expression.What you’ll learn: ✓ Why the Inner Underminer targets identity, not just behavior ✓ How “masking trauma” creates systematic self-attack patterns ✓ The 4 faces of the Underminer: Masking Perfectionist, Sensitivity Shamer, Creativity Crusher, Neurodivergent Comparer ✓ Why your “weaknesses” in traditional environments become strengths in the right contexts ✓ 5 practical steps for neurodivergent-affirming self-acceptance ✓ How to create environments that support rather than suppress your authentic traitsPerfect for:Neurodivergent individuals tired of hiding their natural traitsHighly sensitive people told they’re “too emotional” or “too much”Creative minds whose ideas are dismissed as “weird” or “impractical”Anyone whose inner critic specifically attacks their identity and way of beingPeople recovering from a lifetime of masking and conformity pressureKey insights:Your Inner Underminer developed to protect you from rejection for being differentMasking trauma is real psychological damage from suppressing authentic self-expressionYour adult self has resources your criticized inner child never hadAuthenticity attracts authentic connection—the right people celebrate your differencesYour sensitivity, creativity, and different processing are features, not bugsAddresses different neurotypes:ADHD: Transforming “distractible” into “notice what others miss”Autism: Honoring attention to detail while managing perfectionist anxietyHigh Sensitivity: Using emotional intensity as strength for deep connectionCreative minds: Celebrating unconventional thinking and multipassionate interestsThis episode is part of our Befriending Your Inner Critics series: Episodes 1-2 covered foundational concepts and common critics Episode 4 focuses specifically on critics that develop around neurodivergent/sensitive identity Episodes 5-6 will cover trauma-based critics (abuse recovery, religious trauma)Resources mentioned:Masking trauma research and recovery approachesNeurodivergent-affirming therapy resourcesOnline communities for authentic neurodivergent expressionNext week: The Inner Destroyer - healing from internalized abuse when you’ve escaped toxic relationships but the abuser’s voice followed you home.Next steps: Befriend Your Inner Critic CourseRemember: Your sensitivity, creativity, and different way of processing the world aren’t problems to fix—they’re gifts that make you uniquely valuable. Authenticity is a practice, not a destination.Connect with Catherine: Website - Substack - YouTubeHi, I’m Catherine. I’m grateful to share this time and space with you.I’m a counselor living on the Emerald Coast of Florida, on the unceded land of the Muscogee. I am a creative, mystic, and neurodiverse adventurer. I love writing, creating, and connecting.I love helping folx Befriend Your Inner Critic, Become Your Own Best Friend, and reclaim your untamed soul.Thank you for being here in this sacred space we get to co-create, as we come home to ourselves and enjoy the fruit of that self-belonging. I love hearing from you and walking alongside you on your journey.My free gift to you: ⁠3 steps to trust yourself⁠.With a full heart,Catherine
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