Ep. 55 - Jen sits down with Mahjong expert Carolyn Lertzman to demystify the game that is taking the midlife community by storm in Los Angeles. Whether you've heard the click of the tiles and been intrigued or feel intimidated by the complex rules, this conversation breaks down why Mahjong has become a viral phenomenon.

We discuss:

- The history and cultural roots of the game.

- The difference between American and traditional Chinese styles.

- Why Mah Jongg is the ultimate tool for networking, community building, and finding "escapism" in midlife.

- Etiquette for beginners and how to avoid common "faux pas" at the table.

- Practical tips on sets, hosting, and finding an instructor. Whether you're a seasoned player or a total novice, discover how this game can bring joy, resilience, and connection to your own "beginning again" chapter.

Timestamps

0:00 – Intro: Midlife transformation and the Mahjong craze

0:51 – Meeting our expert, Carolyn

1:20 – Carolyn's journey: From Rummy Tile memories to teaching Mahjong

3:02 – The community aspect: Why it brings generations together

4:44 – Brief history and the difference between American vs. Chinese styles

7:27 – The "trauma bonding" of being a beginner

10:26 – Managing different personalities at the table

12:11 – High-level overview: How the game works

15:22 – New cards every year: What to expect

16:06 – Choosing the right set: Luxury vs. classic recommendations

20:17 – Differences in traditional vs. modern sets

22:13 – Mahjong etiquette: Dos and don'ts for new players

25:01 – Cross-generational play: Teaching kids and parents

28:06 – The "Golf" analogy: Learning through frustration

31:51 – How many lessons do you actually need?

35:16 – Where to find Carolyn and resources for players

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