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The Liberation Effect

The Liberation Effect

Written by: Helen Villiers MA
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Each week Helen invites a guest to explore a problem they’re facing and works through it with them; peeling back the layers to understand what’s happening and offering ways to move forward and make changes to resolve the issue. Whether it’s coping with narcissistic parents; going no contact; parenting ADHD or Autistic children; parenting after trauma; or their own ADHD or Autism; Helen helps the listener untangle the parts that keeps them stuck. To access Helen’s community focused on healing, learning and support, visit https://liberationacademy.co.uk/the-hub/

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Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Self-Help Success
Episodes
  • End of Season One
    Jan 21 2026

    We're reached the end of season one of The Liberation Effect! A huge thank you to all of our guests this season for sharing their stories so openly.

    We will be back very soon for season two!

    If you would like to be a guest on The Liberation Effect, you can apply for one of our limited therapeutic sessions recorded for the podcast. Your identity is fully protected, and only twelve sessions are published each year. You'll also find courses, resources and support at: https://liberationacademy.co.uk/therapy/

    Grow, connect and thrive with The Hub: ⁠⁠https://liberationacademy.co.uk/the-hub/



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    1 min
  • 40. Is It Autism or Trauma? (Replay)
    Jan 14 2026

    This week we're replaying one of our listeners' favourite episodes in which Patrick asks, is it autism or trauma?

    When we’ve grown up in chaos, it can be hard to untangle our trauma from who we truly are. In this episode, Patrick explores the tangled web of trust, identity, and survival after a lifetime shaped by narcissistic abuse - and a recent autism diagnosis that’s reframed everything.

    As he sits down with Helen, we witness a moving conversation about how trauma disguises itself in our thoughts, how autism and trauma intertwine, and how addiction can become a clever - if costly - coping mechanism. Together, they unpack people-pleasing, perfectionism, emotional disconnection, and the shame that lingers long after the abuse ends.

    This is an episode about rebuilding from the rubble, reclaiming joy, and learning to trust yourself again.

    If you would like to be a guest on The Liberation Effect, you can apply for one of our limited therapeutic sessions recorded for the podcast. Your identity is fully protected, and only twelve sessions are published each year: https://liberationacademy.co.uk/recorded-session-application/

    Grow, connect and thrive with The Hub: ⁠⁠https://liberationacademy.co.uk/the-hub/



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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • 39. Leaving With No Resources
    Jan 7 2026

    In this solo episode, Helen responds to a listener who feels at breaking point in a relationship shaped by chronic stress, emotional withdrawal and fear. With two young children in the home, she explores the weight of being expected to absorb a partner’s distress, manage the emotional atmosphere, and question your own character for reacting to behaviour that feels unsafe. Losing patience is often framed as a personal failing, but this episode challenges that belief directly, reframing it as a signal that boundaries have been crossed for too long.

    Helen unpacks the difference between explanation and excuse, especially when stress is used to justify shutting down, lashing out or emotionally disappearing. She speaks to the impact on children, the danger of walking on eggshells, and how childhood trauma can make people more likely to self blame rather than name harm. The episode also addresses financial fear, preparation rather than panic, and the importance of protecting emotional safety without minimising reality. This is a compassionate exploration of accountability, patterns, and the right to stop tolerating what hurts.



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    54 mins
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