In this special crossover episode, Rabbi Mendy Bistritzky sits down with therapist and fellow podcaster Sony Perlman, only this time, the interview takes place in Sony’s New York studio while Mendy leads the conversation. Sony, known for his candid and compassionate insights on the "BrainStorm" podcast, shares his experience working with at-risk youth, addiction recovery, and the community he’s built through “Our Village,” a network of sober living homes focused on healing through love, belonging, and human connection. The episode is co-released on both podcasts as a heartfelt collaboration between two people deeply committed to building meaningful, spiritually grounded lives.

The conversation explores the nature of worthiness, what it means to truly help someone heal, and why community is the essential ingredient to long-term recovery, not just from addiction, but from the isolation that so many people feel in daily life. Sony challenges the traditional view of addiction by explaining how all people, not just addicts, are searching for the same sense of inner peace and connection. Rabbi Mendy brings in Hasidic perspectives, particularly the idea that spirituality isn’t found in perfection, but in the paradox, the holy space where longing and struggle coexist.

Laced with humor, vulnerability, and spiritual depth, the episode touches on everything from how laughter can heal trauma to the Rebbe’s guidance on self-worth, to practical advice for those who are emotionally drained but still functional. Whether you’re battling addiction, burnout, or simply seeking more meaning in your relationships and spiritual life, this episode offers both comfort and clarity. It’s a reminder that healing is not about becoming someone else; it’s about remembering who you already are.

In this deeply personal and wide-ranging conversation, Rabbi Mendy sits down with his oldest brother, Rabbi Chanoch Bistritzky—known affectionately to his students as "Rabbi B." Together, they revisit their unique childhood in Southern California as children of Chabad shluchim, exploring memories filled with humor, mischief, and a profound sense of mission. Rabbi Chanoch reflects on the formative experiences that led him to embrace a life of Torah education, and how growing up surrounded by authenticity, warmth, and non-judgmental love shaped his approach to guiding students today.

The episode takes an especially moving turn as Rabbi Chanoch shares the story of his infant daughter's unexpected passing on Yom Kippur, and how that tragedy transformed—but did not diminish—his faith and joy in life. He speaks with candor about grief, purpose, and continuing to "raise" a soul even after it has left this world. Through it all, the brothers explore big themes: the balance between "the truth" and "your truth," why humor was the currency of their youth, and what it really means to see people not as broken, but as whole.

In this thought-provoking episode of The Long Short Way, Rabbi Mendy Bistritzky sits down with well-respected Rabbi and educator, Rabbi Mendel Zirkind, for a candid and wide-ranging conversation on paradox, faith, doubt, and the challenges of spiritual leadership. With humility and honesty, Rabbi Zirkind reflects on paving his own path while growing up in a prestigious rabbinic family.

They explore what it means to pursue truth without abandoning faith, how to reconcile rational thinking with deep intuition, and why embracing paradox might be the most honest form of belief. Rabbi Zirkind shares his insights on parenting, trauma, how we can educate better, and his work with yeshiva students in alternative yeshiva settings. He also opens up about his personal connection to the Lubavitcher Rebbe and how that relationship continues to shape his decisions, including his upcoming move to Melbourne to become a community rabbi.

This episode isn't about easy answers—it's about honest questions and the beauty of serving Hashem the long short way.

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