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The Manners Maketh Man

The Manners Maketh Man

Written by: Ryan Mortimer
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This is a gathering place for men to discuss the topics of the day and help each other become better men. Hosted by Ryan Mortimer. A lover of mens health, fitness, fashion, and all things men. This will be a weekly episode.2019 Self-Help Social Sciences Success
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  • MMM 50 - Standards - The Gentlemen Doesn't Negotiate List
    Feb 18 2026

    Most people live on feelings. If they feel motivated, they show up. If they feel tired or stressed, they disappear. That's not discipline. That's instability.

    In this episode, we talk about standards, what I call the gentlemen don't negotiate list. The few things you do no matter what, because it's who you are. Standards aren't perfection, and they're not a dramatic routine. They're simple, repeatable decisions that protect your future self from your current feelings.

    You'll learn how to build a small list of three to five non negotiables, how to create a minimum viable version for hard days, and how to reset fast when you slip so one bad day doesn't turn into a bad month.

    Weekly Standard: Write your gentlemen don't negotiate list, three to five standards, then protect it for seven days. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose.

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    12 mins
  • MMM 49 - Masculinity and Mental Health - The Quiet Work
    Feb 11 2026

    Most men don't think about mental health until things are falling apart. But mental health isn't a crisis response. It's maintenance.

    In this episode, we talk about the quiet work that keeps a man steady. How stress leaks when it goes unmanaged, why anger is often a signal, why numbing is not rest, and why isolation feels safe but costs you more than you think.

    We break down what "steady" actually looks like and the four pillars of mental maintenance: sleep, movement, stillness, and connection. Simple habits that don't require drama, but change your life when you do them consistently.

    Weekly Standard: Pick one mental maintenance habit and do it for seven days. Sleep, movement, stillness, or connection. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose.

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    14 mins
  • MMM 48 - Strength In Vulnerability
    Feb 4 2026

    Most people confuse vulnerability with weakness, or they confuse it with oversharing. Neither one is strength.

    In this episode, we talk about strength in vulnerability the refined way. Controlled honesty. Real emotion with boundaries. Saying what's true without turning it into drama, and without disappearing into silence.

    You'll learn the difference between vulnerability and emotional dumping, why men shut down and what it costs over time, and a simple framework you can use immediately: Truth, Ownership, Ask. What's real, what you're doing about it, and what you need.

    Weekly Standard: Say one honest sentence to the right person this week, then add ownership by sharing what you're doing about it. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose.

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    15 mins
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