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The Messy Parts

The Messy Parts

Written by: with Maryam Banikarim
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New career advice and messy stories, every Monday.

Whether you’re at the top, or striving to get there—you may have noticed the one thing people rarely talk about: how hard it is to achieve success. The Messy Parts is the answer—a podcast where you’ll hear about the twists, turns and pivots that shape extraordinary careers. The real messy parts along the way. Host Maryam Banikarim has been through it, so she gets it. Maryam has been a transformative leader across media, hospitality and tech. Her powerhouse resume features more than 20 years in the C-Suite at companies like Hyatt, NBC, and Nextdoor—and she has a vast, influential network to match. On The Messy Parts, she brings you unparalleled access to that network. Deeply honest, vulnerable conversations with Maryam—who is never afraid to ask the questions on everyone's mind. Join us as we get real, unfiltered, and messy.

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Episodes
  • The Best of The Messy Parts: Humor, Resilience & Rewriting the Rules
    Dec 22 2025

    This week, we are looking back at some of the most powerful, hilarious, and vulnerable moments from The Messy Parts. We created this episode with Hark Audio, gathering the standout clips that define what this show is all about: embracing the chaos and finding strength in the struggle.

    Whether you are new to the podcast or a day-one listener, this compilation features the wisdom you need right now. We revisit these conversations and more:

    • Negin Farsad on finding the humor in social justice and the "messy" side of comedy.
    • Fede Garcia on navigating communication and the power of perspective.
    • Vanessa Barboni Hallik on the complexities of sustainable fashion and ethical leadership.
    • Cindi Leive on redefining power structures and her journey through the media landscape.
    • Ana Gasteyer on how you make your aspirations your identity

    Tune in for a dose of inspiration, laughter, and real talk.

    Links: Check out Hark Audio: https://harkaudio.com/

    Send us a text

    Email us: hello@themessypartspodcast.com

    To stay up to date with The Messy Parts and get all the behind-the-scenes content, follow us on Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube.

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    Thank you for listening.

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    43 mins
  • Katie Sturino on Building Megababe, Owning the Mess, and Dreaming Big (Re-Release)
    Dec 15 2025

    We're going back to our first episode: Katie Sturino is no stranger to reinvention—from fashion PR hustler to viral dog-momager to founder of Megababe and author of the new romcom Sunny Side Up. In the premiere episode of The Messy Parts, she joins Maryam to talk about building a self-funded brand, the real struggles behind the Instagram gloss, and how letting the "messy parts hang out" can be your superpower. They talk all things Ozempic, Oprah, body image, revenge-fueled motivation, and working with family. Katie also opens up about her purpose: helping women stop feeling bad alone—and start feeling powerful together.


    Show Notes:

    Guest: Katie Sturino – Entrepreneur, Author, Founder of Megababe

    Follow Katie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katiesturino/?hl=en

    Follow Katie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katiesturino


    Topics Covered:

    • Why revenge is her greatest motivator: "Success is the ultimate revenge"
    • Moving to NYC and relentlessly pursuing her dream job at Chanel
    • Making her dog Toast Instagram-famous and recognizing unexpected opportunities
    • Starting 12ish Style blog after discovering the power of body representation
    • Creating Megababe: solving problems no one talks about (thigh chafe, boob sweat)
    • Working with family: benefits and challenges of business partnerships
    • Writing "Sunny Side Up": transforming pain into a romcom after 9 years
    • Meeting Oprah and sparking a national conversation about weight stigma
    • The messy reality of entrepreneurship that podcasts don't share
    • Dreaming big without limits and trusting your gut


    Mentioned:

    • Chanel
    • Dolce & Gabbana
    • Megababe Products
    • Toast (her famous dog): DogMeetsWorld
    • 12ish Style blog
    • "Sunny Side Up" (her novel)
    • Today Show
    • Oprah Special: Shame, Blame and the Weight Loss Revolution
    • Target
    • Weight Watchers
    • Ozempic
    • Ina Garten’s book, Be Ready When Luck Happens
    • The Longest Table

    Send us a text

    Email us: hello@themessypartspodcast.com

    To stay up to date with The Messy Parts and get all the behind-the-scenes content, follow us on Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube.

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a rating and review on Apple or Spotify or where ever you get your podcasts.

    Thank you for listening.

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    46 mins
  • Ana Gasteyer Gets Real About Wicked, SNL, and the Hustle of Showbiz (Re-Release)
    Dec 8 2025

    What does it really take to build a career across Saturday Night Live, Broadway’s Wicked, network TV, and music? In this re-release of one of our favorite episodes of The Messy Parts, Ana Gasteyer joins Maryam Banikarim to reveal the messy, unglamorous parts of showbusiness — like rejection, insecurity, and feeling like an outsider. Ana turned those realities into fuel for her creativity, and tells Maryam about the power of radical preparedness in auditions, why naming her goals out loud shifted everything, and how Martin Short's life-balancing method helps her navigate the chaos of life. Whether you’re an actor, artist, writer, or anyone chasing a creative dream, Ana’s insights on resilience and reinvention will resonate deeply. A warm, hilarious, and refreshingly honest conversation about ambition, belonging, and showing up for the life you want.

    Send us a text

    Email us: hello@themessypartspodcast.com

    To stay up to date with The Messy Parts and get all the behind-the-scenes content, follow us on Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube.

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a rating and review on Apple or Spotify or where ever you get your podcasts.

    Thank you for listening.

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    45 mins
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