What does it actually mean to have social intelligence and why does it matter so much in our relationships, churches, and everyday lives?

In this episode of Somehow Together, Miranda and Erica have an honest, thoughtful, and sometimes funny conversation about social intelligence: the ability to understand people, navigate social dynamics, and help others feel seen, valued, and safe. Together they explore the difference between emotional intelligence and social intelligence, how our upbringing shapes the way we relate to people, and why healthy relationships require intentionality, curiosity, and growth.

From awkward small talk and church lobby interactions to leadership, conflict, listening skills, and making people feel important, this conversation is full of practical insight and vulnerable reflection. They also discuss lessons from Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People, how Jesus modeled relational wisdom, and why encouragement often creates more lasting change than criticism.

Whether you naturally connect with people or constantly feel awkward in social spaces, this episode is a reminder that social intelligence is something we can all learn, practice, and grow in — somehow, together.

Book - "Managing Leadership Anxiety" - Steve Cuss

Book - "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - Dale Carnegie

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