In this Paddy Wagon exclusive, Mike and Anne-Marie deep dive into the profound and often misunderstood role of a death doula. They explore the emotional complexities surrounding death, the societal perceptions of grief, and the importance of celebrating life through memories and rituals. Anne-Marie shares her insights on coping mechanisms, the impact of social media on our understanding of happiness, and the transformative power of accepting death as a part of life. The discussion emphasizes the significance of love, connection, and the legacy we leave behind. Anne-Marie discusses the complexities of grief, the dying process, and the importance of memory and legacy. She emphasizes the need for acceptance of mortality and the emotional labor involved in dying, both for the individual and their loved ones. The discussion also touches on cultural perspectives on death and the transformative power of conversations about end-of-life decisions. For anyone who has lost a loved one... This is the episode for you!!

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Most people see fighting and brewing beer as worlds apart—until now. Michael Sutherland, a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu practitioner, former crab boat worker, brewmaster, and host of Fighters Drinking Coffee, proves that discipline, patience, and relentless practice create a surprising overlap between these intense worlds.

Discover how Michael’s unconventional journey from crab fishing in Chesapeake Bay to going pro in Jiu Jitsu reveals the importance of embracing varied paths—and the lesson that success often comes from saying “yes” to every opportunity. He shares behind-the-scenes stories from UFC-style grappling, the demanding process of brewing award-winning beers, and the brutal reality of combat sports—plus, the secrets behind scoring in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and avoiding the dreaded guillotine choke.

You'll learn why mastery is a marathon, not a sprint, and how the mindset of constantly striving for improvement can fuel every aspect of your life—whether you're fighting in the ring or crafting the perfect brew. For anyone feeling stuck in routine or craving the thrill of pursuit, this episode is a masterclass in pushing limits, finding purpose in chaos, and blending passions into a life well-lived.

Perfect for fighters, entrepreneurs, and curious minds alike—if you believe the best growth comes from daring to explore the unexpected, this episode is your next move. Get inspired by a true jack-of-many-trades who’s living proof that saying “yes” often leads to the most rewarding victories.

Tune in now and learn how to balance ambition, creativity, and discipline—because life's greatest victories come from the most unlikely combinations.

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In this episode of the Paddy Wagon , Mike welcomes Melissa Sifjardóttir, founder and creator of Sif Sniffs, who shares her unique journey through the world of feederism, weight gain, and personal transformation. Melissa recounts her experiences starting from her early fascination with fat fashion and the fetish community, where she reached a peak weight of 540 pounds. She discusses the complexities of her relationships within the feederism community, the challenges of body image, and the societal perceptions surrounding weight. As the conversation unfolds, Melissa also touches on her transition to becoming a fitness instructor and her ongoing journey of self-acceptance and health, including her recent weight loss and the impact of her growth hormone issues on her body. Melissa Sifjardóttir also shares her stories from being a fitness instructor to navigating the complexities of health issues and ultimately finding her passion in perfumery. She discusses her struggles with medical professionals who dismissed her concerns about growth hormone levels, leading to a significant weight loss after finally receiving the right diagnosis. Melissa also delves into her experiences during the pandemic, including her involvement in a cult-like group focused on Norse magic and how it influenced her life choices. The conversation highlights the importance of community, personal growth, and the challenges of transitioning from one career to another, especially in the creative field of fragrance-making. You won't want to miss this one, folks!!

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