Episode #12: In this episode of The Parenting Experience, TATA discusses the complexities of raising emotionally resilient children. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and managing one's own emotions as a parent, especially in the face of children's tantrums and emotional outbursts. TATA highlights that tantrums are a natural part of development and not a sign of failure. She advocates for the significance of presence, connection, and gentle guidance in fostering resilience in children, while also acknowledging the challenges parents face in this journey.

Chapters:

00:00 Navigating Emotional Resilience in Parenting
06:58 Understanding Tantrums and Emotional Development
14:02 The Role of Presence and Connection in Resilience

Takeaways:

One of the hardest parts of parenting is managing your own emotions.
Tantrums are not disrespect; they're unfinished brain work.
Resilience is built in safe conflict, not comfort.
Your child having big emotions means you're raising a human.
Gentleness is a strength under control.
Staying calm in the storm shapes a child's brain.
Sometimes the most powerful words are, I see you.
We are parenting and re-parenting all at the same time.
Resilience isn't about toughness; it is about safety.
Your child's safest thing is you.

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Episode #11: In this heartfelt episode, Tata shares her personal struggles as a mother, emphasizing the importance of finding peace amidst chaos. She discusses the pressures of motherhood, the nature of true peace, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Tata encourages listeners to embrace their evolving identities and reminds them that they are enough, even in the face of challenges.

Chapters:

00:00 Finding Peace Amidst Chaos
07:14 The Weight of Expectations
11:48 Embracing Acceptance and Letting Go
14:22 TPE Outro New Updated Audio Only_mixdown.mp3

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Episode #10: In this episode of "The Parenting Experience," the host emphasizes the importance of praise in shaping children's behavior, particularly focusing on two types of praise: everyday praise and strategic praise. Everyday praise is described as loving and natural encouragement, while strategic praise is used to foster specific behaviors such as listening and following directions. The host shares personal insights and practical tools for parents to implement effective praise, highlighting the significance of enthusiasm, specificity, and nonverbal communication in their approach.

The conversation also touches on the host's personal journey with her son Asher, who faced speech delays. Through consistent and heartfelt praise, she was able to build a connection and encourage communication, demonstrating that praise can be a powerful tool in parenting. The episode concludes with a reminder that simplicity and consistency are key in using praise effectively, encouraging parents to start incorporating these practices into their daily routines.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and New Year Reflections
01:31 Understanding Praise: Everyday vs. Strategic
04:51 Three Parts of Effective Praise
10:00 What to Avoid in Praise
11:41 The Impact of Praise on Behavior
14:39 Personal Journey: Asher's Story
19:16 Final Thoughts on Praise and Consistency

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