This episode is about the moment I finally chose myself.

After months of confusion, pressure, expectations, career panic, and decision paralysis… something finally clicked.

I talk about:

• losing my inner voice because of social media

• feeling stuck while everyone else moved on

• switching career paths after my degree

• choosing the “safe” option out of fear

• leaving behind an identity I outgrew

• the pressure of making the “right” choice

• and learning that there is no right choice — only the best choice for you

This episode is honest, personal, and very real.

If you’re in your twenties, confused, scared of choosing wrong, or feeling behind… I hope this helps you breathe again.

Thank you for listening.

And thank you for being here.

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I used to think self-love was all about pampering and positive affirmations. I was wrong.

In this episode, I share my biggest mindset revelation: True self-love isn't a feeling; it's an action. It’s the consistency, the discipline, and the hard work required to build the life you actually want. This is a real talk on why doing the difficult things is the ultimate form of kindness you can give yourself, and how to embrace the uncomfortable road to your goals.

At the end of the day, nothing changes if nothing changes. So be and make the change you want to see, you have more control over life than you think 💕

WHAT’S IN THIS EPISODE :

00:00 - Intro

03:22 - Setting boundaries

05:48 - There’s no shortcut to success.

08:01 - Let go of comparison.

08:57 - Become obsessed with growth.

11:26 - Remember why you started.

12:17 - Future self visualisation.

13:11 - You create your destiny.

15:04 - Stop taking passive action.

16:18 - Laziness will cost you your dreams.

16:58 - Value based goals.

18:15 - Tiny steps are just as important.

19:44 - Do not rely on motivation.

21:54 - Have patience.

22:36 - Give yourself an incentive.

24:45 - Be flexible.

25:41 - Conclusion.

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📄 ABOUT ME :

Consider me the friend you didn’t know you needed. I am Anushka, a 20 something year old who is blindly moving forward day by day and frankly doesn’t have all the answers 🥲✌🏻 I'm here to share with you the real, unfiltered experiences of life and the necessary dose of reality when we can’t seem to understand what the hell is going on. Here, there are no bounds, we freestyle and talk about everything related to friendships, relationships, career, mindset, and overall having a fun time!!! Thank you for tagging along 🥂

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Music used :

1. Music : Jardin d’hiver by Keren Ann

2. Outro : Music by Alana Jordan from Pixabay.

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The truth is, we all want happiness, but on your toughest days, it can feel so out of reach and complicated to achieve. You are NOT alone. I’m here to rescue you and debunk all of the daily myths that keep lasting joy complicated.

In this episode, we are diving deep into the foundation of happiness and the secret to lasting joy 🤫 before coming across actual, actionable steps to elevate your feelings of joy today! You can’t live a truly fulfilling life without this mindset, so let’s master it as a skill.

WHAT’S IN THIS EPISODE :

00:00 - Intro

02:52 - Why happiness seems complicated?

04:00 - Mastering happiness as a skill.

05:49 - The key to lasting happiness.

07:35 - The correct way to spend your time & energy.

09:12 - Why Western self help can be dangerous.

11:37 - The power of community.

13:43 - How to feel joy everyday?

15:56 - Energy flows where attention goes.

19:04 - Practical actions to increase happiness.

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📄 ABOUT ME :

Consider me the friend you didn’t know you needed. I'm here to give you the real, unfiltered advice and the necessary dose of reality when you can’t seem to understand what the hell is going on. We focus on everything related to life, friendships, relationships, career, mindset, and overall having a fun time!!! 🥂

Let’s get connected outside of The Perspective Project!

📸 Instagram: www.instagram.com/anushhkam

💅 Pinterest : www.pinterest.com/anewwho

Music used :

1. Music : Vamos A ver

Musician : Federico y Los Pájaros

2. Intro music : Music by Alana Jordan from Pixabay.

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