2025 was a big year - for families navigating separation, and for the work we do here at Danielle Black Coaching.

In this episode, I’m welcoming you into 2026 by reflecting on what we learned in 2025, what’s coming next, and - most importantly - how to use support wisely as a post-separation parent.

I share:

• Key reflections from 2025 and what they revealed about what parents actually need after separation
• What’s planned for 2026 across coaching, education, and small-group support
• Feedback from parents using the Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ and AI Danielle
• Why tools like the Blueprint and AI Danielle are powerful for education, insight, and capacity-building - but are not replacements for 1:1 or group coaching, particularly when it comes to co-regulation, nervous-system support, and relational repair
• How to think clearly about which type of support is right for you at different stages of your post-separation journey

I also introduce the newest addition to the Danielle Black Coaching team -Senior Coach Brigid Morgan, who specialises in supporting parents who are co-parenting without formal court orders and want to remain child-centred, developmentally informed, and grounded while navigating uncertainty, pressure, and ongoing communication challenges.

This episode is about clarity.
About discernment.
And about moving into 2026 with steadier expectations, better tools, and the right kind of support - rather than doing more, harder, or alone.

Explore the supports mentioned in this episode:

The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Evidence-based education to help you understand child development, safety, parenting arrangements, and post-separation dynamics
👉 https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/the-post-separation-parenting-blueprint-1

AI Danielle
Guided, structured support to help you think, plan, regulate, and reflect between coaching sessions
👉 https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/meet-ai-danielle

Small Group Experiences (2026)
Facilitated, topic-specific groups offering education, perspective, and shared learning — without court-specific advice
👉 https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/group-events

1:1 Coaching with Danielle, Trudie, or Brigid
Individualised, relational support when your nervous system, decision-making, or situation needs more than information
👉 https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/1-1-coaching

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

It’s easy to listen to podcasts, read posts on socials, and consume information… but none of that automatically turns you into the credible, strategic, protective parent you need to be in a post-separation, coercive-control landscape.

In this episode, Danielle explores the critical difference between knowing and doing, and why true protective capacity comes from integration, practice, documentation, and nervous system leadership - not passive consuming.

If you’ve ever felt informed but still overwhelmed, this episode will help you understand why - and show you the pathway toward real transformation.

You’ll learn:
• Why awareness is not the same as capacity
• Why your nervous system leads under pressure, not your knowledge
• What integration looks like in day-to-day parenting
• Why YOU must become the expert in your own case

Mentioned in this episode:
The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ - $300 off for Black Friday at the time of recording - our biggest discount of the year.

Join before December 12 2025 to also receive: Complimentary access to AI Danielle until May 2026.

AI Danielle supports you step-by-step with pattern analysis, communication scripts, documentation guidance, and nervous system tools - helping you integrate the Blueprint in real time.

This AI access will not be publicly available until mid-2026.

Visit danielleblackcoaching.com.au

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

Most parents assume that family law is financially exhausting because lawyers and court processes are inherently expensive.
But that's not the full story.
Legal fees explode when parents approach their matter reactively instead of strategically.

In this powerful episode, Danielle breaks down the core drivers of legal cost blowouts - emotional emails, unclear communication, poorly structured evidence, last-minute affidavits, crisis thinking, and relying on lawyers to interpret chaos rather than providing them with clean, focused instructions.

You’ll learn how strategic thinking, regulated communication, pattern-based evidence tracking, and the Blueprint methodology can dramatically reduce lawyer hours, save thousands of dollars, and strengthen the credibility of your case.

This episode empowers you to understand that you need more than just deep pockets - you need preparation, clarity, and self-leadership.

Key Takeaways:

• Why emotional, reactive emails can be one of the most expensive parts of family law
• Why reactive problem-solving drains both money and stamina
• The difference between survival mode and strategy mode
• What it means to become the expert in your own case
• Why strategy protects both finances and outcomes

For parents ready to level-up:
Right now, during the Black Friday window:

- The Blueprint is $300 off - our biggest discount ever
- Join before December 12 to receive:
- Complimentary access to AI Danielle until May 2026

AI Danielle supports you step-by-step with patterned analysis, communication scripts, documentation guidance, and nervous system tools - helping you integrate the Blueprint in real time.

This AI access will not be publicly available until mid-2026.

Visit danielleblackcoaching.com.au

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

Is 50/50 shared care or equal shared parental responsibility (decision making) automatic in Australia? No - but it is highly likely if protective parents consent to it out of exhaustion.

This episode breaks down the biggest myth in post-separation parenting:
that courts routinely “order” equal parenting time. In reality, most 50/50 outcomes occur because parents become overwhelmed, under-supported and pressured to agree long before trial.

Danielle explains what factors do influence equal-time outcomes, why stamina matters more than conflict, and why capacity-building is essential if you want to hold the line without collapsing halfway.

What you’ll learn:

• The difference between ordered vs consented "50/50"
• Why most equal-time outcomes arise from exhaustion, not genuine merit
• Risk & safety conditions that make equal-time less appropriate
• Why protective parents need strategy, not survival
• How The Blueprint helps protective parents to build the capacity required to keep going

BLACK FRIDAY: Until midnight December 12 - $300 off The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ + complimentary AI Danielle access. Making evidence-based protective parenting knowledge accessible to more Australian families. Visit danielleblackcoaching.com.au

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

This episode is a heartfelt message to the parents who have joined The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ or invested in coaching - parents who have chosen courage over comfort, strategy over survival, and capacity over chaos.

Danielle speaks directly to those who made the decision to invest not only money, but time, energy, emotional labour and their one precious window to protect their children in a post-separation landscape.

In a world where people spend without hesitation on coffee, handbags and other dopamine-fuelled purchases - you chose the unglamorous, diligent, deeply protective path. You chose to learn, to practice, to document, to regulate, to show up for your children now, while it matters most.

This episode honours you, sees you, and celebrates you.
Because you are the cycle-breakers.
The advocates.
The leaders.

What Danielle wants listeners to take away:

• Validation that choosing strategy is brave and rare
• Recognition for the invisible work protective parents do daily
• Permission to take pride in the investment they’ve made
• Encouragement to keep going when the process is heavy
• A reminder that this work changes outcomes long-term
• Reinforcement that The Blueprint is not a luxury - it’s a necessity for protective parents
• Confidence that their children will one day understand their commitment

BLACK FRIDAY: Until midnight December 12 - $300 off The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ + complimentary AI Danielle access. Making evidence-based protective parenting knowledge accessible to more Australian families. Visit danielleblackcoaching.com.au

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

Do Final Orders mean you're finally safe? Does completing a behaviour change program guarantee transformation? This episode exposes the dangerous myths that leave children unprotected.

If you've been told "he's done the program, so things are safe now" or "you have Final Orders, so everything should be fine" – this episode is essential listening.

Danielle Black breaks down the research on why:
• Behaviour change programs show mixed evidence for sustained change in coercive control patterns
• Online parenting courses cannot measure relational accountability
• Final Orders prioritise system closure over ongoing child safety
• Calendar-based contact progression ignores children's actual developmental needs
• The family law system systematically mislabels coercive control as "high conflict"

TOPICS COVERED:
✓ Why completion certificates don't equal transformation
✓ The online course problem and lack of accountability
✓ How the Australian family law system prioritises "finality" over safety
✓ What Final Orders DON'T solve (spoiler: most of the ongoing control)
✓ Life after Final Orders - the reality no one prepares you for
✓ Why capacity building and radical acceptance are lifelong tools, not just for during litigation
✓ The hard truth: no one is coming to save you (and why that's actually empowering)

RESEARCH REFERENCED:
Dr Julie Blake (University of Queensland - physiological impacts on children), ANROWS (Australian research on post-separation abuse), Australian Law Reform Commission Family Law Review, Professor Jennifer McIntosh (child development and trauma recovery), AIFS (Australian Institute of Family Studies)

PERFECT FOR:
Protective parents navigating Australian family law, parents with Final Orders still experiencing control, anyone told to "just co-parent," parents being pressured to accept behaviour change certificates as proof of safety, professionals working with separated families.

BLACK FRIDAY: Until midnight December 12 - $300 off The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ + complimentary AI Danielle access. Making evidence-based protective parenting knowledge accessible to more Australian families. Visit danielleblackcoaching.com.au

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

If you’ve ever found yourself deep in Google searches trying to work out whether your ex is a covert narcissist, a malignant narcissist, or something in between… this episode is for you.

Because here’s the truth:
Understanding “narcissism” won’t help you protect your children.
Understanding coercive control will.

In this episode, Danielle Black explains why protective parents get stuck in the narcissism rabbit hole - and how it can keep them overwhelmed, confused, and focused on the wrong problem.

You’ll learn:

• Why terms like “narcissist,” “covert,” “grey rock,” and “yellow rock” can keep you stuck, and reactive, instead of strategic
• Why the family law system doesn’t care about personality labels - and what it does care about
• The key differences between narcissistic traits and pattern-based coercive control
• Why identifying patterns of behaviour matters far more than diagnosing the person
• What you should be tracking instead
• How to shift from chaos → clarity, and from labels → evidence

If you’re exhausted from trying to decode their personality, stop.
The problem isn’t who they are - it’s what they do, the pattern, and the harm it causes your children.

This episode gives you the lens professionals actually respond to - and the one that puts you back in your power.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed right now - good. It means your instincts are working.

But instinct isn’t enough if you're navigating the court system with a controlling co-parent. You need structure, strategy, and language.

That’s what the Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint gives you.

And starting Friday 28 November 2025, you can get:

• $300 off
• 4 months of AI Danielle to support you 24/7

Take advantage of this special offer.
Your future self will thank you.

More information about the blueprint: https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/the-post-separation-parenting-blueprint-1

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

If Part 1 helped you understand the patterned aspect of coercive control, this episode helps you finally see the harm.

In Part 2 of this series, Danielle Black breaks down the 7 child-directed patterns of coercive control - the tactics most family law professionals completely overlook, and the ones that cause the deepest developmental harm to children.

Drawing on lived experience, research, and hundreds of real cases, Danielle explains:

• The 7 ways coercive control targets children, not just the other parent
• How to recognise patterns like conditional love, triangulation, undermining authority, isolation, fear-based compliance, parentification, and gaslighting
• How to document these patterns with clarity, accuracy, and strategy
• What professionals need to see (and why they don’t connect the dots on their own)
• How to speak the “language” of the family law system so your concerns cannot be dismissed as conflict

If you’ve ever felt like something is “off” in the way your ex parents - but struggled to explain it - this episode gives you the words, the lens, and the clarity you’ve been missing.

This is the episode that changes how you see everything.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed right now - good. It means your instincts are working.

But instinct isn’t enough if you're navigating the court system with a controlling co-parent. You need structure, strategy, and language.

That’s what the Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint gives you.

And starting Friday 28 November 2025, you can get:

• $300 off
• 4 months of AI Danielle to support you 24/7

Take advantage of this special offer.
Your future self will thank you.

More information about the blueprint: https://www.danielleblackcoaching.com.au/the-post-separation-parenting-blueprint-1

About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.