This episode explores a simple story with a lot of psychological weight: the raft you build to survive one season of life isn’t the vessel you’re meant to carry forever.
We talk about outgrowing anything that once kept you afloat — relationships, belief systems, workplaces, identities, recovery communities, or roles your family needed you to play.

I walk through the parable of the raft in plain language, connect it to real developmental transitions, and break down what differentiation actually looks like in adulthood:

• letting go without rejecting your past
• growing without apologizing for it
• staying grounded even when others misinterpret your change
• honoring what once protected you without dragging it into every new chapter

We also look at the psychology behind why people get uncomfortable when you grow beyond the container you started in — and how to navigate that without defensiveness or contempt.

This isn’t an episode about addiction or a single recovery model. It’s a conversation about evolution, identity, and the courage to move forward when a structure has done its job.

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