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The Real Work With Cody Butler

The Real Work With Cody Butler

Written by: Cody Butler
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This podcast is for men who want to lead their marriage with clarity, steadiness, and self-respect.


The conversations focus on what actually changes things at home: how you make decisions, how you handle pressure, and how you show up when it matters.


You’ll learn how to stop second-guessing yourself, reduce internal conflict, and lead your marriage in a way that feels calm, consistent, and sustainable, without losing strength, direction, or results in the rest of your life.

© 2026 The Real Work With Cody Butler
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Episodes
  • Win Your Wife Back Challenge - Day 1
    Jan 15 2026

    Learn More: https://codybutlercoaching.com/marriage-crisis-navigation

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Marriage Rescue 911
    Jan 9 2026

    https://codybutlercoaching.com/marriage-crisis-navigation

    The moment your wife says she wants to leave is the moment most men make their biggest mistake – they try to change her mind instead of changing themselves. In this powerful coaching session, I take you deep into the psychology of what's really motivating your wife's decision and what will ultimately cause her to stay.

    Your wife's behavior isn't random. She's responding to your behavior in predictable ways. When she tells you "you're too aggressive" or "I need more attention," she's handing you the blueprint to save your marriage, but most men are too busy defending themselves to see it.

    Through real conversations with men facing marital crisis, we uncover the fundamental truth that all communication serves just two purposes: to increase positive feelings or decrease negative ones. Understanding which category your wife's communication falls into gives you the power to respond effectively instead of reactively.

    The most transformative insight from this session might be recognizing that your insecurities function as "earplugs" that prevent you from hearing what your wife is really asking for. Men's fear of appearing incompetent drives defensive reactions that push partners away rather than drawing them closer. By challenging these insecurities and asking "what else could this mean?" when your wife expresses dissatisfaction, you open the door to genuine connection.

    This isn't about being "right" or "wrong" – it's about creating an environment where your wife feels safe, valued and understood. If you're ready to move beyond blame and into genuine transformation, this guidance will help you understand not just what's driving your wife away, but what will ultimately bring her back.

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Achieving Greatness by Defying Boundaries
    Jan 9 2026

    https://codybutlercoaching.com/marriage-crisis-navigation

    What if everything you believed about your limitations was a lie? Cody Butler challenges the conventional wisdom of traditional education systems, which often curtail our belief in our own capabilities. Sharing his compelling journey from adversity to becoming a multi-millionaire, Cody underscores a bold truth: we are beings of limitless power, divinely crafted to achieve whatever we set our minds to. This episode is a powerful call to recognize and embrace your inherent potential, urging a break from societal constraints that have long held us back from true success in relationships, health, and happiness.

    Living lives of quiet desperation isn't a foregone conclusion, as Cody passionately argues using insights inspired by Henry Thoreau. With love and commitment, he pledges to continue providing valuable insights and support through engaging content. By interacting—liking, subscribing, sharing, and commenting—you help spread this crucial message to a broader audience. In a world that desperately needs this empowering information, Cody extends his heartfelt blessings, eagerly anticipating future connections with listeners ready to seize the opportunity to unlock their incredible potential.

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    11 mins
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