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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast with Kēfla and Cree

The Refreshingly Normal Podcast with Kēfla and Cree

Written by: Kefla and Crecia
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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast

Welcome to The Refreshingly Normal Podcast, where real life meets real laughs. We are Kēfla and Lucrecia (Cree), a married couple of 22 years, long-time educators, and now stepping into the world of mental health counseling. Think of us as your favorite Unc and Auntie of the podcast world, keeping it honest, heartfelt, and hilariously human.

We’re also proud parents of twin young men who just turned 21 and are officially stepping into adulthood, which means paying their own bills (finally!). From raising kids to letting go, we’re navigating this new chapter with the same mix of love, humor, and a little side-eye.

Each week, we dive into the ups and downs of parenting, love, marriage, dating, and everything in between, served with a side of humor and practical wisdom. Whether we’re sharing lessons from the classroom, stories from our travels, or awkward moments at the gym or dinner table, one thing’s for sure, we keep it refreshingly normal.

So grab a cup of coffee (or a protein shake) and join the conversation. It’s therapy meets kitchen table talk… and you’re invited.

© 2026 The Refreshingly Normal Podcast with Kēfla and Cree
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Episodes
  • He Ate All The Emergency Snacks And Still Called His Ex
    Jan 25 2026

    The forecast says ice, but what we’re really tracking is how people act when life slows to a crawl. We kick off with practical storm prep—charging devices, wrapping pipes, backup heat, and smarter grocery runs—then pivot to the kind of relationship truths that only show up when the roads are closed and the Wi‑Fi is iffy. From laugh-out-loud “Believe it, sister” stories to hard-won lessons on boundaries, hygiene, and equity at home, this conversation blends humor with heart and leaves you with a clearer sense of what matters under pressure.

    Along the way, we revisit Georgia’s infamous ice week and how family rituals turned stress into memory. We contrast a hotel hide-and-seek side piece, a quarantine partner who ate all the emergency snacks and skipped showers, and a marriage that quietly unraveled over the words “I still need my freedom” before kids. These aren’t just wild tales—they’re red flags and green flags you can use. Ask the hard questions early. Respect the basics. Protect your time and your energy like the essentials they are.

    To keep it light, we drop into a “who’s most likely” game that maps our rhythms: planning cozy nights, finding deeper meaning in small things, meditating then napping, pranking, laughing at the wrong moment, and yes, trying something new when the mood music hits. We round it out with school closures, schedule shuffles, a side-eye at grocery-lane entitlement, and sauna etiquette for crowded gyms. We close on gratitude—kids thriving with mentor support, and personal growth through therapy steps and better habits.

    Hit play for storm hacks, relationship wisdom, and a lot of laughs. If it resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a winter pick-me-up, and leave a quick review telling us your biggest dating non-negotiable.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • GLP-1, Love, And Life
    Jan 18 2026

    A lash tech, a box of cheesecake, and a plan so bizarre it could be TV—our opening story turns a casual catch-up into a masterclass in paying attention to your gut. From there, we move through the joy and grind of school life: patient math help, energetic environmental science, and what it takes to lead adult trainings that actually change classrooms. We share how to set student teachers up for success, why letting interns into real workshops matters, and the small choices that build confidence before day one.

    Then we go deep on GLP-1 medications and the science of obesity, guided by clear, compassionate takeaways. Weight isn’t just willpower. Set points, hormones, and brain chemistry push bodies toward familiar numbers, which is why so many people rebound despite clean eating and exercise. We challenge the “cheating” narrative and focus on the health metrics that count: A1C, fasting glucose, blood pressure, lipids, and inflammation. Whether vanity goals or disease risk brought you to the question, the better frame is longevity, energy, and quality of life. We talk about making space for empathy in families, quieting shame, and choosing tools that fit your biology.

    Along the way we laugh through grocery-store scavenger hunts, partner questions, and those everyday moments that make a home. We honor MLK Day with memories of parades, service, and traditions that keep the light on. And we close with gratitude—new therapy work, resilient health during a rough season, and the stubborn hope that small choices still change futures.

    If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a kinder take on weight and health, and leave a review with your biggest insight. Your words help curious listeners find a space that feels, well, refreshingly normal.

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • Normal Is Enough
    Jan 11 2026

    Let’s talk about the kind of love that doesn’t need a filter—the kind that makes dinner together, leaves sweet reminders in the rush to work, and chooses repair over winning an argument. We open up about why “normal” gets a bad rap, how perfectionism sneaks into everything, and what to do when your relationship feels more routine than cinematic.

    We share concrete ways we reconnect when life is heavy or just plain boring: daily “I love yous,” acts of service that actually land, and honest check-ins that invite feedback without blame. We unpack the comparison trap—how curated feeds set expectations no human can hold—and offer a reset: define your version of commitment, fun, and stability, then protect it. You’ll hear how we navigate overthinking, own our missteps, and use small rituals to keep the emotional floor strong. Expect candid stories, a few laughs, and practical tools you can use tonight.

    Along the way, we challenge a few myths: that constant excitement equals healthy love, that the crowd decides what’s normal, and that growth must look like a highlight reel. Instead, we champion kindness with boundaries, empathy with accountability, and presence over performance. Whether you’re dating, newly married, or decades in, you’ll find ideas to simplify connection, reduce pressure, and build something sustainable.

    If this conversation helps, share it with someone who needs a little normal. Subscribe for more refreshingly honest takes, leave a review to support the show, and tell us: what’s one small ritual that keeps you close?

    Send us your Questions or Comments and we’ll answer them on the show.

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    1 hr and 32 mins
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