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The Self-Confidence Project

The Self-Confidence Project

Written by: The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill
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The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love. She shares an honest perspective to bring you the truth you need to hear - even if it's not pretty. If you're looking for relatable content and inspiring advice on how to transform your relationship and dating experience, tune into The SC Project.The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill Social Sciences
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  • Ep#261 - Why Smart Engineer-Minded Men Struggle With Women (& How to Fix It)
    Jan 8 2026

    In this episode, I address men who are intelligent, successful, and analytical, specifically those finding dating confusing. I explore why analytical strengths don't translate well into dating and show real-life examples of how this mismatch manifests. I'll guide you on what approaches work in dating without abandoning your intelligence. Learn how to create emotional connections, be present, and invite warmth and curiosity into your interactions. If you're serious about improving your dating life, I also offer complimentary consultations. Tune in to transform your dating approach and build meaningful relationships.

    P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.

    If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.

    See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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    16 mins
  • Ep#260 - Why Your Dating App Conversations Go Nowhere — And How to Fix It
    Dec 26 2025

    Welcome back! In this episode, we'll explore the common struggles men face with dating app conversations that feel dry and lifeless. I'll share why these interactions often fizzle out and provide key insights on how to foster meaningful connections. Learn about the biggest mistakes to avoid, how to inject emotion and personality into your texts, and the best time to ask her out. We also discuss why women's effort is a clear indicator of their interest and why you should move on when it's just not working. Whether you're dating again post-divorce or navigating the modern dating scene, this episode is packed with tips to enhance your online dating experience.

    P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.

    If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.

    See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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    26 mins
  • Ep#259 - Stop Confusing Intensity With Intimacy (How to Stop Making Painful Dating Decisions)
    Dec 18 2025

    In this episode, I'll be sharing essential insights on why the intense feelings you might experience when dating after a divorce, separation, or the end of a long-term relationship are often misinterpreted as love. You'll learn the signs of nervous system activation versus genuine intimacy, how the anxious-avoidant rollercoaster can affect your relationships, and tips to differentiate between short-term excitement and lasting love. This episode is packed with practical advice to help you break the cycle of confusing intensity with intimacy and move towards healthy, fulfilling relationships.

    P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch it here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Ready for tailored support? ⁠⁠Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and let’s map out your next steps.

    If you’ve ever wished you could just relax and enjoy conversations with women, this is your invitation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Need honest feedback on your dating profile so you can start attracting quality matches? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Look here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.

    See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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    25 mins
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