There are some sentences you never expect to say out loud.

And one of mine is this: I was genuinely facing bankruptcy.

Not in a dramatic, click-baity way. Not in a “things are a bit tight” way. But in a very real, very legal, this is actually one of my options right now kind of way.

In this episode, I’m taking you back to the moment my money avoidance finally caught up with me — and what actually got me out of £26,000 of debt in 18 months.

Spoiler: it wasn’t a perfect budget.

If you’re smart, capable, earning decent money — and still feel stuck, anxious, or quietly ashamed about your finances — this episode is for you.

For years, I believed things like:

• I’ll sort my money out when I earn more
• Everyone lives in their overdraft — that’s what it’s for
• Credit is just how you afford a life these days
• People like me aren't debt-free or financially secure

I was educated. I earned well. I was “good with everything else.” And yet money felt chaotic, emotional, and impossible to control.

Until one calm, non-judgemental phone call with a UK debt charity completely dismantled what I thought was “normal” spending — and forced me to question where my money was actually going… and why.

That conversation changed how I see money, joy, goals, and my future self.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What nearly going bankrupt really looks like (and why it’s more common than you think)
• Why budgeting kept failing me — and probably isn’t the real problem for you either
• The moment I realised I’d been outsourcing my joy to future-me (on credit)
• Why deprivation-based budgets create resentment — and rebellion
• How a £200 “joy fund” helped me pay off £26k of debt faster, not slower
• The emotional cycle of debt, stress, and survival spending
• Why mindset and systems are both non-negotiable if you want real change
• How to measure every spending decision against one clear financial goal
• The belief shift that made everything simpler: don’t fund joy with debt

Mentioned in this episode

• UK debt charities and free debt advice services
• Budgeting “averages” vs personal values
• Emotional spending and survival mode
• Buy Now, Pay Later and 0% credit myths
• Cost-per-wear thinking
• Values-based spending
• The £200 joy fund concept
• She Means Money Club philosophy: mindset + systems = freedom

Your Next Steps:

📲 Find Me on Socials

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam.sianpalmer/
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iam.sianpalmer

💸 Start Taking Control of Your Money

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Facts, Figures & References https://shemeansmoneyclub.com/post/i-was-almost-bankrupt-heres-what-actually-changed-everything

You know that feeling when payday hits — and for a couple of hours you feel like the queen of your life?

Bills paid, fridge stocked, confidence high.

And then… two days later, you’re right back to wondering where it all went and why you’re broke again.

That’s the Payday Panic.

That gut-clenching, head-spinning moment when the money that was supposed to last the month… doesn’t even make it through the week.

In this episode, I’m calling out the real reason this happens — and spoiler: it’s not because you’re “bad with money.”

It’s because the entire system is built to keep you financially stretched, emotionally fried, and quietly ashamed.

We’ll talk about how culture, marketing, and even your nervous system keep you stuck in the same payday loop — the one where payday feels like relief instead of progress.

Because the truth is, you can be earning £30k, £50k, £70k — and still feel like you’re one bill away from chaos.

This one’s for every woman who’s ever thought: “I earn too much to feel this broke.”

Let’s unpack it together — with no guilt, no spreadsheets, and no shame.

What You’ll Learn

• Why payday highs always crash into mid-month panic
• How lifestyle creep and emotional spending quietly drain your income
• The sneaky psychology behind “treat yourself” marketing
• Why most women see more ads — and spend more — without even realising it
• How Klarna, Clearpay, and credit apps turn stress into spending
• The cultural lie that “earning more” automatically means financial security
• Simple shifts that stop payday from feeling like a reset button

Your Next Steps

• Find me on socials:
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam.sianpalmer/
  • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iam.sianpalmer

• Start taking control of your money with these free tools: https://shemeansmoneyclub.com/links

📊 Facts, Figures and References - https://shemeansmoneyclub.com/post/episode-2-why-earning-more-hasnt-fixed-your-money-stress

Let’s talk about the thing no one wants to talk about.

Money.

Even saying it feels like we’ve broken an invisible rule, doesn’t it? We’ve been taught to keep it quiet — to smile, to cope, to pretend it’s fine.

But for a lot of us, it’s not fine.

In this episode, In this episode, I’m sharing my real, messy money story.

Not the polished “look at me now” version — the honest one.

We’ll unpack why money feels so emotional — and why you’re not bad with it. From the gender pay gap and the pink tax to Klarna culture and emotional spending, you’ll see exactly how the system was designed to keep women feeling behind.

Because money isn’t a maths problem — it’s an emotional one. And once you start talking about it, the shame starts to shrink.

If you’ve ever looked at your bank account and thought, “I should be doing better than this,” — this episode’s for you.

What you’ll learn:

• My honest money chaos story — and what it taught me
• Why feeling behind with money isn’t a personal flaw
• The cultural and systemic roots of women’s financial shame
• The pink tax, Klarna culture, and how the system profits from our stress
• How emotional spending isn’t weakness — it’s communication
• What calm, guilt-free money systems actually look like

Your Next Steps:

• Find me on socials: https://www.instagram.com/iam.sianpalmer/
• Start taking control of your money with these free tools: https://shemeansmoneyclub.com/links

Facts, Figures and References - https://shemeansmoneyclub.com/post/episode-1-debt-shame-and-the-lies-we-tell-ourselves-about-money