Recorded five days after the Bondi terrorist attack, Tim reflects on the strange providence of preaching about peace the morning before the attack.

His sermon from Philippians 4 explored why we struggle to find peace in a world online world where research shows rising depression, anxiety, and suicidality across all generations. But the biblical vision of peace (shalom) is both gift and obedience: the Spirit gives us peace, and the Spirit empowers us to pursue peace. Prayer, that act of relationship, trust, and faith is what guards our hearts and minds. Not the outcome, but the praying.

Joel and Tim then dive into a fascinating cultural analysis: "Why Didn't Your Grandparents Deconstruct?" which argues that church hurt, moral failure, bad theology, and unanswered questions have always so why is deconstruction so prevalent among millennials?

The answer is postmodernism's cultural programming. Previous generations lived in a hegemonic meta-narrative. Even when they experienced church pain, there was nowhere else to go. But millennials came of age in the '90s when postmodernism went mainstream. The new cultural catechism taught: truth is socially constructed, institutions are corrupt, every story masks a power play (especially religion), and authenticity comes through deconstruction. If something feels constraining, the answer isn't reform—it's exit. Walk away or burn it down.

As Christmas approaches, Tim and Joel discuss Soul Revival's four yearly high points: Christmas, Easter, Week Away, and Planning Days. They unpack why gathering on Christmas Day matters, the strategy behind the Kids Christmas Eve service, and why telling the Christmas story every year matters for forming young disciples.

The episode ends on the question of traditions: which ones do we hold, which do we discard, and why does the gospel tradition at Christmas still matter in a world that tells us all traditions deserve deconstruction?

Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro, Bondi attack and Tim's sermon on peace
15:51 - Deconstruction: The answer isn't reform, it's exit
31:06 - The traditions we hold and the traditions we discard

Discussed on this episode:
Tim’s sermon on God, Why Can’t I Find Peace?
On Bondi Beach, by Louise Perry
Why Didn’t Your Grandparents Deconstruct?, by Paul Anleitner

About the Shock Absorber:
A podcast for church leaders and ministry pioneers who want to do church differently. Hosted by Stu Crawshaw, Tim Beilharz, and Joel McMaster from Soul Revival Church.

Connect with us at joel@shockabsorber.com

Soul Revival Church meet across the Sutherland Shire & in Ryde: soulrevivalchurch.com

With Stu traveling and Tim unwell, Joel brings in the super-subs, Ethan and Brayden, to tackle the 6-7 meme and what it tells us about internet culture, and how Christians should respond.

They start with a primer on the 6-7 meme, following a breakdown by aidanetcetera on Instagram that claims it's evidence that "postmodernists won the culture war" and what it means to meme something into relevance.

The guys discuss whether this holds up. Is 6-7 actually abstract art, or is it just teenagers doing what they've always done, creating subculture that adults don't understand? They discuss the lifecycle of memes (why they die when younger kids adopt them), the difference between little memes and big movements like grunge, and whether capital-M Movements can even happen anymore when everyone's algorithm shows them different realities.

But this isn't just internet anthropology. Joel shares his research on getting his 11-year-old son a phone, Australia's social media ban for under-16s, the rise of sextortion, why helicopter parenting offline paired with complete digital freedom is naive, and what Christian wisdom looks like in practice.

If older Christians are going to say the internet is bad for development and then we sit around on our phones, what are we modelling? Despite cultural shifts toward declining literacy and shorter attention spans, God is still moving, people are becoming Christians through social media, mini-revivals are happening in the UK, and young believers are figuring out how to be Christian in digital spaces.

The episode lands on a hopeful note: movements still happen, they just look different now. And Christians are always in the middle of them. From women transforming the Roman Empire through radical hospitality to hippies doubling down on to Gen Z finding Jesus through TikTok, God works through every cultural shift. The question isn't whether to fear the movement, but how to partner with young people as they generatively figure out what it means to follow Jesus online and offline.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro and laying out the generations
04:16 - Is this 6-7 meme a work of art?
12:55 - When are memes cool and not cool?
20:38 - A movement of understanding how to be online
28:21 - Leaning into what people see as freedoms without knowing the consequences
34:19 - What do we model as the digital world becomes increasingly more prevalent?
43:44 - Movements still happen, and Christians are still in them

Discussed on this episode:
aidanetcetera on Instagram
Doot Doot, by Skrilla
Lamelo Ball basketball edits
Social media ban
Lewis’s Chip Lunch episode on the internet
Richard Dawkins a cultural Christian

About the Shock Absorber:
A podcast for church leaders and ministry pioneers who want to do church differently. Hosted by Stu Crawshaw, Tim Beilharz, and Joel McMaster from Soul Revival Church.

Soul Revival Church meet across the Sutherland Shire & in Ryde: soulrevivalchurch.com

Joel reclaims the hosting chair from Tim (who did a great job, but still...). They start off by debating favourite movies, why Tim can't finish The Godfather, and the comfort of rewatching The Bourne Identity, but quickly pivot into questions of efficiency, productivity and whether we should be as efficient as the world demands us to be.

Tim has been reading extensively about digital culture, AI, and what it means to be embodied Christians in an increasingly disembodied world. He introduces two key books: Christine Rosen's secular "The Extinction of Experience" and Samuel D. James's Christian "Digital Liturgies." Both argue, from different angles, that we're losing something fundamentally human as we trade physical experiences for digital ones.

The theological anchor is incarnation. God created us as embodied beings. Jesus took on flesh and was resurrected into a physical body. This matters profoundly for how we think about technology, productivity, and formation as disciples. When Mark Andreessen coins the term "reality privilege" to argue that most people's physical experiences are worse than what digital worlds can offer, he's essentially making the argument of The Matrix's Cypher: the fake world is better than the real one.

Tim and Joel push back hard. They discuss why God is not efficient (it took 1800 years from Abraham to Jesus), why the Bible is intentionally slow and story-shaped rather than a bullet-point list, why handwriting matters, why reading actual books matters, why face-to-face conversations are "3D" while text messages are "2D," and why the church must be a place of refuge from culture's aggressive push toward endless efficiency and productivity.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro, favourite movies
11:47 - We are created incarnate
26:22 - Does every moment have to be productive?
33:52 - The devious trick of efficiency
44:42 - How we are formed matters
1:06:30 - Tim's Takeaway

Discussed on this episode:
Anchorman
Step Brothers
The Mummy I
The Mummy Returns
Alien
Young Frankenstein
The Bourne Identity
The Fast and the Furious
The Godfather
The Social Network
A Few Good Men
Die Hard
Lethal Weapon
Tunnel 29, by Helena Merriman
The Escape Artist, by Jonathan Freedland
Cloverfield
The Extinction of Experience, by Christine Rosen:
Digital Liturgies, by Samuel D. James
Marc Andreesen
The Jungle Village Hooked on Phones

About the Shock Absorber:
A podcast for church leaders and ministry pioneers who want to do church differently. Hosted by Stu Crawshaw, Tim Beilharz, and Joel McMaster from Soul Revival Church.

Soul Revival Church meet across the Sutherland Shire & in Ryde: soulrevivalchurch.com