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The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast

The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast

Written by: Sophisticatedly Ratchet
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 Greetings from The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast! We are an eclectic ensemble of five vibrant millennials hailing from the pulsating heart of culture and creativity, New York City. We gather around the microphone to entertain our tribe with candid conversations, insightful observations, and explosive laughter. As we traverse the complexities of dating, the nuances of relationships, and the vibrancy of lifestyle, our perspectives often oscillate between hilarious and profound. Our fingers are always on the pulse of Black culture and current events, exploring them through our unique lenses to bring you conversations that are as enlightening as they are entertaining. Our mission for each episode is simple, yet profound - to Educate, Entertain and Inform. We delve into topics with authenticity, intellect, and wit, aiming to spark conversations that inspire thought and provoke dialogue. And, oh yes, we strongly believe that “life is too short for bad sex”!Copyright 2020 All rights reserved. Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Childhood Crushes & Playground Breakups - My Relationship with Puppy Love

    Childhood Crushes & Playground Breakups - My Relationship with Puppy Love
    Sep 9 2025

    In this episode of The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast, the Tribe takes it all the way back to the days of puppy love — those first crushes, awkward love letters, and playground heartbreaks that felt like the end of the world. Inspired by the viral James Tucker “Done with Bianca” video (our lil man had us ALL in our feelings), we’re asking the real question: were those childhood crushes actually valid, or were we just wildin’?

    From Disney movies teaching us fairytales to parents teaching us reality, we unpack how our earliest lessons in love shaped the way we view relationships today. We’re diving into:

    💘 Confessing childhood crushes & the silly tactics we used to get noticed

    💘 Who taught us what love should look like — Disney movies vs. our parents

    💘 Flash’s hilarious story about how his grandma schooled him on love early on

    💘 When love stopped feeling innocent and the moment reality hit

    💘 How childhood love languages and first heartbreaks still shape us today

    And of course, in our No Bad Days segment, each Tribe member shares one piece of advice they wish they could’ve told their younger self about love. Spoiler: grown-up us had some things to get off our chest.

    It’s real, it’s nostalgic, and it’s hilarious — It's Time to Get Ratchet, The Sophisticated Way!

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    59 mins
  • How did I become the 3rd wheel? - My Relationship With Dating Friends

    How did I become the 3rd wheel? - My Relationship With Dating Friends
    Jul 29 2025

    In this insightful and relatable episode of The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast, the crew dives into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes awkward world of friendships turning into romantic relationships. 💥😬

    🎙️ Episode Highlights: 🔥 When Friends Start Dating: Shake, Lil Moe, TJ, Flash, and Mash unpack the emotional minefield of seeing friends hook up and the complicated group dynamics that follow. 😬 The Awkward Third Wheel: Ever felt like you were suddenly the odd one out after your friends became a couple? The hosts share personal stories about feeling left out, navigating loyalty conflicts, and dealing with group drama. 👀 Breakups & Taking Sides: When love fizzles out, the crew debates whether you should pick a side or try to stay neutral—and if that’s even possible. 💔 Dating a Friend's Ex: The group explores the taboo topic of dating someone a friend was previously involved with and the potential fallout. ✅ Friendships vs. Relationships: Can you maintain close friendships when romance is in the mix? The hosts offer strategies for setting boundaries and preserving friendships, even when love gets messy.

    💡 Listener Mail: The episode kicks off with Kayla’s dating dilemma, where the crew offers practical advice on how to handle romance blooming within her friend group without losing her crew.

    🌿 Zen Moment & Affirmations: The episode wraps up with grounding affirmations to promote self-awareness and encourage healthy boundaries in both friendships and relationships.

    🔥 Whether you’re the friend dating, the one caught in the middle, or the awkward third wheel, this episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and hard-earned wisdom.

    We want to hear from you! Do you have a topic request, a question, or want to be a guest? Hit us up at SophisticatedlyRatchet@gmail.com

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    Timestamps:

    00:00:00: Show teaser

    00:01:20: Introduction to Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast

    00:01:42: Meet the Tribe

    00:04:00: Episode Topic Introduction: Friends Dating Dynamics

    00:04:21: Word of the Week

    00:07:10: Listener Mail: Kayla's Friends Dating Dilemma

    00:14:44: Introduction to the discussion about relationships within a friend group

    00:15:03: Personal experiences on how dating within a friend group has affected friendships

    00:16:24: The impact of loyalty and taking sides when friends date and break up

    00:19:01: Dealing with secrets and the fallout from shared conversations

    00:21:02: Current issues within the friend group caused by internal dating dynamics

    00:25:02: Discussion about a college friendship affected by a relationship within the group

    00:26:05: Consequences of dating a friend's ex and the subsequent fallout

    00:28:39: Resolving Conflicts Among Friends

    00:31:01: Invitation to Join the Conversation

    00:31:06: Announcement of Advertising Opportunity

    00:32:27: Continuing the Debate on Loyalty

    00:33:01: Discussing Friendships and Relationships

    00:37:42: Challenges in Communicating Needs in Relationships

    00:40:21: Navigating Changes in Friend Dynamics

    00:42:25: Light-hearted banter

    00:42:41: Dynamics between the hosts

    00:43:06: Handling conflicts between friends

    00:46:09: Question about dating a friend's ex

    00:49:06: How to heal from past relationships

    00:50:11: Can friendships survive after a breakup?

    00:52:38: Possibility of rebuilding friendships after conflicts

    00:56:11: Friendship Dynamics and Challenges

    00:57:06: Zen Moment and Daily Affirmations

    00:57:29: Discussing Friends and Relationships

    01:00:45: Closing Remarks and Listener Engagement
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • The Ultimate Survival Guide - My Relationship with FBoys

    The Ultimate Survival Guide - My Relationship with FBoys
    Jul 15 2025
    In this raw and revealing episode of The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast, the crew breaks down four modern dating archetypes: The Fraud, The Mooch, The Free Agent, and The Situationship. 💔🚩 Whether you’re navigating dating apps or figuring out where you stand with your situationship, this episode will help you spot the red flags and avoid emotional heartbreak. 🔥 Episode Highlights: 🚩 The Fraud: Smooth talker by day, sneaky player by night—this archetype masters deception. The hosts share real-life stories of betrayal and warning signs to watch out for. 💰 The Mooch: From fake flexers to financial leeches, the crew exposes the money-hungry manipulators who will drain your wallet and your peace of mind. 💔 The Free Agent: Always on the market, never ready to commit. This type keeps options open, leaving you confused and emotionally stranded. 😏 The Situationship: Great dates, great sex, but zero commitment. The crew discusses how mixed signals and unclear boundaries make these relationships feel like emotional purgatory. 🔥 Case Study Alert: The Tribe analyzes the "Tinder Swindler" as the ultimate fraud—a master of manipulation with a trail of broken hearts and empty bank accounts. 💸 👀 Mash shares his experience with friends entangled in situationships and the importance of recognizing when you're being played. 💡 Dating Tips: The crew offers practical strategies to spot F-boys early, protect your emotional well-being, and date smarter. 🎧 Whether you’re dating, healing, or leveling up your relationship standards, this episode delivers honest insights, hilarious stories, and real-world advice. We want to hear from you! Do you have a topic request, a question, or want to be a guest? Hit us up at SophisticatedlyRatchet@gmail.com LISTEN, FOLLOW, AND RATE 🎙️ Hosted & Created by: TJ, Lil Moe, Flash, Shake, and Mash Follow Us! 📱INSTAGRAM 📱TWITTER 📱TIK TOK 🎥YOUTUBE Timestamps: 00:00:00: Show teaser 00:00:11: Discussion on Four Types of Relationship Issues 00:01:01: Personal Experience with Relationship Types 00:01:36: Host Introduction and Show Details 00:02:05: Community Engagement Announcement 00:02:18: Tagline and Show Spirit 00:02:35: Host Welcomes Co-hosts 00:03:37: Episode Topic Introduction 00:04:00: Deep Dive into Relationship Types 00:04:22: Introduction to the Episode Topic: Avoiding the Wrong Relationship Partners 00:05:02: Introduction of the Word of the Week: Voracious 00:07:00: Discussing Usage of the Word "Voracious" 00:09:15: Introduction to Relationship Archetypes 00:12:11: Discussion on the Four Relationship Archetypes 00:14:25: Hosts Reflect on Personal Experiences with the Archetypes 00:15:44: Closing Remarks and Advice to Listeners 00:15:59: Introduction to the situationship discussion 00:17:13: The complexities of having multiple partners 00:18:06: Asking questions in the early stages of dating 00:19:02: Women's awareness and decisions in relationships 00:20:32: The role of money in dating and relationships 00:21:10: Comparing a mooch to a pimp 00:22:32: Faking wealth and appearance 00:23:50: The "Tinder Swindler" as a case study 00:25:06: Personal experiences with dating frauds and mooches 00:27:54: Opportunity for small business owners 00:28:58: Personal story continuation and revelations 00:29:39: Introduction of a constant companion 00:30:30: Transition from casual dating to seeking commitment 00:31:26: Discussion about body count perceptions 00:33:45: Origin stories of relationship behavior 00:35:00: Realization of meaningless sex and emotional detachment 00:39:00: Reflections on past romantic experiences 00:40:02: Recognizing pivotal moments in intimate relationships 00:42:19: Discussing boundaries about family-related questions 00:42:36: Vagueness about locations and plans 00:44:00: Recognizing F boys through their behaviors 00:45:02: Changing perspectives on relationships 00:46:00: Personal story about a friend’s relationship during COVID 00:48:08: Signs of recognizing an F boy 00:50:02: Advice on handling relationships with F boys 00:51:00: Personal experiences and moving on from F boys 00:52:24: The importance of open conversations about relationships 00:53:39: The necessity of experiencing heartbreak 00:55:04: Learning from past relationships 00:55:47: Identifying red flags of an F boy 00:56:16: Introduction to discussion 00:56:22: Signs of an "Fboy" 00:59:47: Transition to the "No Bad Days" segment 01:01:00: Closing remarks and upcoming episodes 01:02:04: Word of the week competition 01:04:44: Farewell and outro
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    1 hr and 4 mins
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