In this episode of The Tour Life, we sit down with Rene Villanueva, musician, writer, and member of the band Hacienda, to explore the crossroads of personal loss and professional success. Rene opens up about the sudden loss of his mother right before a major tour with Hacienda and the emotional toll it took on him and his brothers. Despite their growing success, including collaborations with Dan Auerbach of The Black Keys, Rene describes how suppressing their grief led to burnout, mental health struggles, and the eventual need to take a step back from their career.

We discuss the importance of prioritizing mental health, especially in high-pressure industries like music, where pushing through grief can cause long-term harm. Rene reflects on how he and his brothers learned to process their emotions, embrace self-reflection, and re-evaluate their purpose before returning to the music scene.

Key Takeaways:

1. Pause to Heal: Even when you're on a trajectory of success, it’s okay to take a step back to process grief and trauma. Ignoring emotional health can lead to burnout and long-term negative effects.
2. Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Instead of bottling up emotions, finding outlets like meditation, self-reflection, or even taking time off can make a significant difference in your well-being.
3. Compartmentalizing Grief Isn’t Sustainable: Trying to “push through” personal tragedy while performing or working can lead to breakdowns in other areas, including relationships and mental health.
4. Redefining Success: Success doesn’t always mean continuing on a predetermined path. Sometimes, true success is recognizing when you need to hit pause and take care of yourself.
5. Support Systems Matter: Keeping close relationships with loved ones can provide grounding and perspective, especially when the demands of the road feel overwhelming.

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• @hacienda_tx

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In this episode of The Tour Life, we sit down with Bardo, an emcee whose music blends hip-hop, jazz, and global influences, shaped by his experiences growing up abroad. From living in Japan as a child to creating a distinctive sound in Chicago, Bardo shares how immersing himself in different cultures and languages has expanded his worldview and musical creativity.

We discuss his creative journey, the challenges of staying authentic, and the importance of embracing failure. Bardo also reflects on the value of genuine connections in the music industry and how key "connectors" have helped him navigate Chicago's dynamic scene.

Key Takeaways:

1. Cultural Exploration: Living in Japan and other countries has deeply influenced Bardo’s music and opened him up to diverse creative processes.
2. Be Authentic: Embrace who you are and your roots. Bringing your unique perspective to the table enriches every experience.
3. Stay Creative Amid Challenges: When the business side gets tough, dive back into creating music to keep the joy and momentum alive.
4. Multiple Projects: Keeping multiple projects on hand allows you to stay productive, even when one doesn’t go as planned.
5. Failure as Growth: Failure is an inevitable part of the journey. It teaches crucial lessons and ultimately leads to success.

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• @whereisbardo

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In this episode of The Tour Life, we chat with Chicago-based emcee, ShowYouSuck, an artist known for his unique approach to hip-hop and his collaborations with Air Credits, The Hood Internet, and more. ShowYouSuck shares his journey from growing up as a solo creative, discovering rap as his outlet, and ultimately finding success on his own terms. Along the way, he learned to navigate the challenges of building a music career in Chicago's diverse and often fragmented scene.

We dive deep into the concept of creating with intent and discuss ShowYouSuck’s unique outlook on life, which balances the highs and lows without letting them define his self-worth. He also talks about his post-apocalyptic rap project, Air Credits, his experiences with DJing, and the importance of fostering community in an industry where support can often feel elusive. Throughout the conversation, ShowYouSuck emphasizes the importance of loving the process over focusing on the outcome.

Key Takeaways:

1. Community and Support: Being part of different friend groups with varied interests helps expand your network, which can open unexpected doors in your career.
2. Intentional Living: Moving with intention in your art, relationships, and life can bring a greater sense of fulfillment and control.
3. The Importance of Self-Talk: How you talk to yourself impacts your outlook on your career. Speaking positively, even when things aren’t perfect, is essential to keeping your momentum.
4. Process Over Results: Letting go of attachment to outcomes, like crowd sizes or song plays, is key. Falling in love with the creative process itself brings more satisfaction than focusing on metrics.
5. Staying Grounded: Life and art are a series of events—neither good nor bad. The only thing you can control is how you react to them.

Follow ShowYouSuck on Instagram:

• @ShowYouSuck

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