In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole shares a raw, spirit-led conversation sparked by an unexpected moment inside her Circle — one that turned into a two-hour exploration of what it really means to walk a spiritual path in today’s world.

From staying “in the spiritual closet” to questioning visibility, success, and leadership in the metaphysical space, this episode is a permission slip for anyone wondering:

• Do I have to go public to be spiritual?
• Do I have to quit my job or turn this into a business?
• What if my path looks nothing like the people I admire?

Nicole explores the idea that we are not all meant to be on stages or television — that many of us are meant to be a light in our own homes, families, workplaces, and communities, quietly changing systems from the inside out.

This episode dismantles the myth of a “right way” to be spiritual and invites you to:

• Release comparison and hierarchy in the metaphysical world
• Trust the uniqueness of your story, timing, and role
• Stop waiting to know the destination before you begin
• Give yourself permission to explore, experiment, and evolve

Whether spirituality is a private practice, a side passion, a curiosity, or a calling you’re just beginning to listen to, this conversation reminds you of one essential truth:

There are no wrong steps — and the world needs you exactly as you are.

Current Group Classes:

• Revive Your Sacral Power: A 6-month embodied activation to reconnect with desire, creativity, and life-force
• The Circle: A multi-modal spirit communication development space for growth, experimentation, and expansion
• Intuition Development: Learn how intuition works, how to trust it, and how to use it
• Learn more: https://mediumnicole.com/classes

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Join the Unity Code collective to participate in experiments: https://mediumnicole.com/podcast

Nicole Pope is an internationally-trained Evidential Medium and Soul Integration Guide dedicated to helping others reconnect with their higher self, awaken their gifts, and remember who they truly are.

To connect with Nicole, book a reading, or access her social media accounts: http://mediumnicole.com/links

Nicole shares a raw, spirit-led reflection on how her “team” redirected her from planning mode into true co-creation—starting with the 2026 Activation Portal. She breaks down what happened when she stopped trying to control the how, made space for flow, and received major downloads (including the evolution of her Mastermind into The Circle and a clearer, more expansive direction for her offerings). She also calls herself out for slipping back into old habits once routine returned—and offers a Year 1 challenge: Are your current patterns aligned with your next self, or just comfortable for your nervous system?

In this episode:

• Why repeated “flubs” can be a sign you’re off-topic
• Co-creating with Spirit vs. leading with logic/control
• The Activation Portal: closing loops from Year 9 before Year 1
• Why rigid planning can backfire (and what Spirit had her do instead)
• Flow pockets, family life, and receiving downloads without forcing it
• Nervous system cues: freeze patterns, overload, and the “nap reflex”
• The Year 1 prompt: choose habits that match the future you

Call to action: Nicole is creating a non-Facebook space to discuss episodes, share questions, and explore new topics + live sessions (including “living mediumship”).

Current Group Classes:

• Revive Your Sacral Power: A 6-month embodied activation to reconnect with desire, creativity, and life-force
• The Circle: A multi-modal spirit communication development space for growth, experimentation, and expansion
• Intuition Development: Learn how intuition works, how to trust it, and how to use it
• Learn more: https://mediumnicole.com/classes

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Join the Unity Code collective to participate in experiments: https://mediumnicole.com/podcast

Nicole Pope is an internationally-trained Evidential Medium and Soul Integration Guide dedicated to helping others reconnect with their higher self, awaken their gifts, and remember who they truly are.

To connect with Nicole, book a reading, or access her social media accounts: http://mediumnicole.com/links

Grief has a way of making every word feel heavier. That’s why our conversation with international intuitive medium and mentor Deb DeSell focuses on language, consent, and care—so messages from spirit soothe rather than sting. Deb brings a rare blend of evidential skill and therapeutic crisis intervention training, showing how trauma-informed and grief-informed practices can transform a reading from “interesting” to deeply healing.

We dive into the simple shifts that matter most: why “died by suicide” is kinder and more accurate than “committed,” how to convey responsibility in a passing without blame, and what to do when a spirit steps forward that the sitter isn’t ready to hear from. Deb shares clear scripts for opening a session with consent and control, gives alternatives to harmful phrases like “you’re so strong” and “you chose this,” and demonstrates value-neutral framing for sensitive evidence. You’ll hear practical approaches you can use immediately—whether you’re reading professionally, supporting a grieving friend, or navigating your own loss.

We also talk timing after death, managing expectations that can constrict a session, and the power of semantics when words like “mischievous” mean different things to different people. Deb points to essential resources, including the Dougy Center, and invites newer practitioners to build a referral list so clients leave with support beyond the sitting. Along the way, we celebrate Deb’s projects—the Intuitive Entrepreneur book, her upcoming Intuition 101 class, and her new show The Intuitive Edge, where soul meets strategy.

If you care about ethical, heart-led mediumship and real-world support for the bereaved, this one will stay with you. Listen, share with someone who needs better language around loss, and tell us: which phrase will you change first? Subscribe, leave a review, and tag us with your takeaways so more people can find this conversation.

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To connect with Deb Decelle:

Deb is an international intuitive medium and mentor known for her trauma-informed, heart centered approach. Deb helps people connect with spirit, trust their intuition, and step into soul- driven success. She leads classes and retreats across the globe and is the host of her upcoming show, The Intuitive Edge, Where Soul Meets Strategy.

Connect with her:

• @DebDecelleMedium on Instagram
• @DebDecelleMedium on Facebook
• Sacred Senses Intuition 101 Starts Jan 6th, 2025

• FREE 2026 Activation Portal (Closes Dec 15th): https://mediumnicole.com/new-year-activation
• Revive Your Sacral w/ Adriana (Starts Jan 6th!): https://mediumnicole.com/divineattunement
• Intuition Dev @ $12.34/mo (50% off until 1/1!): https://mediumnicole.com/intuition-development

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Join the Unity Code collective to participate in experiments: https://mediumnicole.com/podcast

Nicole Pope is an internationally-trained Evidential Medium and Soul Integration Guide dedicated to helping others reconnect with their higher self, awaken their gifts, and remember who they truly are.

To connect with Nicole, book a reading, or access her social media accounts: http://mediumnicole.com/links