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The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered

The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered

Written by: Abi Wilde
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Sick of bandaid fixes, confusing fertility advice, and a body that feels overdue for a software update?


The Wilde Way is the no-BS guide for women who are done guessing and ready to heal their fertility, balance their hormones, and finally understand what their body needs — without burnout or overwhelm.


Hosted by Abi Wilde — Integrative Fertility & Hormone Coach and mama to two miracle babies — this podcast is all about radically transforming fertility, whole-body healing, and getting to the root of what’s really holding you back.


Whether you’re deep in TTC burnout, navigating endo or PCOS, or quietly freaking out that your eggs are expiring faster than your oat milk… this show is for you.


Each week, Abi shares science-backed strategies, nervous system support, and holistic tools — so you can stop spiralling and start healing from a place of trust.


Don’t want to do this alone? Come connect with Abi on the ’Gram @abi.wilde for hugs, support and freebies.

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Episodes
  • 34. The Stress Spiral Affecting Your IVF Outcomes (And How to Break It)
    May 5 2026

    Share your TTC story ✨

    If you’ve ever found yourself lying awake at 2am Googling symptoms…
    spiralling after an appointment…
    overthinking every little thing your body is doing…
    or feeling emotionally consumed by IVF…

    …this episode is for you.

    Because IVF is not just physically demanding.
    It’s emotionally demanding too.

    And so many women are trying to support fertility while quietly stuck in survival mode.

    In this episode, I’m breaking down:
    • the hidden “stress spiral” many IVF women get trapped in
    • how chronic stress impacts the nervous system, hormones & emotional resilience
    • why “just relax” is terrible fertility advice
    • the difference between survival mode vs safety in the body
    • my Circle of Woe™ vs Circle of Flow™ framework
    • the real reason you may feel emotionally exhausted during IVF
    • the nervous system tool I personally use when I feel anxious, overwhelmed or spiralling
    • practical ways to support your body in real life

    And honestly?
    This might be one of the most important conversations we can have as women navigating IVF.

    Because your body is not broken.

    And you do not need to shame yourself into healing.

    🤍 WANT MORE PERSONALISED SUPPORT?

    I’ve recently opened up a small number of Wilde IVF Clarity Sessions.

    These are personalised 90-minute sessions for the woman who feels emotionally exhausted, overwhelmed, stuck in survival mode, or unsure what her body actually needs right now.

    Inside these sessions, we look at the FULL picture together:
    • nervous system stress & emotional overwhelm
    • fertility prep foundations
    • lifestyle & regulation support
    • what may quietly be draining your energy
    • how to stop feeling like you need to do EVERYTHING perfectly
    • creating a grounded, realistic plan that actually fits your season of life

    You’ll leave with:
    • clearer direction
    • practical next steps
    • nervous system support tools
    • renewed confidence in your decisions
    • and the feeling that you’re no longer trying to figure this all out alone

    Because sometimes you don’t need more information.

    You need support.
    Clarity.
    And someone to help you feel held through this process.

    And honestly?
    It’s some of my favourite work I get to do.

    So if this feels supportive to you, jus

    If you’re craving a little extra support, I’ve got some beautiful free resources to get you started.

    You can grab my IVF Prep Checklist here:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ivf-prep-checklist

    And if you’re in that in-between, the waiting, the overthinking… I’ve also created a Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel more grounded:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/two-week-wait

    If you’d like more personalised support, you can book a free 30-minute IVF support call with me here:
    https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

    We can chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.

    I’m creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app for women trying to conceive, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements… all of it.

    If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/blyoom-waitlist

    And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/abi.wilde

    It’s where I share free tips, tools, and fertility support for whole-body ...

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    22 mins
  • 33. You’re Doing IVF Prep Wrong… And It’s Costing You
    Apr 21 2026

    Share your TTC story ✨

    If you’re preparing for IVF and feeling like you need to do everything… this episode is your permission slip to exhale.

    Because more isn’t always better.

    And in a world where Fertility Awareness Week is flooding your feed with advice, protocols, supplements and “must-dos”… it’s very easy to end up overwhelmed, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you’re missing something.

    In this episode of The Wilde Way, I’m cutting through the noise and bringing you back to what actually matters when it comes to preparing your body for IVF.

    This is the stuff that moves the needle.

    ✨ In this episode, we cover:

    • Why “doing more” can actually be holding you back in your IVF prep
    • The truth about supplements… and why they’re not the magic fix you’ve been told they are
    • The common mistake I see women make when it comes to AMH and fertility numbers
    • What I call the “circle of woe” and how stress impacts your hormones, immune system, and fertility
    • Why nervous system regulation isn’t optional… it’s foundational
    • The missing piece most fertility conversations ignore (and why it matters more than you think)
    • How to start supporting your body properly without overwhelm or perfection

    🧠 Resources & Links Mentioned:

    🎬 Watch the Netflix documentary on plastics (eye-opening and so relevant to your toxic load):
    https://www.netflix.com/title/81206879

    📋 Get your free IVF Prep Checklist:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ivf-prep-checklist

    💬 Want personalised support? Book a 1:1 clarity call with me:
    https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

    💛 Final Note

    If you’ve been feeling like your body is letting you down… please hear this:

    Your body isn’t broken.
    She’s overwhelmed.

    And when you start supporting her in the right way, everything can shift.

    You don’t need to do everything.
    You just need to do the right things.

    If this episode resonated, send it to a friend who’s in the thick of IVF prep or trying to conceive 🤍
    And if you haven’t already, make sure you’re following The Wilde Way so yo

    If you’re craving a little extra support, I’ve got some beautiful free resources to get you started.

    You can grab my IVF Prep Checklist here:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ivf-prep-checklist

    And if you’re in that in-between, the waiting, the overthinking… I’ve also created a Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel more grounded:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/two-week-wait

    If you’d like more personalised support, you can book a free 30-minute IVF support call with me here:
    https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

    We can chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.

    I’m creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app for women trying to conceive, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements… all of it.

    If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/blyoom-waitlist

    And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/abi.wilde

    It’s where I share free tips, tools, and fertility support for whole-body ...

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    21 mins
  • 32. Pregnancy Loss, Miscarriage & Grief: What No One Tells You (And What You Actually Need to Heal)
    Apr 7 2026

    Share your TTC story ✨

    Hey beautiful,

    This one is deep. The kind of episode that might make you pause for a moment… take a breath… and just feel.

    Today I’m joined by Lauren (aka Lolo), founder of A Soulful Sorrow — a space for women navigating pregnancy loss, grief, and everything in between.

    And before we dive in… quick note — the tech gods were not on our side and we lost the first part of the conversation (I know 😅). But don’t worry, I’ve filled in the gaps so you’re not missing anything important.

    And truly… this is one of those conversations that stays with you.

    We’re talking about the parts no one really prepares you for — the grief, the shock, what happens in the body, the nervous system, the loneliness… and also what can gently support you through it.

    Because let’s be honest…

    So many women are walking through loss, IVF, negative tests, heartbreak — and being told to “just stay positive.”

    And if you’ve ever been on the receiving end of that… you’ll know it’s not always that simple.

    🤍 In this episode, we chat about:

    • Why pregnancy loss is still so silenced, and why that needs to change
    • The real experience of miscarriage, beyond what we’re often told
    • The kind of grief that can feel unpredictable and all-consuming
    • What’s happening in your nervous system during loss
    • Why so many women feel alone in this, even when they’re not
    • The pressure and confusion around the “12-week rule”
    • What actually feels supportive… and what doesn’t
    • Gentle, practical tools to support your nervous system through grief
    • Pregnancy after loss, and why it can feel like a completely different journey
    • Ways to honour your baby and your experience in a meaningful way

    🧠 The big takeaway?

    Grief isn’t something to fix or rush.

    It’s something to be felt, supported, and witnessed… in your own time, in your own way.

    And you’re not meant to do this alone.

    🤍 Resources mentioned:

    Lolo’s work + support:

    • A Soulful Sorrow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asoulfulsorrow/

    💬 If this episode resonated…

    Feel free to share it with someone who might need it, or pop it on your stories and tag me 🫶 It really does help get this into the ears of mor

    If you’re craving a little extra support, I’ve got some beautiful free resources to get you started.

    You can grab my IVF Prep Checklist here:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ivf-prep-checklist

    And if you’re in that in-between, the waiting, the overthinking… I’ve also created a Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel more grounded:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/two-week-wait

    If you’d like more personalised support, you can book a free 30-minute IVF support call with me here:
    https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

    We can chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.

    I’m creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app for women trying to conceive, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements… all of it.

    If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here:
    https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/blyoom-waitlist

    And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/abi.wilde

    It’s where I share free tips, tools, and fertility support for whole-body ...

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    1 hr and 1 min
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