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There You Are

There You Are

Written by: jessicabollinger@me.com
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There You Are is the podcast where real life meets real love — and everybody's invited to the conversation.


Hosted by Jess and Cathy, a married couple who've spent thirty years learning, growing, and choosing each other on purpose, There You Are explores what it actually looks like to live with intention. Jess brings her years of experience as a therapist. Cathy brings her deep connection to horses and the wisdom they offer about trust, partnership, and showing up. Together, they bring warmth, honesty, and the kind of conversation you wish you could have with your two most interesting friends.


Each episode, you'll find something to carry with you — whether it's a new way to see an old struggle, a shift in perspective, or a simple reminder that joy is available to you right now.


Topics include relationships, mental health, horses, connection, personal growth, and the everyday moments where healing quietly happens.


You don't know what you don't know. But there's always room to grow. Pull up a chair — there you are.


What You'll Hear on There You Are:

  • Real conversations about relationships and how to make them thrive
  • Mental health insights without the clinical distance
  • Stories from the barn — what horses teach us about ourselves and each other
  • Practical tools for choosing kindness, growing through hard things, and staying grounded
  • Chats about the everyday moments where connection lives

This podcast is for you if:

  • You love horses, animals, and the wisdom they carry
  • You're on a path of personal growth and mental wellness
  • You want to feel more connected — to the people you love and to yourself
  • You believe that joy, peace, and love are worth pursuing every single day

There You Are is hosted by Jess (therapist) and Cathy (horse professional and educator) and is produced with love, laughter, and a whole lot of heart from a beautiful horse farm in Central Kentucky.

New episodes drop regularly.

Find us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you listen.

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Episodes
  • Getting the Tools for Life!

    Getting the Tools for Life!
    May 18 2026

    Getting Tools for Life!

    It is all about relationship. Jess and Cathy are so grateful to have learned tools that help them. We don’t know what we don’t know! Early in their relationship, when Jess was getting her Masters of Social Work, she learned about the Getting the Love You Want work of Harville Hendrix. She and Cathy went to a weekend workshop in the Maggie Valley of North Carolina. It has given them the tools to have a rich relationship that evolves daily! Jess became certified in that work, and many other modalities to help her clients the most. Cathy talks about Natural Horsemanship and how it helps the relationship with the horse and rider. They can then reach the goals that the rider has. It is all about what we can learn—what tools can you pick up to help you and others? Peace and Love! Subscribe and share!

    Theme song and host introduction. Jess and Cathy welcome listeners to There You Are, introduce themselves, and share what the show is about and who it's for.

    Theme song and closing words from Jess and Cathy, including a call to action to share the episode, leave a review, and tune in next week.

    Cathy is a professional at training and teaching the sport of Three Day Eventing. Her website is:

    https://www.cwevent.com

    Jess is a licenced clinical social worker. She see's clients in her office in the back of the house here at the farm.

    Her website is:

    https://www.jessicabollinger.com
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    32 mins
  • Staying Connected

    Staying Connected
    May 11 2026

    May 11, 2026 Staying Connected

    Jess and Cathy have shared their lives together for 32 years, and oftentimes they are not physically in the same space. They have learned what they need to do in an intentional way to stay connected. There are also the people in their lives, both personal and business that they make sure they have the times for. What traditions and in what ways do you stay connected to the people important to you?


    Theme song and host introduction. Jess and Cathy welcome listeners to There You Are, introduce themselves, and share what the show is about and who it's for.

    Theme song and closing words from Jess and Cathy, including a call to action to share the episode, leave a review, and tune in next week.

    Cathy is a professional at training and teaching the sport of Three Day Eventing. Her website is:

    https://www.cwevent.com

    Jess is a licenced clinical social worker. She see's clients in her office in the back of the house here at the farm.

    Her website is:

    https://www.jessicabollinger.com
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    32 mins
  • Endings Lead to New Beginnings

    Endings Lead to New Beginnings
    May 4 2026

    Endings Lead to New Beginnings

    Jess and Cathy discuss the circle of life—when one thing ends, a new beginning starts. They reflect on their careers—how there are different phases. Cathy grew into being an upper level competitor and that entailed going to Florida 8 weeks during the winter, renting a barn, being closer to her instructors that teach upper level competitors. She taught less, she didn’t have as much time for the business side of her work, and had less money. Now she says doesn’t miss competing, she has more time for her students, and has an expansive course design profession. Jess was not a professional with horses, but competed at the preliminary level for a lot of years. When motherhood came along, she didn’t want to compete as much. Her horse had retired. Now she rides just for the fun. Jess also talks about the sadness seeing this past week her old fruit and vegetable building had been torn down. There are always new things on the horizon to do and become!

    Theme song and host introduction. Jess and Cathy welcome listeners to There You Are, introduce themselves, and share what the show is about and who it's for.

    Theme song and closing words from Jess and Cathy, including a call to action to share the episode, leave a review, and tune in next week.

    Cathy is a professional at training and teaching the sport of Three Day Eventing. Her website is:

    https://www.cwevent.com

    Jess is a licenced clinical social worker. She see's clients in her office in the back of the house here at the farm.

    Her website is:

    https://www.jessicabollinger.com
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    29 mins
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