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Some children lose pieces of childhood long before anyone realizes it.
In this powerful episode of They Come With Instructions, I sit down with Jasmine Cox for one of the most remarkable interviews we’ve had to date.
Jasmine shares her journey of growing up in the shadow of addiction, carrying responsibilities far beyond her years, protecting family secrets, and stepping into a role no child should have to carry. As the oldest daughter, she became more than a sister — she became a caretaker.
But this episode is not just about pain.
It is about resilience.
It is about forgiveness.
It is about learning to release the guilt carried by a little girl who believed far too much rested on her shoulders.
Together we talk about parentification, recovery, faith, emotional healing, family dynamics, and the courageous work of making peace with the child version of ourselves.
Jasmine’s story is honest, brave, and deeply moving.
And yet, what makes Jasmine’s story so remarkable is not only what she endured — it is who she became.

Behind the calm, poised, and beautifully refined woman is humor, warmth, strength, faith, and a quiet resilience that points back to God.
This episode also speaks to the power of church community, spiritual family, and the relationships formed among the saints. Jasmine shares how faith, connection, and the presence of God became part of her healing journey — reminding us that restoration often happens in community.
If you have ever been the strong one… the responsible one… the oldest child who grew up too fast, this conversation is for you.
And if you have ever wondered whether God can restore what life tried to take…
This story is proof that He still heals.
🎙️ Listen. Share. Be encouraged.
Because sometimes the child carrying everyone else… still needs someone to carry them.
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In this heartfelt episode, René sits down with Ricky Brown — a young father navigating life, love, and loss while raising his daughter, Leilani.

What began as a simple desire to share his voice unfolds into an honest and tender conversation about fatherhood, responsibility, and the deep love he carries for his little girl.

Ricky opens up about what he wants most for Leilani — happiness, security, and the unwavering knowledge that she is loved. He also shares the powerful truth he will one day pass on to her about her mother — that she fought to stay, and that her love never left.

While every step of his journey is still unfolding, one thing is clear: Leilani has her father’s heart.

In this conversation, you’ll hear a young man willing to listen, to grow, and to seek more — from pursuing faith and community to considering the importance of guidance and support along the way.

This episode is a reminder that parenting doesn’t come with perfection — but it does come with intention, love, and the opportunity to grow into the role.

Because sometimes, the journey of becoming the parent your child needs… happens in real time.

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Season 2 of They Come With Instructions kicks off with a lively and heartfelt conversation between René Anderson and her oldest son, Duke.

Known for his energy, humor, and honesty, Duke joins the podcast for a conversation full of laughter, reflection, and meaningful dialogue about family relationships and personal growth.

Together they explore sensitive but important topics—including father-son dynamics, expectations within families, and the courage it takes to have difficult conversations with the people we love most.

This episode reminds us that while hard conversations may feel uncomfortable, the healing, understanding, and love that follow are often worth the effort.

René reflects on the blessing of watching her son grow into a thoughtful young man, while Duke shares his perspective on life, identity, and becoming the man he is meant to be.

Season 2 begins with laughter, wisdom, and a powerful reminder that healthy family relationships are built through patience, honesty, and grace.

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