In this episode of Twee Bat, Brandon Haskey-Valerius talks with Annie Kiyonaga about identity, selfhood, and the quiet pressure to define ourselves through our work.
Building from Annie’s recent article, the conversation explores how teaching and other care-centered professions encourage us to collapse who we are into what we do. Annie reflects on the language of productivity, success, and usefulness, and how those narratives shape not just our careers, but our sense of self.
Together, they consider what it means to step back from assigned roles, sit with uncertainty, and begin the work of unlearning identities that no longer fit. This episode is about the lessons we internalize, the ones we were never formally taught, and the ongoing process of figuring out who we are when the syllabus runs out.