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UnDoing We with Mardi Winder-Adams

UnDoing We with Mardi Winder-Adams

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 UnDoing We: Divorce and Life Conversations is not your typical divorce show. Hosted by Mardi Winder-Adams, a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools, this show offers real talk, expert advice, and honest discussions on ending a relationship and the opportunity to redefine your life. Each episode provides practical guidance and emotional insight to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in for candid conversations with top experts on legal, financial, co-parenting, mindset, wellness, and more. UnDoing We is where your next chapter begins.Copyright WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Self-Help Success
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  • Move Beyond - Post Divorce Financial Checklist - Gina Phillips

    Move Beyond - Post Divorce Financial Checklist - Gina Phillips
    Feb 18 2026
    Today on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder chats with Gina Phillips, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA®), to talk honestly about what happens with your finances once your divorce papers are signed. Many people expect relief after the decree is final, but as Mardi and Gina point out, there’s a whole new set of important tasks to tackle, and ignoring them can cause major headaches down the road. Gina shares her straightforward advice on everything from sorting out your mortgage and making sure your name is actually on your house, to why it’s so important to stay on top of things like updating beneficiaries and filing those critical retirement plan documents. She dives into some common mistakes people make, like assuming their insurance will just work itself out or not realizing how fast deadlines for things like health coverage or financial transfers can sneak up on you. Their conversation is packed with tips for getting a handle on your money, setting up your new financial life, and not getting caught off guard by surprise bills or legal mishaps. Gina shares a Post Divorce Financial Checklist that’s available for listeners, designed to make this rocky transition period a little smoother. If you’re worried about missing something important after your divorce, this episode is full of reassurance, smart ideas, and reminders that you really can take control of your future while building your financial confidence. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Gina Phillips is the owner of WNY Divorce Financial Advisors, LLC, where she passionately dedicates herself to empowering individuals navigating marital transitions to regain control over their financial well-being. As a skilled liaison between clients and divorce mediators and attorneys, Gina is driven by personal experience and a deep understanding of the challenges that accompany divorce. Her pursuit of certification as a Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) demonstrates her commitment to providing comprehensive support. With over 30 years of experience in auditing and accounting fields, Gina brings a wealth of knowledge to her practice. Her certification as a CDFA® combined with her expertise enables her to offer compassionate and cost-effective assistance. Whether you are in the early stages of considering a divorce or currently navigating the complexities of the legal proceedings, Gina will guide you with empathy and expertise to ensure your transition is as smooth and financially secure as possible. For Gina’s gift, the Post-Divorce Financial Checklist: https://6214433.hs-sites.com/post-divorce To connect with Gina: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gina-phillips/ Website: https://www.wnydivorcefinancial.com/default.php Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wnydivorcefinancial
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    29 mins
  • Move Beyond Emotional Pain With New Trauma Insights

    Move Beyond Emotional Pain With New Trauma Insights
    Feb 17 2026
    Today on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder sits down with Estefana Johnson, a seasoned mental health clinician with over 20 years of experience working in trauma and mental health care. In this conversation, Estefana Johnson shares her journey from an unexpected start in behavioral health to becoming the Director of Clinical Training at Arise Alliance Institute, where she explores innovative and holistic approaches to healing. Together, they dive deep into the complex relationship between trauma and loss, exploring how unresolved experiences can shape our lives and even echo across generations through something called "generational data." Estefana Johnson breaks down the science behind how our brains hold onto past events, why trauma isn’t just about what happens to us but how we process it, and introduces listeners to the principles of Critical Memory Integration (CMI), a powerful method for internal healing and self-discovery. If you’ve ever wondered how trauma can linger, why we may feel stuck in old patterns, or how to start looking within for answers and real freedom, this episode is a must-listen. Get ready for practical insights, real talk about healing, and a hopeful message about the power we each hold to transform our lives. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Estefana Johnson, LCSW, brings over 20 years of experience in trauma and mental health care. She began her career as a Behavioral Health Technician in 2001 and later taught in Japan before moving into roles in residential treatment, medical social work, and clinical leadership. As Director of Clinical Training at ARISE Alliance Institute, she develops and delivers curricula in trauma-focused care and interventions like Critical Memory Integration (CMI™), while also practicing clinically at Lighthouse Psychiatry & TMS in Gilbert, Arizona. Estefana is actively involved in research on therapeutic uses of psychedelics and is passionate about advancing innovative, healing-centered approaches. A first-generation child of immigrants, she is committed to supporting foster and adoptive youth, leading programs that provide education and care rooted in resilience and recovery. To connect with Estefana: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estefanajohnsonlcsw/
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    27 mins
  • Strategies for Blending Families After Divorce - Maria Natapov

    Strategies for Blending Families After Divorce - Maria Natapov
    Feb 2 2026
    Welcome to another episode of UnDoing We. Today, host Mardi Winder sits down with Maria Natapov, a step parenting expert and trusted adviser to those struggling with blending families in relationships post-divorce. In this conversation, Mardi and Maria dive deep into the complexities and real-life challenges of blending families after divorce, a topic that touches every parent, child, and stepparent involved. Whether you’re moving into a new relationship, blending households, or simply wanting the very best for your kids after divorce, this episode is packed with relatable stories, actionable guidance, and gentle reminders to keep self-care and empathy at the heart of your next steps.

    Tune in for an honest, compassionate look at what it really takes to redefine family and heal together.

    About the Host Mardi Adams is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About the Guest Maria Natapov is a Stepparenting Expert and Trusted Advisor to Divorce Professionals, Financial Advisors, and Parenting Coaches. Maria offers a caring and playful coaching approach, empowering clients to blend their families with joy and confidence. As a daughter of divorced immigrant parents and a stepparent herself, she understands the unique communication challenges in blended families and the importance of innovative support systems. Using her signature 4-step energy-focused process and Rapid Resolution Therapy, Maria helps stepparents and divorced parents transition from chaos to harmony. She strengthens caregivers’ values, fosters partner alignment, and builds trust with stepchildren.

    Maria has supported numerous families through her VIP Stepparenting Breakthrough model and her podcast, Synergistic Stepparenting. Learn more at SynergisticStepparenting.com.

    For Maria’s gift: Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting https://SynergisticStepparenting.com/subscribe To connect with Maria : Website: https://SynergisticStepparenting.com
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    29 mins
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