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Unconditional Happiness: Learning to Enjoy Life!

Unconditional Happiness: Learning to Enjoy Life!

Written by: AlterAbility.co
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Jason had a tough childhood that was filled with anger, drama, bullying, and loneliness. However, he was determined to change himself for the better. Over a period of 20 years, he worked hard to find happiness and a sense of worthiness. In March 2019, he had a major realization about the root of his problems. Since then, he has been able to appreciate all the different aspects of life, even when things don't go according to plan. His marriage was saved, and his relationships are now stronger and more meaningful.AlterAbility.co Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
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  • 138: Gratitude: From re-living our dislikes to re-living our likes.
    Dec 12 2025

    Most of us already rehearse what we dislike. We relive annoyances, replay frustrations, and strengthen dissatisfaction without realizing it. This reflection explores gratitude not as forced positivity, but as deliberate attention training. By noticing what we genuinely enjoyed and briefly re-experiencing it, we increase life satisfaction without denying what went wrong. The practice is simple, grounded in happiness science, and surprisingly practical: train the mind to rehearse enjoyment instead of defaulting to complaint. Over time, this shifts how the game of happiness is played.


    #gratitudepractice #lifesatisfaction #happinessscience #attentiontraining #positivepsychology #mindfulness #enjoyment #wellbeing #mentalfitness #presentmoment #happinessgame


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    6 mins
  • 137: You’re already playing The Happiness Game. Here’s How to Win!
    Dec 7 2025

    Everyone is already playing The Happiness Game—most just don’t understand how it works. This deep dive breaks happiness down as a measurable, strategic game with clear traps, compounding assets, and winnable outcomes. Instead of chasing short-term pleasure, it shows how to eliminate “misery subscriptions” like resentment and self-criticism, stop fighting reality, and build long-term life satisfaction. You’ll learn why disliking reality destroys enjoyment, how cause and effect explains your emotions without shame, and how the DAD framework (Dislike, Accept, Decide) turns painful moments into fuel for growth. Happiness isn’t luck or positive thinking—it’s learning how to play smarter, one accepted moment at a time.

    - “You’re already playing the game; the question is whether you’re playing it well.”

    - “Stop chasing highs. Build assets.”

    - “Disliking reality is the fastest way to lose.”

    - “Misery is often just a bad subscription you forgot to cancel.”

    - “Acceptance clears the mind. Growth changes the future.”

    - “You can’t control the moment—but you can control the next input.”

    - “Enjoy life more than you dislike it. That’s the score.”


    #happiness #lifesatisfaction #mentalfitness #psychology #emotionalintelligence #acceptancemindset #selfacceptance #personalgrowth #mindsetshift #mentalhealth #wellbeing #positivityscience #causeandeffect #innerpeace #happinessgame #selfmastery #growthmindset


    Topics: happiness game, life satisfaction, positive psychology, subjective well-being, acceptance, self-acceptance, emotional regulation, rumination, resentment, jealousy, misery subscriptions, hedonic adaptation, long-term happiness, time affluence, cognitive flexibility, neuroscience of emotion, cause and effect, growth mindset, alterability, acceptance framework, DAD method, decision making, stress management, mental health tools, relationships and happiness


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    38 mins
  • 136: Introduction to The Happiness Game.
    Dec 7 2025

    Life is a game we’re all already playing. The question isn’t how to win faster. It’s how to play better. In The Happiness Game happiness isn’t about chasing more money status or approval. It’s about stacking real assets like contentment time affluence strong relationships presence and meaning while reducing liabilities like constant wanting comparison and disliking reality. When we stop fighting what is we free up time energy and attention to enjoy the game that’s already here. That’s not giving up. That’s playing smarter.
    #TheHappinessGame #Happiness #Wellbeing #Contentment #TimeAffluence #PositivePsychology #Wholebeing #LifePhilosophy #MeaningfulLiving #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Stoicism #Acceptance #HumanFlourishing

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    7 mins
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