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"Wait, Don't Talk About It Now! The Surprising Communication Rule That Saves Relationships | Raffi Bilek"

"Wait, Don't Talk About It Now! The Surprising Communication Rule That Saves Relationships | Raffi Bilek"

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What if I told you the worst time to talk about your relationship problems is when you're actually upset?


My guest today, Raffi Bilek from Baltimore Therapy Centre, completely changed how I think about communication. He shares the exact framework he uses with couples - the LOVE method - that transforms arguments into connection.

We dive deep into:

  • Why waiting to talk is actually the smartest move
  • The 3 most important words in marriage (game-changer!)
  • How to handle gridlock when you're both stuck
  • Breaking the "never go to bed angry" myth
  • Real talk about intimacy, parenting conflicts, and in-law drama

Raffi brings 15 years of experience and his book "The Couples Communication Handbook" to give you practical tools you can use today. No fluff - just real strategies that work.

This conversation reminded me why I love this work. Every relationship has friction - we're two different brains trying to share one life. But with the right skills? Magic happens.

Progress over perfection, always.

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