In this episode, I speak with Lucy Butler, the voice behind The Mindful Gardener.
Lucy shares her experience of living with depression and anxiety, and speaks honestly about the exhaustion of trying to appear fine when internally things feel very different. Her story is not one of neat answers or overnight transformation. Instead, it is about learning, over time, what helps her feel steadier — getting outside, moving her body, journaling, reading, and spending time in the garden.
We talk about how gardening became more than a hobby for Lucy. It became a way to calm her mind, reconnect with herself, and share something useful with others who might also be struggling. Through her Instagram page, Lucy combines her love of horticulture with a gentle, honest message about mental health, self-care and the importance of small, practical steps.
We also discuss motherhood, raising a child in a world of screens and social media, and the challenge of protecting your child without passing on your own anxiety. Lucy speaks with warmth and honesty about parenting, self-doubt, online life, and the pressure many people feel to constantly create, compare and keep up.
What comes through most strongly in this conversation is Lucy’s quiet strength. She may not always see herself as strong, but her story is full of resilience — in the way she keeps going, the way she shares honestly, and the way she tries to help others feel less alone.
This is a conversation about mental health, motherhood, gardening, anxiety, kindness, and the small things that can help us find our way back to ourselves. As Lucy says near the end of the episode, when she thinks about legacy, she hopes people remember her for being kind — and there are not many better things to be remembered for than that.
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