In this episode of We Are The Reeds, we sit down to reflect on the conversations that shaped our marriage over the past year — the ones that happened in moments of joy, loss, transition, and deep faith.

From walking through unexpected grief, navigating major life changes, and learning how to communicate with humility and unity, we share honestly about what it’s taken to stay grounded, faithful, and connected as a couple. We talk about what we’ve learned about marriage, conflict, finances, faith, and choosing each other in every season.

This episode is for anyone who’s walking through change, carrying unanswered questions, or trying to build a marriage that lasts — even when life doesn’t go according to plan.

In this episode of We Are The Reeds, Zachary and Jazmine dive into a foundational—but often overlooked—element of dating well as a Christian: accountability and submission. They open up about how they invited spiritual covering into their relationship, the difference between accountability vs. submission, and the couples they asked to walk with them—from dating to engagement to marriage. You’ll also hear their personal conflict resolution list (yes, there’s a list!) and what to really look for in a godly partner. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this episode is packed with wisdom, biblical truth, and practical tools to help you walk in relational health.

Timestamps & Key Topics:

00:00 – Intro to Part 2 of the Relationship Series

01:00 – How we invited accountability into our dating season

05:00 – The difference between accountability and submission

10:00 – What to look for in a godly spouse

14:00 – Our Non Negotiable List for Conflict

18:00 – Learning how to fight fair (and not talk over each other)

22:00 – Dating advice for men and women

IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:

• Why submission is beautiful and healthy

• How to identify spiritual covering in your relationship

• The fruit of obedience in your partner’s life

• The 8 non-negotiables we set for conflict

• Real advice for men and women wanting to date with purpose

• What makes someone “ready” to be in a relationship

In this first episode, Zach & Jazmine share the story behind their relationship, the importance of healthy boundaries, and how they knew it was God. They get real about dating culture, purity, and how healing shaped their “yes.”