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We Chat Divorce Podcast

We Chat Divorce Podcast

Written by: My Divorce Solution
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 Divorce is emotional — but it’s also financial. We Chat Divorce helps you understand both. Join hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, for expert divorce insights, real stories, and proven financial strategies that turn fear into focus, focus into knowledge, and knowledge into power. Whether you’re just considering divorce, in the middle of it, or rebuilding after, you’ll learn how to protect your finances, make informed decisions, and move forward with clarity and confidence. The #1 podcast for financial divorce preparation, empowerment, and real talk about money, marriage, and moving on.Copyright 2018-2025 All rights reserved. Economics Personal Finance Relationships Self-Help Social Sciences Success
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  • 191. Divorcing a Narcissist: How to Protect Yourself, Your Finances, and Your Future

    191. Divorcing a Narcissist: How to Protect Yourself, Your Finances, and Your Future
    Apr 15 2026
    Divorcing a narcissistic or high-conflict partner is one of the most emotionally and strategically complex experiences you can face. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we’re joined by high-conflict divorce coach, mediator, and author Victoria McCooey, who shares what it really looks like to navigate divorce when manipulation, control, and emotional abuse are part of the dynamic. Victoria brings both professional expertise and lived experience—offering clear, grounded insight into how narcissistic behavior shows up in divorce, why so many people feel stuck or confused, and what it actually takes to protect yourself and move forward. If you’ve ever felt like you’re questioning your reality, being pulled in multiple directions, or struggling to make clear decisions—this conversation will help you understand why—and what to do next. What You’ll Learn: What defines a narcissistic or high-conflict partner in divorce Why many people don’t recognize abuse until they’re deep in it How manipulation and control show up during the divorce process The emotional and psychological impact of gaslighting Why clarity—not reaction—is your greatest asset in high-conflict divorce How to begin reclaiming your voice, confidence, and decision-making power You don’t need to have everything figured out—you need clarity. And clarity starts with understanding what you’re dealing with. At My Divorce Solution, we see this every day—when emotions are high and information is low, decisions become reactive. That’s why financial clarity is critical, especially in high-conflict situations. When you understand your full financial picture, you regain control of your decisions—not just your circumstances. Resources & Next Steps: Take the Free Divorce Financial Assessment Learn about the MDS Financial Portrait™ Join the MDS Community for expert guidance and support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    37 mins
  • 190. The Hidden Cost of Not Knowing Your Numbers in Divorce

    190. The Hidden Cost of Not Knowing Your Numbers in Divorce
    Apr 8 2026
    Divorce isn’t just emotional—it’s deeply financial. And when you don’t have a clear understanding of your numbers, your mind fills in the gaps with fear, worst-case scenarios, and assumptions that often aren’t true. In this episode, we break down why financial clarity is the foundation of every smart divorce decision—and what happens when you try to move forward without it. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, uncertain, or stuck trying to decide what to do next, this conversation will help you understand why clarity—not urgency—is your most powerful first step. This conversation defines what true financial clarity actually means, why it’s not a feeling, and what must be in place before signing anything. If you’re feeling pressure to “just get it done,” this episode will help you pause, refocus, and make decisions that hold up not just today—but years from now. At My Divorce Solution, this is exactly why we focus on financial clarity before decisions are made—so strategy replaces reaction. The Divorce Financial Clarity Checklist Get clear on your numbers before making decisions. Start with a Free Divorce Financial Assessment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    29 mins
  • 189. The Most Expensive Divorce Mistake Isn’t Legal: What Financial Clarity Really Means

    189. The Most Expensive Divorce Mistake Isn’t Legal: What Financial Clarity Really Means
    Apr 1 2026
    Most people assume the biggest divorce mistakes happen in the courtroom. They don’t. In this episode of Divorce Explored, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down the real—and often overlooked—risk: making decisions before you truly understand your financial picture. Because when you move toward agreement without verified numbers, you’re not negotiating from facts—you’re negotiating from assumptions. This conversation defines what true financial clarity actually means, why it’s not a feeling, and what must be in place before signing anything. If you’re feeling pressure to “just get it done,” this episode will help you pause, refocus, and make decisions that hold up not just today—but years from now. At My Divorce Solution, this is exactly why we focus on financial clarity before decisions are made—so strategy replaces reaction. Get clear on your numbers before making decisions. Start with a Free Divorce Financial Assessment: https://myfinancialportrait.com/get-started Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    28 mins
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